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ShaperofDreams
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2492 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-03-24 05:59:31
March 24 2010 05:56 GMT
#21
I'd just go and be strapped for cash for a bit. It would send a very independent message.

edit: but yes i agree with previous post try to work it out at a family meeting.
Bitches don't know about my overlord. FUCK OFF ALDARIS I HAVE ENOUGH PYLONS. My Balls are as smooth as Eggs.
VTArlock
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1763 Posts
March 24 2010 05:59 GMT
#22
How does any of that insinuate that I'm not ready to move out on my own?
I was merely trying to get the point across that this money is my money, therefore wether I want to move out, buy a car, or spend it on strippers it is unjust for them to keep it from me to do as I please. When in fact I have all my finances in order, I save more than I spend, I have a good job, I'm independant, and ready to start my own life in a progressive and organized manner.
Nothing I've said instigates me not being ready to move out on my own, it instigates frustration and anger.
Why?
ShaperofDreams
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2492 Posts
March 24 2010 06:00 GMT
#23
dont listen to that guy who was just condescending to you without much information. Listen to ETT.
Bitches don't know about my overlord. FUCK OFF ALDARIS I HAVE ENOUGH PYLONS. My Balls are as smooth as Eggs.
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
March 24 2010 06:00 GMT
#24
On March 24 2010 14:59 TheComeback wrote:
How does any of that insinuate that I'm not ready to move out on my own?
I was merely trying to get the point across that this money is my money, therefore wether I want to move out, buy a car, or spend it on strippers it is unjust for them to keep it from me to do as I please. When in fact I have all my finances in order, I save more than I spend, I have a good job, I'm independant, and ready to start my own life in a progressive and organized manner.
Nothing I've said instigates me not being ready to move out on my own, it instigates frustration and anger.


/facepalm

Oh boy.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27148 Posts
March 24 2010 06:04 GMT
#25
On March 24 2010 14:59 TheComeback wrote:
How does any of that insinuate that I'm not ready to move out on my own?
I was merely trying to get the point across that this money is my money, therefore wether I want to move out, buy a car, or spend it on strippers it is unjust for them to keep it from me to do as I please. When in fact I have all my finances in order, I save more than I spend, I have a good job, I'm independant, and ready to start my own life in a progressive and organized manner.
Nothing I've said instigates me not being ready to move out on my own, it instigates frustration and anger.


If all of this is true, then you should be able to move out without the seven thousand dollars. Maybe it will take you a month longer or so, but it looks like you are on track.

You seriously take your mother to court for seven thousand dollars? Really?
ModeratorGodfather
VTArlock
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1763 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-03-24 06:06:54
March 24 2010 06:05 GMT
#26
On March 24 2010 14:56 EvilTeletubby wrote:
I'm actually amazed at how pretty immature and flat out wrong some of the replies in this thread are. THE WORST THING you can do is lie in this case. Yes, it will get you what you want... in the short term.

Anyways, pwnst4r is the only one here who has a clue, listen to him 100%.

My advice - Yes your mom definitely sounds like a control freak, tbh she would probably be happy if you were her "little baby boy" and she'd have to mother you forever. I can assure you this has NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTHING to do with the money itself. In fact, I'm telling you this, forget about the money. That's not even the issue here. She is fucking scared to let you go, she is scared to give up some of her control over you. She is scared to let you go out into the 'real world'. She won't say it in so many words, but this is the case.

Anyways. It's pretty cool you have stand-up dad in the picture. IMO -> Arrange to have a "talk" with yourself and your two parents. Sit down, and tell them... you're ready to go out on your own, you're ready to make your own mistakes, you're ready to fuck up, and you're ready to learn how to deal with stuff. Tell her she needs to learn to let go and let you be your own person and do your own thing. TBH I would expect her to cry, I would expect you probably have to yell/shout a few things. The key IMO will be your dad, because if he respects you as a man and knows where you're coming from, he should actually back YOU up.

Do it 'the right way', because your mom will have solace in thinking that she can always be your safety net if you ever need it, and you'll know she's always there just incase (instead of burning bridges).

That's plan A. Plan B is to just say fuck it and go so she knows you're serious. But seriously, try plan A.




Edit - Oh and I do agree with itzme_petey, I think you honestly are not ready to move out on your own (take it from me you don't know completely what you're getting yourself into). But you know what? None of us were ever ready to move out on our own when we did it. No one truly ever is, but hey, that's part of it. That's life.


Ah, theres just something that screams well thought out post when I see 10k+ posts. Your advice was extremely well thought out and something I need to think about.I'm sure this whole situation is because she doesn't want to let me go yet, I am the oldest and shes never had to deal with this before yet. The crazy thing is when my mom was 18 she got in her VW bug and drove cross country from Pennsylvania to California, I'm only moving 25 minutes away.
As for the not being ready thing, I agree who really is? But I want to and I'm ready to try (and succeed).
On March 24 2010 15:04 Manifesto7 wrote:
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On March 24 2010 14:59 TheComeback wrote:
How does any of that insinuate that I'm not ready to move out on my own?
I was merely trying to get the point across that this money is my money, therefore wether I want to move out, buy a car, or spend it on strippers it is unjust for them to keep it from me to do as I please. When in fact I have all my finances in order, I save more than I spend, I have a good job, I'm independant, and ready to start my own life in a progressive and organized manner.
Nothing I've said instigates me not being ready to move out on my own, it instigates frustration and anger.


If all of this is true, then you should be able to move out without the seven thousand dollars. Maybe it will take you a month longer or so, but it looks like you are on track.

You seriously take your mother to court for seven thousand dollars? Really?

No not at all, theres not a bone in my body that wants to take her to court, I just dont see the light at the end of the tunnel in the situation, I'm going to continue trying to talk it out with them, if not I'm going to just do it on my own and live frugal for a while.
Why?
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-03-24 06:08:36
March 24 2010 06:07 GMT
#27
On March 24 2010 15:05 TheComeback wrote:
Ah, theres just something that screams well thought out post when I see 10k+ posts. Your advice was extremely well thought out and something I need to think about.I'm sure this whole situation is because she doesn't want to let me go yet, I am the oldest and shes never had to deal with this before yet. The crazy thing is when my mom was 18 she got in her VW bug and drove cross country from Pennsylvania to California, I'm only moving 25 minutes away.
As for the not being ready thing, I agree who really is? But I want to and I'm ready to try (and succeed).


Bolded part is your answer to her motives, haha.

She's going to be a nervous wreck, you know that right? It's good though, just means she cares.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27148 Posts
March 24 2010 06:09 GMT
#28
I guess I shoudl have expanded my thoughts. I agree with ETT about your mother not wanting to let go, and she sees the money as a way to keep you. In the end though, she could cash it out and burn it in the fire pit and it still wouldn't be worth going to court over. In my opinion, family members taking each other to court basically signals the end of any normal relations. Not much is worth that, especially not seven grand.
ModeratorGodfather
VTArlock
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1763 Posts
March 24 2010 06:10 GMT
#29
Ya I understand that and as this thread moved on I think I started understanding more about what the underlying cause is. Ya I'm sure she'll be a nervous wreck, but I'd rather her be a nervous wreck with me somewhere else, than a totalitarian queen with me as her court jester.
Why?
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
March 24 2010 06:13 GMT
#30
On March 24 2010 15:10 TheComeback wrote:
Ya I understand that and as this thread moved on I think I started understanding more about what the underlying cause is. Ya I'm sure she'll be a nervous wreck, but I'd rather her be a nervous wreck with me somewhere else, than a totalitarian queen with me as her court jester.


You're still missing the point though, a little. For what it's worth (and I don't mean this insultingly, trust me), I think you're immature and do have some growing to do... which is exactly where the desire to be on your own comes from. You'll do a SHIT TON of learning/growing then, and fast.

It's all good though... we were all 21 at some point and thought we had everything figured out. Then we moved out on our own and realized we didn't know shit.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
VTArlock
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1763 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-03-24 06:17:59
March 24 2010 06:13 GMT
#31
On March 24 2010 15:09 Manifesto7 wrote:
To ETT: I guess I shoudl have expanded my thoughts. I agree with ETT about your mother not wanting to let go, and she sees the money as a way to keep you. In the end though, she could cash it out and burn it in the fire pit and it still wouldn't be worth going to court over. In my opinion, family members taking each other to court basically signals the end of any normal relations. Not much is worth that, especially not seven grand.


to Mani: Ya your right, its not a very substantial amount of money in any terms and it isn't worth going to court over. even if I did it without the cash I guess it would just make me a stronger person for not using the handicap..

Wow I fucked this quote so bad I cant even tell what you wrote and what I wrote lmao...
Why?
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
March 24 2010 06:16 GMT
#32
Hah. I have to play therapist/psychiatrist/mediator on a daily basis.

That's wisdom speaking though... pretty sure myself and Mani (especially Mani) are the two oldest guys here. We've walked in your shoes.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
VTArlock
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1763 Posts
March 24 2010 06:19 GMT
#33
Wow totally screwed my last post and lost the train of thought. The bottom line of it was I appreciate the advice, and I'll take it all into consideration. Thanks for your guys help. I'll keep you posted on what ends up happening.
Why?
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
March 24 2010 06:20 GMT
#34
Good luck bud.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
BuGzlToOnl
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States5918 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-03-24 06:24:12
March 24 2010 06:23 GMT
#35
On March 24 2010 15:16 EvilTeletubby wrote:
That's wisdom speaking though... pretty sure myself and Mani (especially Mani) are the two oldest guys here.


How can you forget about FuDDx? :p
If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27148 Posts
March 24 2010 06:25 GMT
#36
We are old enough to forget FuDDx. Ilvy too.
ModeratorGodfather
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
March 24 2010 06:29 GMT
#37
Uh... I meant oldest guys in the thread. But sure, get FuDDx in here and we'll have a geriatric fiesta! Well... until someone pops a hernia. Then of course Mani needs to take his medication every two hours, so he might need to stop. And I have to be careful, I just got back from my hip replacement surgury...
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27148 Posts
March 24 2010 06:30 GMT
#38
I have to pee.
ModeratorGodfather
Koiru
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States116 Posts
March 24 2010 06:45 GMT
#39
Mani? -->

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guy wasn't hurt by the way
Pants optional.
goswser
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
United States3519 Posts
March 24 2010 06:50 GMT
#40
You live in a 1.3 million dollar house and have a really good job so you want to ditch everything and move to San Francisco to an apartment, right after you totaled your car?
say you were born into a jungle indian tribe where food was scarce...would you run around from teepee to teepee stealing meat scraps after a day lazying around doing nothing except warming urself by a fire that you didn't even make yourself? -rekrul
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