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Clutch3
Profile Joined April 2003
United States1344 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-22 16:47:59
March 22 2009 06:42 GMT
#1
(Note: If the Gen forum is inappropriate for this, my apologies and feel free to move it... but I've never made a TL blog post and don't really want to start now....). I spoilered the photos in case it's too bandwidth-hungry.

One of the reasons I've been scarce on the forums lately is that I got married in January! It was a crazy and wonderful ride, and I wanted to share a few details and photos. For anyone really interested, there's a lot of photos here:

http://picasaweb.google.com/ben.schrag/

The ceremony was January 24, 2009 in Sao Paulo, Brazil (my wife is a naturalized Brazilian) -- the middle of the summer! The wedding site was a private "club" in the city.
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Front view.
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View looking from the altar, down the aisle.
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View from the "groom's suite", above, after dusk.


We had friends attending from a lot of far-away places (China, France, USA, Italy, etc.). The days before, while hectic with plans, were also a kind-of week-long party for all the out-of-town guests.
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Here's me with some of the out-of-town guys before the ceremony. I'm in the center; my brother is to the left of me and my best friend and best man is on the right. My friend Kio, a South Korean, is on the far right. By random chance, he's also a BW fan.


We had a fun mix of a traditional Western wedding with Brazilian and Chinese touches.
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The "double-happiness" wedding cake.
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The guest favors were personalized chopsticks -- corny, eh? (the take-out boxes have traditional Brazilian wedding sweets in them).
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Nerdy touch: all the tables were named after famous physicists (we met in a physics grad program).

We did the traditional thing where we didn't see each other the day of the wedding. But we certainly called each other every 5 minutes to make sure things were still running smoothly. Some pics of her taken before the ceremony.
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At the salon getting all gussied up!
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Close-up of the "hardware". The engagement ring is a blue diamond.

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With her dad on the way to the site. (We rented some kind of faux-old style car for this. Like a Rolls-Royce, but not really...)

The ceremony! I entered to the theme music from the movie "The Last Starfighter". I highly recommend it (the music, not the movie so much...).
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Her entrance.
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At the "altar".
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We read poems before the vows.
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At the end of the (Western) ceremony, a kind of communal vow was taken by everyone in attendance.
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We did a tea ceremony, as well! Some of us had to be brought up to speed on this part.
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First married kiss!
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One of the 5000 posed photos that the photographers made us take after the ceremony.
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In the ride.
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After a while, it got so tedious that we even started laughing during the "solemn" photos.

After all the photos, we went and rested for a little while. (We planned this so we could eat, but there's no way to have an appetite in that kind of situation. So, we just talked and waited.) Then, we went to the reception hall:
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Re-entry in the hall. This was one of my favorite moments.
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I made a retrospective with pictures from our childhoods and from when we met each other, in the form of a fake "movie trailer". That was a lot of work, but super fun to watch with everyone in attendance.
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The best man and maid of honor during the toasts. My best man got pretty emotional (he's never going to hear the end of it...heh heh....).
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For some reason, we decided to not do a "first dance", but instead replaced it with a "first song"... for which we sang a karaoke duet of "All I Ask of You" from Phantom of the Opera. So in addition to all of the other planning we had to do, we also had to rehearse in the days leading up to it. This part, I have a feeling, I will never hear the end of.
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During the reception, she changed into a more traditional Chinese "qi pao" dress. Very pretty. I hadn't seen either dress before the day.
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Spontaneous shot of everyone on the dance floor! One of the things i noticed about being at your own wedding is that anyone you see, immediately asks for a photo. And, also, anyone you see wants to give you a drink. I think I literally received 20 different drinks from people, many of them people who were just working there! I don't think I finished any of them (thank God, cause I am a lightweight...)

Finally, I commissioned a portrait for the occasion, from TL's own Glider!
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The time-lapse video was shown during the cocktail hour and everyone loved it!


Overall, the whole thing was a blur. Exhilarating and incredibly tiring at the same time.

Hope you enjoyed the photos!
Gryffindor_us
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
United States5606 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-22 06:49:14
March 22 2009 06:43 GMT
#2
Congratulations! A veteran getting married :D!

Edit: Your wife is beautiful! Great pictures!

Edit2: Lol I liked the one "English translation provided for the gringos" haha.
Remember 11-12-04. 이윤열 ~. |||| ZerO, IriS, JangBi, Stork, BackHo! Mah Jae Yoon is no longer a feared entity.
kefkalives
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Australia1272 Posts
March 22 2009 06:43 GMT
#3
CONGRATULATIONS MAN! BEST WISHES.
prOxi.bOn ; \\ What makes most people feel happy/Leads us headlong into harm.
JWD
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States12607 Posts
March 22 2009 06:46 GMT
#4
Congrats sir, your wife looks very pretty in her dress.

(sidenote: a few of the images above are not loading properly, I'm sure you'll get it worked out though ^^)
✌
nttea
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Sweden4353 Posts
March 22 2009 06:49 GMT
#5
This one goes in BLOGS
a-game
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Canada5117 Posts
March 22 2009 06:50 GMT
#6
congrats clutch, you've always been one of the best posters on this site. nice to hear life is going well for ya.
"you wouldnt feel that way if it was your magical sword of mantouchery that got stolen" - racebannon
Titusmaster6
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States5937 Posts
March 22 2009 06:53 GMT
#7
Congratulations man haha and the glider touch was awesome. Happy for you!
Shorts down shorts up, BOOM, just like that.
miNi
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
Korea (South)2010 Posts
March 22 2009 06:53 GMT
#8
looks like it was an awesome wedding.
congrats and best of luck to you!
Etherone
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1898 Posts
March 22 2009 06:56 GMT
#9
Congratulations, best wishes.

Loved the setting, the dresses, and the portrait ^ ^.

epic photos thanks for sharing

shavingcream66
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States1219 Posts
March 22 2009 06:57 GMT
#10
dear white people, stop stealing our WOMEN!?!!!! ! !

just kidding, you guys look great together. Best of luck!
omfghi2u2
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States831 Posts
March 22 2009 07:02 GMT
#11
Some of the pictures wont load for me damnit. But from the pictures I did see, it looked like a real classy wedding.

Hopefully they will load. >.>

Congratulations by the way!
Piste
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
6183 Posts
March 22 2009 07:46 GMT
#12
Congratulations man!

(but this is blog-material imho...)
Physician *
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
United States4146 Posts
March 22 2009 08:03 GMT
#13
congrats man jeje nice to see u so happy!
"I have beheld the births of negative-suns and borne witness to the entropy of entire realities...."
Physician *
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
United States4146 Posts
March 22 2009 08:06 GMT
#14
On March 22 2009 15:50 a-game wrote:
congrats clutch, you've always been one of the best posters on this site. nice to hear life is going well for ya.
amen to that
"I have beheld the births of negative-suns and borne witness to the entropy of entire realities...."
Spenguin
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Australia3316 Posts
March 22 2009 08:19 GMT
#15
grats!!!! :D:D:D

Some of the images aren't working for me ;_;

On March 22 2009 15:49 nttea wrote:
This one goes in BLOGS


Hey man good for you
< TeamLiquid CJ Entusman #46 > I came for the Brood War, I stayed for the people.
ibutoss
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Australia341 Posts
March 22 2009 16:00 GMT
#16
Congratulations stranger, wish you all the best
Nada got Yooned
Plexa
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
Aotearoa39261 Posts
March 22 2009 16:02 GMT
#17
congrats man!

Nice pics too
Administrator~ Spirit will set you free ~
Excalibur_Z
Profile Joined October 2002
United States12240 Posts
March 22 2009 16:42 GMT
#18
Congratulations to you Clutch, best of luck in your marriage =)
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Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
March 22 2009 16:48 GMT
#19
wow really nice pics. Congrats ^^
Clutch3
Profile Joined April 2003
United States1344 Posts
March 22 2009 16:53 GMT
#20
Thanks for all the warm wishes, guys!

I've no idea why the pictures are flaky. (They seem to load somewhat randomly, at least for me. Any ideas? ... is it because they are linked from Picasa?) If anyone has run into this, let me know.
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