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nerium
Philippines512 Posts
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
On July 11 2010 21:01 r3dox wrote: i agree with the poster above me, smart sober girl goes on a walk at 3 am and thinks your cute, how many more hints do you need? she just said she wants to be single in order to avoid coming across like a slut. value her non verbal signals way more than what she says and you'll do fine. +1 The fact that you're talking to each other means you like each other, you don't need to spell it out. And don't talk about relationships so soon.. just hang out and see if you like her and if you like the dynamics you two got. Don't set yourself goals like "we should be officially a couple". Just take it slowly and enjoy the time together. Be yourself - being anything else brings you no good longterm. gl hf | ||
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Nightmarjoo
United States3360 Posts
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
FRIENDS talk about problems and listen all the time. You don't want to go that deep.. | ||
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Zoler
Sweden6339 Posts
On July 11 2010 22:04 G.s)NarutO wrote: Do not message her on MSN , wait for her to message you! Also better meet and talk than chat. Also.. always remember: FRIENDS talk about problems and listen all the time. You don't want to go that deep.. I agree with this, however, I'm going away for 1 week on tuesday, how long should I wait before I call her? (I wont have internet during these 7 days) | ||
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Rev0lution
United States1805 Posts
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On July 11 2010 23:04 Zoler wrote: I agree with this, however, I'm going away for 1 week on tuesday, how long should I wait before I call her? (I wont have internet during these 7 days) There's nothing like "how to treat a woman" instruction, at least not of me. You can tell her you will be away for a week and if she feels like she can message or call you. Maybe message her when you really feel like it. Never give her the impression that you can't be without her etc  !The less interest you show, the more mysterious you are. Mysterious = interesting for women :-) On the other hand, if you don't show enough interest in her, she might think that you actually are not interested.. thin line !Gl , don't rush stuff. | ||
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Yggdrasil Leaf
221 Posts
On July 11 2010 23:23 G.s)NarutO wrote: There's nothing like "how to treat a woman" instruction, at least not of me. You can tell her you will be away for a week and if she feels like she can message or call you. Maybe message her when you really feel like it. Never give her the impression that you can't be without her etc !The less interest you show, the more mysterious you are. Mysterious = interesting for women :-) On the other hand, if you don't show enough interest in her, she might think that you actually are not interested.. thin line !Gl , don't rush stuff. there we go complicating stuff... Zoler, control your anxiety. Do you want to meet this girl? Call her today at a convenient time and ask if she wants to go with you to some fun place when you can after that week. That's fine, that's not being pushy or needy. Have some confidence and balls, man! When you started talking to her, did you plan it? No, it just happened. That's how it usually is, it just happens. Do it and don't think too hard. | ||
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scDeluX
Canada1341 Posts
I would also avoid online conversation or awkward texting. GL HF | ||
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Infernus
Norway222 Posts
TL is sooo good on this! Should just collect all the love-help-replies and make it into a book. "How to get chicks, by TL.net". | ||
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Rev0lution
United States1805 Posts
She was waiting for you to kiss her. | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
Also, if she was waiting on your every move, this when you give her the little bit of "nah maybe" shit. Sounds retarded but it makes her want you more. | ||
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SleepSheep
Canada344 Posts
you be the anchor understand? | ||
DivinO
United States4796 Posts
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
like in your situation you commented that you liked her in some way and she replied (that should actually be enough for a home run) anyways then you take the next logical step and touch her in some way to see if she's cool with that (who knows some girls might be physically more reserved than others!) if she does let you touch her and seems happy with this development then you can obviously go in for the kiss once you're at this stage you can push as far as you feel comfortable with given the situation and your level of being a man pussy, but slow is never entirely wrong once you've gone this far and then just keep pushing until you meet resistance! you'd be surprised how far some girls will go cause they can like you alot from the get go and not show it as directly as you might think this strat has never failed for me in any situation, though some of it does require being able to talk yourself calmly out of situations when you push too far or something but that's rarely an issue. i hate tl girl blogs but for some reason this one seemed like a legit situation where someone isnt fucking 12 years old asking how to interpret a girl blinking at you and then touching your arm, so hopefully you can learn and adapt, while gaining confidence but not being cocky. | ||
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Comeh
United States18918 Posts
Long-term investment (I would say ~1 months). But make sure she knows that you are into her. But, you know. http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=133744 On July 12 2010 12:52 DivinO wrote: Whatever it is, don't do drinkin' and talkin'. Also wise advice. | ||
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Zoler
Sweden6339 Posts
So any tips what to do? I'm really bad at this stuff lol | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
girls expect guys to make moves cause of social norms, so yeah | ||
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Kashmir
New Zealand178 Posts
Go somewhere you know she likes. If you don't, think of things she likes and take her somewhere related to that. Don't overthink things, you'll just stress yourself out for nothing. You'll be fine. | ||
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Masamune
Canada3401 Posts
I've drank a bit so I'm not thinking clearly but pm me tomorrow and I'll lead you to victory! Things seemed to be going fine and if she liked you, she would have been thinking of you regardless...so you messaging her is fine, but it may come across ad a bit clingy. If she was kinda neutral, she wouldn't have been thinking as much, and your attempts would be forced. You should have done small things here and there (add her on facebook or something) AND THAT'S IT. It would leave her thinking and give you a chance to keep in contact with her to strike when you were back from your trip to Uruguay. | ||
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