so some of you may have read some of my old blog posts about having gf problems and yea.
well months later, we got back together, were on and off. and she eventually cheated on me, kissed another guy. had sex with him on "our break". but it was weird because the night before she did it, she said she wanted to get back with me and told me that she loved and missed me, etc, etc blah blah blah.
so enough is enough, i cut her off completely and out of no where, she sends me this message on facebook..
my reply... was to send her eamon's song, "fuck it, dont want you back"
fuck cheaters. i cant take anything she says to heart cuz girls will do this to you. it took my friends, who are girls to help me just get over this bitch.
these kinda girls are immature and i donno, will just take things over the line and try to dramatize it for whatever reason. so careful guys.
*edit: i forgot to mention, she let him kiss her while we were together. then i got mad, got jealous, we broke up, but she said she loved me and wanted me back. but the next day, fucked him. then felt bad about it. but i still missed her so we got back together and then a week later, they made a plan to travel alone to spain together. i said i didnt like it, she said they;'re just friends, i said, fuck you, its over and now shes trying to make me feel bad, confessing these last moment things, telling me how she had to deal with a lot of my b.s, but whatever, this is a cheating bitch. dont fall for it guys. i wont ever let this happen to me again.
God, you are doing yourself a HUGE favor man. Don't break your resolve, and don't get back with her. Do yourself a favor, go out with your buddies and hit up some bars. Find some new girls.
GJ handling it, next time never EVER get back with a girl if she cheats on you even once.
better off for ya. you're totally right. I've never had a girl cheat on me per se, but i've seen it happen, and the cheater is always the selfish one. sorry you had to go through it though!
loooooooow blooow she saying you never made her cum. btw it's bullshit, she is lying to save face, dont sweat it, it's standard from the bitches play book.
me and my friends did the exact same thing TODAY to my other friends shitty girlfriend hahahaha. that song is the best thing ever, but have you heard the girls version?
Alright YEA - Just came out of something similar. She was always saying that she was just hanging out with her "friend", doing homework. watching movies into the late of the night ALONE with another guy? Watching movies one on one with the same guy ALONE multiple times? Man i stood with her nonsense for as long as possible but dumped her. The very next day she went official with this dude "friend" of hers. I mean, just how much of a bitch can someone be?
oh god the girl response version of that song is terrible lol
Sounds like you've prevented a lot of future headaches. For any future encounters, I think Eminem's Puke would actually fit better as a "fuck off and die" song =)
On April 06 2010 17:14 fOrQQ wrote: now that its over...PICS? lol jks gjob man, shes a bitch
Might as well, we already know that she never came and swallowed only to make him feel like a king. Doesn't get any more embarrassing than that. Anyways, that letter over facebook (classy!) is pretty redonkulous. You made the right choice, good for you bro!
Not that it's any of my business, but maybe you should work on managing your relationships so they have some meaning and improve not only yours, but also your significant other's (I'm so PC I should kill myself) life. Otherwise a relationship isn't worth it imo. Cheating is a sign that perhaps your girl friend was getting bored of the relationship or you were too predictable to satisfy here subconscious needs. To avoid this in the future, frequent conversations about your day or other random topics can meet these needs for both parties. Don't look at the bad in this, instead look at the good from it. You have more free time, your relationship wasn't going anywhere, you will manage your next relationship better, etc...
Whenever you think of the bad do something to disrupt your though process until you program the good in association with this experience. This goes with all experiences, I would recommend giving it a try. gl.
On April 06 2010 17:14 fOrQQ wrote: now that its over...PICS? lol jks gjob man, shes a bitch
Might as well, we already know that she never came and swallowed only to make him feel like a king. Doesn't get any more embarrassing than that. Anyways, that letter over facebook (classy!) is pretty redonkulous. You made the right choice, good for you bro!
lol yeah
maybe she cheated because she just wanted an orgasm?
Not that is matters in this context, but if anyone cares the Eamon song AND the response were fake, a publicity stunt between the two singers. Don't make the songs any worse, but I still liked them better when I thought they were for real :p
More power to you bro, giving you a virtual fist bump here.
What a retarded broad. I like how she made it seem like her giving you sex in a relationship was some over the top nice thing for her to do by the way she sounded in that message.
God I wish my friend had the same fucking resolve, but hey she is a chick so sanity and logic go out the fucking window when it comes to relationships.
Well done Sir...seriously after reading what she wrote - this girl is "worthless". I liked how she wrote that she is in the lowest point of her life right now - obviously she hasn't met any real problem in her life yet. By the way my grammar is probably better than hers and i am from fucking Czech republic. Writing to you that you never made her and she felt alone when dating you and still loved you is really showing how much she loves you..probably would fuck with another guy that appears and she likes him a bit and wouldn't be ashamed to tell you that she loves you again. Well yeah girls are bitches, but i hate when they try to act like nothing is going on and telling bs. It is probably cause they don't know what they want. I have the same problem, but at least i am not saying bullshit to every girl i meet. GJ
On April 07 2010 04:02 arb wrote: atleast ask to be fuck buddies
This.
Maybe it's because I've never had a problem to be with cheating girlfriends, but yeah she seems to be a real pain in the ass. You made the right choice, dude.
On April 07 2010 07:37 krndandaman wrote: haha something like this happened to me.
just that the guy was my 8years best friend. but after 3weeks of going 1on1 movies with him, hanging with him at his place, etc. she tells me she likes my OTHER guy friend of 5 years.
strained my friendships with these guys for a while until they all realized she was a bitch.
some girls are just ridiculous
interesting
do you consider those guys *real* friends of yours now?
it's inconceivable to me that a real friend would ever start hanging out with your ex in the first place, let alone you forgive him and everything is 'fine' afterwards
Good fucking work man. I went through a similar situation 2 months back but she cheated with 2 other randoms and not her ex. Cheating is cheating nonetheless.
I did a similar thing with posting a link to a song to an ex like 2 years ago after a breakup. She insisted on updating her MSN status to say shit about me because she knew I'd read her statuses and I knew she'd read mine. So I put a link to a song (which I forget the name of but it was about a whore) and she got incredibly cut and decided to go off at me.
On April 07 2010 06:39 Rekrul wrote: if a girl cheats on you, you're doing something really wrong
i remember in one of my old blogs, i mentioned that my gf was chilling with her guy friend a lot and doing weird stuff. and you told me to do something like, tell her to fuck off and if she comes back, good, if not, then whatever.
well i didn't take that advice. instead, i stayed with her and tried to be cool with her hanging out with her "friend", and this is what happens.
i shoulda took your advice before.
i guess that was what i was doing wrong. because even though i tried to be cool with her "friendship", i wasn't ever actually cool with it.
so.. for all other guys out there, we gotta just trust our instincts. it's better to be feared than to be loved so put your foot down on your girl or shes gonna burn ya,
but for everyone. thanks for all the replies, you guys have been really cool.
On April 07 2010 06:39 Rekrul wrote: if a girl cheats on you, you're doing something really wrong
i remember in one of my old blogs, i mentioned that my gf was chilling with her guy friend a lot and doing weird stuff. and you told me to do something like, tell her to fuck off and if she comes back, good, if not, then whatever.
well i didn't take that advice. instead, i stayed with her and tried to be cool with her hanging out with her "friend", and this is what happens.
i shoulda took your advice before.
i guess that was what i was doing wrong. because even though i tried to be cool with her "friendship", i wasn't ever actually cool with it.
so.. for all other guys out there, we gotta just trust our instincts. it's better to be feared than to be loved so put your foot down on your girl or shes gonna burn ya,
but for everyone. thanks for all the replies, you guys have been really cool.
insults or not, tl.net is bomb. lol
later broskis
I did the exact same thing as you did and had the exact same thing happen to me, even the time frame is the same! 3 months ~.
On April 07 2010 06:39 Rekrul wrote: if a girl cheats on you, you're doing something really wrong
i remember in one of my old blogs, i mentioned that my gf was chilling with her guy friend a lot and doing weird stuff. and you told me to do something like, tell her to fuck off and if she comes back, good, if not, then whatever.
well i didn't take that advice. instead, i stayed with her and tried to be cool with her hanging out with her "friend", and this is what happens.
i shoulda took your advice before.
i guess that was what i was doing wrong. because even though i tried to be cool with her "friendship", i wasn't ever actually cool with it.
so.. for all other guys out there, we gotta just trust our instincts. it's better to be feared than to be loved so put your foot down on your girl or shes gonna burn ya,
but for everyone. thanks for all the replies, you guys have been really cool.
insults or not, tl.net is bomb. lol
later broskis
i didn't mean to insult you with my statement, but yeah always trust your instincts they almost never lie. if a girl seems like shes going to cheat on you or she did then shes simply not right for you. even though its sometimes hard to do what you know is sensible because emotions can be a bitch lol.
if you're feeling pissed off at her and stuff the best way to get over her AND piss her off is to completely ignore her instead of posting on her facebook or whatever. don't lash out at all and that will be ur ultimate revenge
Edit: This isn't a slight against girls or anything, she just seems like a normal person. I could see myself easily being with someone who wrote that or even writing something in that rambling tone myself, especially considering the context.
On April 08 2010 00:25 FonzeXD wrote: Another one down. I had a cheating bitch myself ;P once a cheater always a cheater they say... so I cheated on her first to match her ;D after a while though, she asked me why I was calling other people 'babe' and why I had marks on my neck and I said "same as you have marks on your ass from fucking other dudes right? XD" She said no.
...she was being faithful the entire time. WHOOPS xD oh well, that's what happens when people tell you fucked up stories about people xP
On April 08 2010 00:25 FonzeXD wrote: Another one down. I had a cheating bitch myself ;P once a cheater always a cheater they say... so I cheated on her first to match her ;D after a while though, she asked me why I was calling other people 'babe' and why I had marks on my neck and I said "same as you have marks on your ass from fucking other dudes right? XD" She said no.
...she was being faithful the entire time. WHOOPS xD oh well, that's what happens when people tell you fucked up stories about people xP