EPTMy situation isn't close to being like yours but I think I can say that I understand.
Just gotta keep skating (I know, I know, but it fits so well).
I can't let go. - Page 2
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
My situation isn't close to being like yours but I think I can say that I understand. Just gotta keep skating (I know, I know, but it fits so well). | ||
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SOB_Maj_Brian
United States522 Posts
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love1another
United States1844 Posts
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
That's not say I haven't been, though | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
When you see guys that have a hobby they reallly enjoy doing, so many people would like to be around them, like I got friends that lobes to make videos and I would love to be part of their projecct. And yeah once you get out of the hole your in right now you'll most likely have the mood to pick up an interesting hobby to do happily without feeling anything holding you back even if it's Starcraft hing will be so much better and I'll doubt you'll feel the way you do now ever again | ||
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starfries
Canada3508 Posts
go for a walk, wrestle your demons and vow to move on. things will get better. | ||
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
I understand you and YPang a lot. Sigh, I guess I got over it quickly cause not much to even begin with. To even begin imagining what you're going through... Keep trekking yo | ||
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
Give her space, move on with your life and become a better man. When you're ready find her again if you still want to. If you still really want her acting needy to her will only hurt your chances in the future. Embrace the emotions you feel, use them to drive yourself to do things more productive than making emo blogs on tl.net or getting your ass handed to you on ICCUP. "Absence diminishes minor passions and inflames great ones, as the wind douses a candle and fans a fire." | ||
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meegrean
Thailand7699 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Picking up from the "prom" part, I assume you're in the final year of your high school? I had a gf back then (grade 12 in Canada) and she was, on the "records", my 4th gf, but then for her I actually cared about (I kinda just fooled around with the previous 3), but yes karma happens, and she left me around January. I bravely (and stupidly, now that I see it) asked her to prom, and as expected, she said no. Hmmm, great. So, trying to be practical, I drank my ass off for the next few months, and got myself a different prom date, hah. You know, it helps short term to just move onto another girl. But that wasn't the solution to it, as I found out, because I tried to "rebound" with that prom date and it turned out horrible (I basically lost interest because I couldn't forget the previous gf) so that practically, by the time I started university, I was single again. No big deal, there's a much bigger pool at uni, but the fact that I didn't let myself go from the ex-gf really hindered me when I could have advanced further with any of the university girls I met. As it was suggested above, you have to just delete it. If you know that you can't move on easily, then force yourself to do so because if you linger on to a past that can't be amended, then you'll miss out so much on what's to come. Of course, the other solution is... go try the girl again until she either 1) she takes you no matter the circumstance because the feelings is that strong or 2) she gets sick of you and dumps you hard. In either case, you win... I suppose. | ||
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enzym
Germany1034 Posts
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Raydog
United States632 Posts
when I make a game on iccup, why is it not a "ranked" match. basically why does it not count towards my stats where if I join someone else's game it will count. | ||
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
 . Enjoy your life, OP. Please, please, don't be sad. You are in the bloom of your youth and you're experiencing all the raging intense, pure emotions of a young person chock full of hormones. Enjoy it :D. The girl you like might be awesome, but there are tons of other awesome girls out there. The moment you meet one, all this shit is going to seem like a bad dream (which it is). Stay active and eat gummi bears! | ||
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GoShox
United States1845 Posts
On February 07 2010 18:51 meegrean wrote: I know it's tough, but please just delete her and empty the recycle bin. You will move on faster this way. I agree, but I dunno, like you said it's tough. A lot easier said than done. I work at a retirement home and we work in groups of 3 at nights. Tonight I worked with these two girls.. both are pretty cute. So it sounds like it's going to be an awesome night, I mean everything seems awesome. But I guess they're both taken and and the entire night I just hear them talk about their relationships and what not. It kinda sucks hearing about that the entire night. Valentine's Day is coming up soon too..... I guess maybe just part of me wants to see her not be happy, and I saw that temporarily last Monday when I talked to her. It's not like I want her to be sad, but this has affected me negatively and I want it to do the same to her, I don't really know why though. I do know that people generally act happy in public but behind locked doors they're quite different.. I know I'm one of those people. However, it just kills me to think that she could be happier than she's ever been.. I know if I ever saw her fall for another guy, at least within the next month/s, it would probably kill me inside. I just can't get over the fact that I had it so dang good. It's not only that I blew my chance.. it's just that I feel that I let her down as well. It was a perfect situation, one I had been longing for since last May.. when me and a girl are just into each other. Heck, even when I first saw her, I was kinda blown away by how cute I thought she was. I had known her last year but never talked to her.. but randomly I saw her this year for something we were doing for History Club, and I dunno why, but that's when I took an interest to her. Then I started talking to her, then everything happened.. it was all so good and now it's not. Again I hate to come off as emo, but I do think letting feelings out is a great thing, rather than keeping them all inside. I have to say.. I'm starting to think this community is pretty sweet. It's awesome to be able to post a blog about my feelings and read it and get a bunch of advice and see that you're not alone, there's people that have been or are in the same situation as you. On February 08 2010 00:47 Raydog wrote: off topic question, wasn't sure where to ask and didn't wanna make a new topic.. when I make a game on iccup, why is it not a "ranked" match. basically why does it not count towards my stats where if I join someone else's game it will count. Haha  , just make sure you're playing it in one on one mode on an official iCCup map. You can download the map pack from their website. | ||
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GoShox
United States1845 Posts
The fact that I was able to change her mind about that temporarily makes me want to feel good about myself. It makes me want to think that I have something going my way.. she was really set in her ways, but I must have done something right to make her give it a good second thought. However, no matter how much I try to think like that, it doesn't seem to matter. It just kinda leads back to the chance I completely blew. I was talking to a friend about it (<3 jumper) and he said "well even if you had asked her back in December, she still might not have said yes." I want to believe that, I really do.. but I just can't. | ||
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itzme_petey
United States1400 Posts
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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LuckyFool
United States9015 Posts
On February 07 2010 14:39 GoShox wrote: I know you from WCG last year shox. I remember playing you in one of the qualifiers! <3I don't know why I blog about my life on here anyways. Maybe I enjoy that feeling of anonymity.. some people here know me over Starcraft, but let's face it, no one REALLY knows me. | ||
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