Ask uNcontroLable - Page 11

On October 12 2009 06:20 uNcontroLable wrote:


I can't tell you how good it feels to walk with him in public and know that I'm almost positively safe. I hate to live by fear, but I've had experiences in my life that have demonstrated both the evil that exists in some people and my inability to always protect myself from it. Having Geoff as a boyfriend has the bonus that most people go out of their way not even to APPEAR to cause me any danger, for fear of his wrath. We've discussed how strange it is that the world is so different for him than it is for me. I'm fairly small, athletic, but wholly unable to defend myself if it came to weapons or full brute force. Geoff, on the other hand, could get stabbed repeatedly or probably shot, and still pwn someone. I always say he should have been born in ancient Rome as a gladiator. His very BONES are like, 3 times as strong and thick as mine. He used to work security and once fought 10 guys at one time. He came home so unscathed I didn't even know it had happened till he asked me to fix the rip he had made in his pants. Usually, intimidation is enough to stop someone from stepping up, which is good, because I think almost every time he has actually punched someone, he has knocked them out. He tries not to use brute force because it can have devastating results. imba.

On October 12 2009 10:09 HeavOnEarth wrote:
are you gonna stop posting when u get a lurker icon o-o;

On October 12 2009 11:13 YPang wrote:


Do girls in general feel unsafe when walking around in public outsider/in mall/store..etc. Or is it just you?

Iike if a dude comes up and asks for directions do girls think of the possibility that they are A). a rapist B) murder C)gangster... etc..?

I mean for me and i'd guess most guys, those things don't even come to mind. Like for example i'm a pretty skinny dude, 5'7-128lbs. And i talk mad shit without noticing, and never felt unsafe... maybe just me.

On October 12 2009 12:26 eMbrace wrote:
1. provided that it fits the person -- what hair length do you prefer on men?

2. do attractive woman always think they look fat? or is it for attention?

On October 12 2009 11:13 YPang wrote:


Do girls in general feel unsafe when walking around in public outsider/in mall/store..etc. Or is it just you?

Iike if a dude comes up and asks for directions do girls think of the possibility that they are A). a rapist B) murder C)gangster... etc..?

I mean for me and i'd guess most guys, those things don't even come to mind. Like for example i'm a pretty skinny dude, 5'7-128lbs. And i talk mad shit without noticing, and never felt unsafe... maybe just me.

On October 12 2009 09:15 uNcontroLable wrote:


There is definitely a difference in how you get treated as a customer based on how you look. I especially notice it when I travel. When I'm all put together and dressed nicely, I get treated like I'm way more important and get way better service than when I'm in sweats, hair all frizzy, etc. Overall, being a young 20-something girl has huge benefits that I can't deny. That's pert of the reason I want to travel so much now, because it won't be so easy to find friends and free places to stay around the world once I'm older lol.

In terms of how does it make me feel? Actually it makes me kind of sad, in a way. First of all because I think all people should be treated based on who they are, not on their looks, but also, to be completely honest, because I know that one day I will be old and my looks will fade and there will be nothing I can do about it. lol. Or, who knows, I could have a tragic accident and be scarred. I guess sometimes when I am reminded that people think I'm beautiful, it stresses me out cause I worry about whether or not they will feel the same about me, or treat me the same, if that ever changes. I want to be loved just for me, you know? It scares me to think I might lose a part of someone's love if it is in any way based on my looks.

That said, I can't say that I don't enjoy the certain advantages that come from batting my eyelashes at the right people at this point in my life. It has gotten me certain opportunities that I definitely wouldn't have gotten otherwise. As such, I can say it also makes me feel extremely blessed. I didn't do anything to deserve a certain genetic makeup, I was just born that way, and I am very thankful that I feel satisfied with the way I look for the most part, because I know a lot of people aren't. Honestly, I don't think that beauty just comes from genes though, I think a large part of why people think I'm pretty is because I am generally very comfortable with who I am, and confident in my own skin. That makes me feel proud, and gives me a sense of responsibility to be a good example for other young women on that front.

Haha does that even answer you question?

On October 12 2009 09:15 uNcontroLable wrote:
Overall, being a young 20-something girl has huge benefits that I can't deny. That's pert of the reason I want to travel so much now, because it won't be so easy to find friends and free places to stay around the world once I'm older lol.

On October 13 2009 07:41 Rekrul wrote:


If the girl is only going out with you because she is impressed by your car, then she is not worth going out with. That said, typical political correctness disclaimer. I find classic muscle cars particularly sexy, and have a weakness for new model Dodge Chargers.