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Friends with benefits! Pt. 2

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mordk
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Chile8385 Posts
January 28 2012 06:04 GMT
#1
Alright, so this post is meant as an update to the situation I described in my previous blog post: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=305205

So, like I stated in one of my comments, while I think there might be problems with this type of friendship, the truth is I think it's pretty hard to stop ourselves from hooking up, and now I got proof of it.

Right now, I just got home from her appartment, in which she had a small gathering of friends. I had gone in my car, so I wasn't drinking, and I could leave whenever I wished. After everyone left only my friend, her roommate and me were still there, so I just told her I'd leave. My friend went like: "I'll walk you down", and I went like "sure, thanks" (Right now I don't think it was too subtle, who the hell walks someone to the parking lot lol).

Once downstairs, all sorts of things started happening. As soon as we were out of sight of prying eyes we got together. It was nice, fun, and pretty... spontaneous, and extremely exciting.

Apparently she's been thinking about this too, and apparently, we've both agreed to carry on with it, with the "perks" it involves. I'm not sure what I'm doing here it's just extremely impulsive, and while it scares me a bit, it's also awesome.

I don't think I can stop it at this point, so I might as well enjoy it... right?

*****
mizU
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States12125 Posts
January 28 2012 06:05 GMT
#2
Go with the flow.
if happy ever afters did exist <3 @watamizu_
Gummy
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
United States2180 Posts
January 28 2012 06:08 GMT
#3
Congratulations maybe. :D/D:
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ There are three kinds of people in the world: those who can count and those who can't.
calgar
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States1277 Posts
January 28 2012 06:10 GMT
#4
Make sure to watch this and this to prepare yourself. You might as well go with it. Realistically, is there a good chance things get weird in the end? Probably.
EG.lectR
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States617 Posts
January 28 2012 06:12 GMT
#5
Asking on an internet forum...hmm...
@colindeshong
mordk
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Chile8385 Posts
January 28 2012 06:13 GMT
#6
On January 28 2012 15:12 EG.lectR wrote:
Asking on an internet forum...hmm...

Anonymity is a good thing toi have XD... and on my last post I got some pretty good advice
pyrogenetix
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
China5094 Posts
January 28 2012 07:50 GMT
#7
Just go with it... too late to back down now... enjoy it while it lasts
Yea that looks just like Kang Min... amazing game sense... and uses mind games well, but has the micro of a washed up progamer.
eviltomahawk
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States11135 Posts
January 28 2012 08:01 GMT
#8
The last time my friend walked me down from her room, we only said bye for the night.

And nothing ever came out of it. Ever.
ㅇㅅㅌㅅ
eohs
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States677 Posts
January 28 2012 08:31 GMT
#9
hmm i have an ex gf that me and her every once and a while hook up. Its great at first and when you just have the impulse to have sex its great also. The thing you have to worry about is growing feelings for her or the other way around. Let me tell you that one of you will grow feelings for the other that is the tricky part of this. No matter what sooner or later it will happen. My advice is to stay with it just dont expect her to be the "only one" she is sleeping with, and hope she understands that if something comes up with another girl that you are free to do as you want.

Funny part is me and her set rules, this may sound weird, we call each other when we want it, however I am free to date who I want, she is free to date who she wants. There is no EMOTIONAL baggage with the situation we have together. I would recommend that a talk is in order.. lol or leading someone on hurts later.
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mordk
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Chile8385 Posts
January 28 2012 14:28 GMT
#10
On January 28 2012 17:31 SeizeTheDay wrote:
hmm i have an ex gf that me and her every once and a while hook up. Its great at first and when you just have the impulse to have sex its great also. The thing you have to worry about is growing feelings for her or the other way around. Let me tell you that one of you will grow feelings for the other that is the tricky part of this. No matter what sooner or later it will happen. My advice is to stay with it just dont expect her to be the "only one" she is sleeping with, and hope she understands that if something comes up with another girl that you are free to do as you want.

Funny part is me and her set rules, this may sound weird, we call each other when we want it, however I am free to date who I want, she is free to date who she wants. There is no EMOTIONAL baggage with the situation we have together. I would recommend that a talk is in order.. lol or leading someone on hurts later.

Yeah we discussed this last time a bit. Basic rules are:

-Each of us is free to seek any type of relationship with anyone else.
-We will stop as soon as one of us finds a serious couple.
-We will stop if one of us starts falling in love.
-We won't stop seeing each other as "just friends".. studying together, getting some drinks, etc.

Point 3 is hard to pull off with enough time of course, but like I said, I don't think I can stop this now .
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