My problem is I'm a relatively shy guy and I can rarely spark up a conversation with girls. It's been a habit of mine and I can't really break off from the chains of my pretty low self-esteem. I've done some things in my life that I don't like and it doesn't feel I've accomplish what I deem in my life as fit and happy. When I feel happy, I usually watch anime and it takes away the bordom and the need to hate myself. I don't necessary hate myself for not doing anything or I Just can't cause I dunno what to do. One time I had a crush on this girl in gr 5 (I knw eh) and her mom drives me to the same school as her. Me and the other kids usually play together with her. During one period of lunch, only me and her were alone together but I couldn't say the magic words, I really did like her but I was a shy kid back then. After that year I moved and I haven't really talk to her since. As years past by I've found myself secluded from other people even in highschool but not caring to talk to girls that I've found as self-confident or people that can talk really well. I can't find ways to talk to girls nor do I know ways that people ask questions to girls. It's gotten to the level that I feel I don't need to start a conversation unless my mood for that day feels great but I'm not really sure if I can change to be a better person, any suggestions?
push yourself everyday. u need to keep trying to talk to people and just take chances are risks. sometimes it will be awkward and embaressing but eventually it will just become second nature u will be good at it.
Get a proper idea of what you live for, what is valuable in this world and what the fuck you are doing here else than playing video games, and you'll see that everything takes shape. Don't be satisfied with easy answers. Don't be satisfied by what people say: money, success, hapiness. That's not enouugh and you know it.
Read read read. That's the only, only way not to be an idiot, successful or not. Being a successful idiot is worse than being an accomplished and smart loser.
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
On October 27 2009 06:53 Biff The Understudy wrote:
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
Maybe.
So this is where they turn? :psyduck:
Well, precisely, that's where the whole problem is. I don't say the OP is not nerdy, I just say it seems that some people are not quite happy to be nerds (as hard as it seems to conceive for some people).
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
On October 27 2009 06:53 Biff The Understudy wrote:
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
there are 2 paths to happiness imo. 1.) Be a Buddhist monk and learn to be content with the person you are(your version of nothing) 2.) Strive toward your goals and do the BEST you can. cant ask anymore out of yourself.
Your just scared... all my life i haven't given a fuck about what other people think about me. So i don't know how to help you besides telling you to think about 1 and 2 then decide which is better for you.
On October 27 2009 07:03 Bebop Berserker wrote: there are 2 paths to happiness imo. 1.) Be a Buddhist monk and learn to be content with the person you are(your version of nothing) 2.) Strive toward your goals and do the BEST you can. cant ask anymore out of yourself.
Your just scared... all my life i haven't given a fuck about what other people think about me. So i don't know how to help you besides telling you to think about 1 and 2 then decide which is better for you.
Except that not evreybody consider that being happy is the main goal of a life.
Don't listen to your parents or other adults who are being nostalgic about how it was when they were at your age. Your brain is messing up. Your body is changing. Everything changes and you get confused. You start seeing awful things around you. You do stupid things. Etc. etc. Sometimes it's fun, but as far as I know, it is awful most of the time. As BanZu said: find yourself something you are really interested in and become good at this.
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
Maybe.
So they prefer a life of doubting themselves and posting an emo I'm a Nerd blog on tl.net which will ultimately lead them to no conclusions other than the ones they have already drawn and already cannot implement into their lives because they simply don't have balls which is probably their parents fault for not bringing them up correctly or maybe they are just really small n scrawny or fat which is just unfortunate for them but thats not even an excuse because something can be done about that too.
Stop giving a fuck plz tl.net nerds. Worms don't talk to girls much either be happy ur not one of those.
On October 27 2009 06:53 Biff The Understudy wrote:
On October 27 2009 06:45 Rekrul wrote: WHY DO THESE FUCKING THREADS KEEP APPEARING YES YOU'RE ALL FUCKING NERDS WE GET IT ITS OKAY MAN THATS WHAT STARCRAFT IS FOR
Maybe some people realize that a life made with a computer screen, and/or five (three?) cards in the hand and money to bet is not a satisfactory one for them?
Maybe.
So they prefer a life of doubting themselves and posting an emo I'm a Nerd blog on tl.net which will ultimately lead them to no conclusions other than the ones they have already drawn and already cannot implement into their lives because they simply don't have balls which is probably their parents fault for not bringing them up correctly or maybe they are just really small n scrawny or fat which is just unfortunate for them but thats not even an excuse because something can be done about that too.
Stop giving a fuck plz tl.net nerds. Worms don't talk to girls much either be happy ur not one of those.
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