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Froadac
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States6733 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-06 06:42:27
January 06 2011 06:39 GMT
#1
So I didn't have that much HW today, and sort of procrastinated bad anyways :/ I'll do it all during our free period in band tomorrow lol. Feel like such a slacker.

So during this slacking period I watched some GSL vods and was in my room watching them and then...

my mom is gone? wtf.

My brother evidently got in some shitty argument with her about bassoon reeds and so she leaves.

And then my dad comes out and makes us all talk to him and expresses his desire to get a divorce, except for we're still here :/

And then I get accused of slacking, which I did :/

And then It's 10:40 and I feel like shit

Mom just got back and is whining about my computer usage, while she works on a puzzle for like the third day straight like 4 hours a day lol.

**
GT
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Korea (South)141 Posts
January 06 2011 06:50 GMT
#2
This is just my opinion,
I had this issue with my family when I was younger, the important thing is you need to set aside 30 minutes to an hour every few days and sit and talk with them. Believe me, it's worth it to help avoid awful tragedies that you'll regret once it's happened. Just simple communication solves massive issues, a lot of times it's not really even the issues at hand, its something simpler that they can't realize. Parents generally give their lives to their kids and when you spend a lot of time on the PC they really lose focus on what they should be doing as individuals and that creates issues. Trust me, spend a little time with them and it'll make a world of difference, like I said most arguments aren't really about what they're arguing over.

With schoolwork just set a goal, set aside adequate time, and get it done. If you don't care then you don't care, not everyone cares about school and it's really up to them to start caring and even if they don't, so long as you have a good work ethic you won't really need a degree to succeed so long as you can persevere.
RyuChus
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada442 Posts
January 06 2011 06:52 GMT
#3
Well, your feeling is right. You are slacking right now. Also I think your mom is trying to do what she thinks is the best for you though. I honestly think that. Although she tells you you're shit, she probably wants you to prove her wrong, and that's not really what you're doing. PROVE HER WRONG!!!! It'll do some good for you and her. Oh well, probably not the best advice, but do your best.
I have an announcement to make, "Moo!" That is all.
Froadac
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States6733 Posts
January 06 2011 06:55 GMT
#4
Yeah. Slacked today Still have days to make it up though.
rabidch
Profile Joined January 2010
United States20289 Posts
January 06 2011 07:06 GMT
#5
it seems that you aren't that close with your parents... although from what i've been reading it seems a little hard

GT is very right, i also think when you said your mom didnt trust you with driving etc. it says a lot
LiquidDota StaffOnly a true king can play the King.
Froadac
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States6733 Posts
January 06 2011 07:14 GMT
#6
I talk to my parents a lot. Not a good relationship, but Italk to them a lot.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
January 06 2011 07:16 GMT
#7
Your parents have serious fucking issues. Finish out high school well so you can get a scholarship, go to college and stop depending on them.

It honestly makes me mad that he'd bring up divorce in that manner. It's not something you discuss with your kids until there's actually something happening.
ModeratorNow I'm distant, dark in this anthrobeat
Heyoka
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Katowice25012 Posts
January 06 2011 07:28 GMT
#8
Your parents are emotional wrecks, get the fuck out of there as soon as you can and don't look back.
@RealHeyoka | ESL / DreamHack StarCraft Lead
GT
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Korea (South)141 Posts
January 06 2011 07:43 GMT
#9
well if you talk with your parents and they act like this then id have to agree, they arent a good pillar in your life and you should get away from them.
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
January 06 2011 07:46 GMT
#10
On January 06 2011 16:16 Jibba wrote:
Your parents have serious fucking issues. Finish out high school well so you can get a scholarship, go to college and stop depending on them.

It honestly makes me mad that he'd bring up divorce in that manner. It's not something you discuss with your kids until there's actually something happening.

He did write in one of his previous blogs that relations between him and his parents started to deteriorate recently so maybe issues between them are what is causing this.
If they will apply their own "advice" to themselves, won't run from their problems and do anything (including divorcing) about this, then it can mean changes for better for him too.
wwww
ShadeR
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Australia7535 Posts
January 06 2011 07:49 GMT
#11
So who you gonna go with? You old man or ur old lady? Maybe you can finally freeball it?

User was warned for this post
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
January 06 2011 07:55 GMT
#12
On January 06 2011 16:46 beetlelisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 06 2011 16:16 Jibba wrote:
Your parents have serious fucking issues. Finish out high school well so you can get a scholarship, go to college and stop depending on them.

It honestly makes me mad that he'd bring up divorce in that manner. It's not something you discuss with your kids until there's actually something happening.

He did write in one of his previous blogs that relations between him and his parents started to deteriorate recently so maybe issues between them are what is causing this.
If they will apply their own "advice" to themselves, won't run from their problems and do anything (including divorcing) about this, then it can mean changes for better for him too.

From every blog (not just 6), it sounds like they are selfish, mean people. It's like Matilda in real life.

And the issue isn't that they would get a divorce, it's that you don't wield it over your kid's head like that.
ModeratorNow I'm distant, dark in this anthrobeat
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-06 09:39:00
January 06 2011 08:01 GMT
#13
On January 06 2011 16:55 Jibba wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 06 2011 16:46 beetlelisk wrote:
On January 06 2011 16:16 Jibba wrote:
Your parents have serious fucking issues. Finish out high school well so you can get a scholarship, go to college and stop depending on them.

It honestly makes me mad that he'd bring up divorce in that manner. It's not something you discuss with your kids until there's actually something happening.

He did write in one of his previous blogs that relations between him and his parents started to deteriorate recently so maybe issues between them are what is causing this.
If they will apply their own "advice" to themselves, won't run from their problems and do anything (including divorcing) about this, then it can mean changes for better for him too.

From every blog (not just 6), it sounds like they are selfish, mean people. It's like Matilda in real life.

And the issue isn't that they would get a divorce, it's that you don't wield it over your kid's head like that.

They are and you don't wield it over your kid's head like that for sure.
Whatever they will do about their relationship doesn't change this.
But still if they will have less to deal with and thanks to that, stop becoming angered more because of it then they will not cause him as much problems.

edit:
Besides, his dad telling him he's thinking about divorce isn't the worst thing he heard from them.
It's more of an another proof of severity of the situation. I think I would rejoice thinking I would have to deal with only 1 of them at a time, even if it's not going to end with a divorce.
wwww
Railxp
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Hong Kong1313 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-06 11:19:11
January 06 2011 11:15 GMT
#14
if your family life is a wreck, there are various places i would suggest you explore that provide support.

www.freedomainradio.com has a lot of people calling in during sunday shows who are struggling hard to find a way to resolve/communicate or to gain closure. The website isn't just about family issues, but many of its podcasts/interviews do deal with this.


Marshall Rosenberg has also done a lot of work in teaching a nonviolent language of communication. His full series is available on youtube. This man has helped resolve warring villages in unfortunate countries by teaching them how to talk properly. Link below:




i'll probably make a thread in general sometime about his work, because it deserves to be spread around. The series is long, but the workshop is really helpful and will help you a lot in diffusing conflict, if you can make yourself learn how to speak in non violent communication.
~\(。◕‿‿◕。)/~,,,,,,,,>
Krigwin
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
1130 Posts
January 06 2011 17:48 GMT
#15
On January 06 2011 15:39 Froadac wrote:
And then my dad comes out and makes us all talk to him and expresses his desire to get a divorce, except for we're still here :/.

...What the fuck is this? What, did he just sit down and like, "Hey kids, so I'm thinking of leaving your mom and splitting up the family. Doesn't that sound swell?"

Your dad is messed up too and this has been said too many times, but you need to get the hell out of there.
Attican
Profile Joined October 2010
Denmark531 Posts
January 06 2011 18:03 GMT
#16
How I wish I could sit down with your parents and tell them what I think of them...but alas this is the closest I'll get.

Btw, I can't remember if you mentioned in an earlier blog but what do your parents do if you don't mind me asking?
Rising_Phoenix
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States370 Posts
January 06 2011 18:29 GMT
#17
Your brother sounds awesome if he plays bassoon.
Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man stupid and blind in the eyes
Froadac
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States6733 Posts
January 07 2011 00:48 GMT
#18
On January 07 2011 03:29 Rising_Phoenix wrote:
Your brother sounds awesome if he plays bassoon.

I do too.

And I'm better
Elegance
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Canada917 Posts
January 07 2011 02:31 GMT
#19
My parents told me today not to worry about my marks this coming term (Im in university) as long as I pass. Coming from Asian parents I thought it didn't make much sense
Power of Ze
Froadac
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States6733 Posts
January 07 2011 04:09 GMT
#20
Brother is now trying to play parents against me :/
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