Thanks to warn us. Very sad she can't make it.
Life can really be a bitch sometimes.
Don't stay alone, hang out with your friends, for speaking/cleaning your mind/just have some people who can support you.

RIP Jen

Yizuo

Germany1537 Posts

June 29 2010 11:55 GMT

#42

Lots of love zOula

RIP Jen

Kyuukyuu

Canada6263 Posts

June 29 2010 12:55 GMT

#43

Fuck.

R.I.P.

Ghardo

Germany1685 Posts

June 29 2010 12:59 GMT

#44

that's terrible... my condolences, zoula.
reality can sometimes be so harsh to us fragile beings, make a tiny mistake in an unfortunate situation and you're gone. it should also remind us that alcohol plus high spirits can lead to disastrous ends.

it's just enormously sad that she died because of such a stupid, innocent, "let's have some fun" situation. really unnecessary.

rest in peace.

lew

Belgium205 Posts

June 29 2010 13:13 GMT

#45

A month ago a guy (21 years old) decided to climb the library in my city(http://www.ark123.be/starnet/leuven/images/bib.jpg). He climbed VERY high and he was almost at the roof. He tried to pull himself up at an arrow of a golden angel but the arrow broke and he felt down and died. If someone tries to climb a building then try to convince him/her to not do it. It's so sad to see people dying at such a young age.

My condolences.

RIP

Sharkified

Canada254 Posts

June 29 2010 13:48 GMT

#46

This makes me so sad, I can see how bad this must've hurt you, but you are a truly good friend and that is the best you could've done really.

Golden Ghost

Netherlands1041 Posts

June 29 2010 13:53 GMT

#47

My condolances are all I can give you. I lost a very close friend last newyears eve who was hit by a car (driver luckily not drunk or anything, just didn't see him somehow with all the fireworks going up).

Everybody has a different reaction to such a loss of a close friend. Like somebody already mentioned don't be afraid to seek the help of a grieving couselor if you feel the need. Especially since you saw her fall and lay there on the ground the acceptance of this can be very hard. Don't be afraid to let your feelings run free as it can really help in the grieving proces (but also don't allow yourself to wallow in the grief as this is counter productive as it prevents you from picking up your life).

What really helped me when my friend died was that all friends came together in the church he and me belonged to the evening he died and just sat there talking and ocasionnally singing.

You will most likely never really forget that night but you have to somehow give it a place in your life so that you can move on.

konadora

Singapore66158 Posts

June 29 2010 14:54 GMT

#48

just..wow.

really sorry to her family and friends, and i hope nothing like this happens to you or your friends either

sucks for something like this to happen, especially to a close friend. i can't imagine how terrible i'll feel if the same thing happened to my close friends. hope you're okay.

Cri du Chat

Germany606 Posts

July 04 2010 02:01 GMT

#49

Just read it today. R.I.P.

QuickStriker

United States3694 Posts

July 04 2010 02:11 GMT

#50

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you (OP) is ok, I can't imagine how horrible one must feel to witness such a disaster first hand and to be one of your close friends. I hope you are ok as well as to the family and friends.

RIP

Cofo

United States1388 Posts

July 04 2010 02:33 GMT

#51

I'm so, so sorry to hear this. Deepest condolences to you, OP.

Sending good vibes your way. Hang in there.

vT.sOel

122 Posts

July 04 2010 02:36 GMT

#52

Truly depressing. I hope you and your friends can deal with it in time and move on with your lives healthily.

Never forget her though, that is the only way to minimize the damage

djcube

United States985 Posts

July 04 2010 02:43 GMT

#53

This is very saddening to hear. I have to say though, did no one try to stop your intoxicated friend from climbing the building? Even doing so while sober is dangerous in itself...

Masamune

Canada3401 Posts

July 04 2010 02:46 GMT

#54

Sorry for the loss

It always sucks having to hear about people dying in these freak accidents. My cousin actually had a similar experience and was rushed to a hospital, but he was lucky enough that the drop wasn't as high or severe, and he is fine today.

Hopefully people reading this blog will realize that drinking and heights aren't a good combo.

AyeH

United States534 Posts

July 04 2010 04:48 GMT

#55

Sorry for your loss.

There was a similar incident at my university where a student attempted to jump from one balcony to another while drunk and fell to his death. I don't think people should drink if they don't have self-control.

Kezzer

United States1268 Posts

July 04 2010 04:56 GMT

#56

The community is with you and Jen, any time a death like this happens it hurts everybody.

RIP Jen

Sigrun

United States1654 Posts

July 04 2010 05:04 GMT

#57

My condolences, Zoula. This was such a sad story to read.

I shared a similar experience in that my friend two years ago fell off a balcony while drinking and was unable to pull through. I wish I could have been there with him before he died, but I was only told about his accident hours after he had already passed away in the hospital, so the news came out of the blue and totally shocked me.

Don't be afraid of venting out your feelings, and stick close to your friends. These next few weeks will be hard, but stay strong and pull through.

Malgrif

Canada1095 Posts

July 04 2010 05:15 GMT

#58

I haven't ever experienced the grief of someone close to me dying. I hope i'm prepared for it when I do. Your friend was too young, i'm sorry. may she rest in peace.