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Korea (South)1897 Posts
Its awesome how the inspiration of a love story by a nice Canadian girl is re-interpreted into a story that is about honour, commitment, confidence and duty to one's job and client in the context of Korea's work environment.
GUYS, you don't get it, its because of his love of his gf, that he has to suffer through this type of work to provide a good quality lifestyle and security to the one he loves. This is a love story of great personal sacrifice, putting aside ethical and moral societal standards to ensure that he continues his work. which is a 24/7 job.
In fact, to really put this into perspective, DanCewithDevil is equivalent to a working girl himself, with only his charm and wit to guide him through serve his uber wealth clients. When you think of it, the girls are being paid and he is being paid to be with the girls and the only one who is really free is the uber rich guy who creates the charade for his own pleasure. It's like some sick porn on live demand!
Keep up the good fight! Don't ever let those working girls get the best of you and keep your love real!
MightyAtom understands your pain and thanks for sharing this first part of this love story. It moved me.
keke ^^
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On January 18 2011 01:56 Zealot)KT( wrote:
Judging from this blog thread and your other blog thread, OP, you are scum. You say you love your girlfriend but you're cheating on her with these "working girls" (you even say so in your other thread), with the excuse that you have to please these Korean businessmen. If this job is so important that you will not give it up because of your girlfriend, at least let her know what you're doing. That would be the least respectful thing you could do. You don't seem to be very reluctant or displeased when having to go with these girls either. You're cheating on your girlfriend without regret. People like you don't deserve having a girlfriend, imo.
You are an ignorant person living in your own perfect little fantasy world.
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On January 18 2011 09:35 zenMaster wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 01:56 Zealot)KT( wrote:
Judging from this blog thread and your other blog thread, OP, you are scum. You say you love your girlfriend but you're cheating on her with these "working girls" (you even say so in your other thread), with the excuse that you have to please these Korean businessmen. If this job is so important that you will not give it up because of your girlfriend, at least let her know what you're doing. That would be the least respectful thing you could do. You don't seem to be very reluctant or displeased when having to go with these girls either. You're cheating on your girlfriend without regret. People like you don't deserve having a girlfriend, imo. You are an ignorant person living in your own perfect little fantasy world.
Please explain. To me it seems like OP is cheating on his girlfriend and everyone in this thread is applauding him for it.
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Aw yeah, love these blogs. 5/5. Can't wait for the next one. 
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Russian Federation3631 Posts
On January 18 2011 09:35 zenMaster wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 01:56 Zealot)KT( wrote:
Judging from this blog thread and your other blog thread, OP, you are scum. You say you love your girlfriend but you're cheating on her with these "working girls" (you even say so in your other thread), with the excuse that you have to please these Korean businessmen. If this job is so important that you will not give it up because of your girlfriend, at least let her know what you're doing. That would be the least respectful thing you could do. You don't seem to be very reluctant or displeased when having to go with these girls either. You're cheating on your girlfriend without regret. People like you don't deserve having a girlfriend, imo. You are an ignorant person living in your own perfect little fantasy world.
Going to go on my random whiteknighting sprees, but Mr. Zealot has a point. What's being discussed is basically the Maury Povich show for the rich, and it will rightly repulse some.
That doesn't mean its not a damn entertaining blog though. OP is a good writer too, and it shows.
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On January 18 2011 08:48 FlowerbedOfDreams wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 01:56 Zealot)KT( wrote:
Judging from this blog thread and your other blog thread, OP, you are scum. You say you love your girlfriend but you're cheating on her with these "working girls" (you even say so in your other thread), with the excuse that you have to please these Korean businessmen. If this job is so important that you will not give it up because of your girlfriend, at least let her know what you're doing. That would be the least respectful thing you could do. You don't seem to be very reluctant or displeased when having to go with these girls either. You're cheating on your girlfriend without regret. People like you don't deserve having a girlfriend, imo. That you, Foucault? 5/5 DanCe, bring us part 2! The more you know...
what does foucault have to do what he said?
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lol what's with the random whiteknight nerds like Ack coming into blogs to talk shit? come on.
User was temp banned for this post.
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I remember reading your old blog on Korean clubs. I find it nice that people like yourself are able to find a niche in life, yours centered around casinos and rich people.
Good job getting Sarah out of there.
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On January 18 2011 11:16 Ack1027 wrote:
It is absolutely fucking hilarious how your first 4 paragraphs are chock full of shit about loving your girlfriend. Guess the shit I said in the last blog struck a nerve?
If you guys wanna read about a baller in korea involved in business, read MightyAtom's blogs not this fucking garbage.
You strike me as a very naive young man.
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On January 18 2011 09:22 MightyAtom wrote:
Its awesome how the inspiration of a love story by a nice Canadian girl is re-interpreted into a story that is about honour, commitment, confidence and duty to one's job and client in the context of Korea's work environment.
GUYS, you don't get it, its because of his love of his gf, that he has to suffer through this type of work to provide a good quality lifestyle and security to the one he loves. This is a love story of great personal sacrifice, putting aside ethical and moral societal standards to ensure that he continues his work. which is a 24/7 job.
In fact, to really put this into perspective, DanCewithDevil is equivalent to a working girl himself, with only his charm and wit to guide him through serve his uber wealth clients. When you think of it, the girls are being paid and he is being paid to be with the girls and the only one who is really free is the uber rich guy who creates the charade for his own pleasure. It's like some sick porn on live demand!
Keep up the good fight! Don't ever let those working girls get the best of you and keep your love real!
MightyAtom understands your pain and thanks for sharing this first part of this love story. It moved me.
keke ^^
Wow I just read some of your blogs. Really strong stuff. If you ever wanna hang out let me know  . I won't try and get you to come lose $ at the casino!
And it's good see that you're experienced and smart enough to realize the sacrifices some of us have to make.
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Korea (South)1897 Posts
On January 18 2011 12:10 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 09:22 MightyAtom wrote:
Its awesome how the inspiration of a love story by a nice Canadian girl is re-interpreted into a story that is about honour, commitment, confidence and duty to one's job and client in the context of Korea's work environment.
GUYS, you don't get it, its because of his love of his gf, that he has to suffer through this type of work to provide a good quality lifestyle and security to the one he loves. This is a love story of great personal sacrifice, putting aside ethical and moral societal standards to ensure that he continues his work. which is a 24/7 job.
In fact, to really put this into perspective, DanCewithDevil is equivalent to a working girl himself, with only his charm and wit to guide him through serve his uber wealth clients. When you think of it, the girls are being paid and he is being paid to be with the girls and the only one who is really free is the uber rich guy who creates the charade for his own pleasure. It's like some sick porn on live demand!
Keep up the good fight! Don't ever let those working girls get the best of you and keep your love real!
MightyAtom understands your pain and thanks for sharing this first part of this love story. It moved me.
keke ^^ Wow I just read some of your blogs. Really strong stuff. If you ever wanna hang out let me know . I won't try and get you to come lose $ at the casino! And it's good see that you're experienced and smart enough to realize the sacrifices some of us have to make.
^^ I was being a bit tongue-in-cheek, but you really can't expect anyone outside of Korea or someone outside your industry to understand, let alone relate; I'm sure when you were young in America you may have had a similar reaction if you heard such things, but i just wanted make the situation a bit lighter.
hehe, I probably know your boss's bosses , so if we do meet, we should meet at a TL meet up outside of the casinos or they will think I'm trying to recruit you to do something, besides at a Korean casino, I know which tables have the wrong card shoe, so I can't lose too much if I play. ^^
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Russian Federation3631 Posts
And it's good see that you're experienced and smart enough to realize the sacrifices some of us have to make.
I guess I have to admire the ability to lie with a straight face or self-imposed delusion seen here...
Do you seriously view this as a "sacrifice"?
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DanCeWithDevil, although your job is baller and I do like your blogs in general, I've got to admit the fact that you are forced to cheat on your gf bothers me. Your rationalization is understandable - that if you didn't have one nighters occasionally you'd be out of many grand a month and unable to support yours and your gf's lifestyle. It seems to me you've had to make compromises that can wear down on one's core beliefs. You and everyone here knows that cheating is immoral, that if you were ever outed your girl would be justly hurt. From what you say you love her a tremendous amount, and I don't doubt you. You're in a corner where you can't tell the truth but you also can't stand up for your core beliefs. The way I see it the corner is going to get smaller as months and years go on, and you will have to make a decision to step out. Either choice is fine - you either be completely honest to your girl and ask for her forgiveness and understanding, or you can find some way to politely decline or tell the working girl straight up you're in a happy relationship. Taking responsibility for your actions is paramount - I guarantee walking on a tightrope and being in that corner for the rest of your life is something you do not want to do. At any rate, best of luck to you and I hope everything turns out okay.
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Canada19447 Posts
Since when is chatting up girls cheating - especially if it's your job 0_o? Clearly you've never met hot female bar tenders....
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I love these blogs dude. Keep them coming
Also, I went to a PC Bang yesterday in ilsan, and I literally saw four massage parlors. I would have gone, but I'm underage
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Korea (South)1897 Posts
On January 18 2011 13:27 Tazza wrote:
I love these blogs dude. Keep them coming
Also, I went to a PC Bang yesterday in ilsan, and I literally saw four massage parlors. I would have gone, but I'm underage
LOL, for the under aged, do not think that what he writes is the proper life to live; if it happens, you should deal with it, but until it does, let your innocence be considered the most important virtue, because you'd definitely lose it soon enough; so value it now.
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On January 18 2011 13:21 Kennigit wrote:
Since when is chatting up girls cheating - especially if it's your job 0_o? Clearly you've never met hot female bar tenders....
He is put in a situation where he sometimes has to sleep with prostitutes paid for by his clients. Most of that stuff is actually in the blog Zlasher referred to.
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Wait, so you got Sarah to come with you while your client went with his girl? Did you two go to that special VIP lounge or what? Just wondering~
This was actually a really cool read haha...keep them coming!
 why does all posting always stop after I post TT
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On January 18 2011 13:57 Z3kk wrote:Wait, so you got Sarah to come with you while your client went with his girl? Did you two go to that special VIP lounge or what? Just wondering~ This was actually a really cool read haha...keep them coming! why does all posting always stop after I post TT
That VIP lounge was a lie to get Sarah to stop mother hen'ing the other girl.
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On January 18 2011 13:57 Z3kk wrote: why does all posting always stop after I post TT
rofl I feel the same way... We just post at a time when it's too late and get unlucky
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