we dont have any sexually transmitted illness so its ok on that front. shes a nurse and takes proper precautions always and we can always get free blood tests or whatever

erin[go]bragh

United States815 Posts

April 07 2009 03:25 GMT

#22

Me and my gf have been using the pill for about over a year now, no problems. If she takes it at the same time every day you really have nothing to worry about... I'm still childless after over a year of condomless fornicating. (And I'm a fucking horn dog. Seriously.)

And hey, some pills have the chance of making her breasts bigger too (dead serious) so its a win/win IMO.

I warn you though, condomless sex is like the Dark Side of the Force. There is no going back. If you guys try anything and she ends up deciding she wants to stick with the rubbers... You'll probably want to end your life.

Edit: To clarify, the pill is very cheap (a couple dollars every month? and the gf is paying for it, sweet deal) I personally notice zero side effects, and although you have to take it every day something like 4 of the pills are inactive (basically sugar pills just to keep you in the habit of taking it every day) so even if you miss one it often isn't a huge deal if your lucky enough to land on one of those inactive ones.

IzzyCraft

United States4487 Posts

April 07 2009 03:33 GMT

#23

Get vasectomy save your good healthy young sperm and breed super children when needed.

R3condite

Korea (South)1541 Posts

April 07 2009 03:58 GMT

#24

On April 07 2009 11:58 JohnColtrane wrote:

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yeah, but its possible to get backpressure on the nuts and permanent pain =/

i cant think of much worse than constant testicle pain, can you? vasectomies are kinda harsh, i was thinking more of a temporary solution rather than surgery

DUDE my fukin balls went upwards to hid!

jeez... the thought of it is just.. ugh

anyhow ur gf should realize that she is fukin around w/ her hormones by using birth control

the pills u take monthly r the type that fools ur body into thinking that u r pregnant and thus keep any more eggs from coming out...(these r the ones that make girls' breasts larger - necessary in successfully feeding babies)

but yeah birth control pills tend to really fuk around w/ the hormones
i don't believe there is/was any proven study on if it has damaging affects but sooner or later all hormone changing shits always comes out to be at high risk for blah.. they just nvr make the connection fast enough...

by all means do it but make sure ur girl knows wat she is getting into

birth control pills also may have undesirable side effects some of which is depression and mood swings =/

VorcePA

United States1102 Posts

April 07 2009 04:16 GMT

#25

My best friend and his girlfriend have just been using the pill and no other contraceptive for about a year now. The only precaution they take is that he doesn't finish inside her.

So far no baby, and even if there was, she's pro-choice. (Yeah, fuck my best friend. Got a hot, pro-choice, gamer girl. =\ )

lilsusie

3861 Posts

April 07 2009 04:49 GMT

#26

You do realize that she needs to take the pill effectively for a month before you decide to jump in without a suit.

CaucasianAsian

Korea (South)11591 Posts

April 07 2009 04:50 GMT

#27

my friend takes the shot, and has been fucking without a condom with her boyfriend for quite some time now, and she has no side effects afaik. She doesn't get any PMS symptoms, so she really advocates it.

United States6173 Posts

April 07 2009 05:19 GMT

#28

I know of two (now) families that got owned by improper pill usage...

I know of another (now) family that got owned statistically by regular birth control. They're only like 98% effective or something, and they got fucked by the 2%.

Condoms are only 97% effective iirc.

KingofHearts

Japan562 Posts

April 07 2009 05:25 GMT

#29

birth control other than condoms is a nice way to ruin your gf's body.

JohnColtrane

Australia4813 Posts

April 07 2009 05:26 GMT

#30

On April 07 2009 13:49 lilsusie wrote:
You do realize that she needs to take the pill effectively for a month before you decide to jump in without a suit.

yes i realise that

thank you for your responses

JohnColtrane

Australia4813 Posts

April 07 2009 05:27 GMT

#31

On April 07 2009 14:25 KingofHearts wrote:
birth control other than condoms is a nice way to ruin your gf's body.

??? please explain

what about a vasectomy then?

SnK-Arcbound

United States4423 Posts

April 07 2009 06:37 GMT

#32

Condoms don't prevent STD transmittal.

I should say they aren't designed to prevent them, though they are still about 50/50.

Flip a coin, win herpes!

selboN

United States2523 Posts

April 07 2009 06:45 GMT

#33

I wouldn't go for the injections. Some of the side effects are massive mood swings, I had to experience that second hand. Also, my girlfriend was down in her back where they gave her the injection. She said it felt as if she had thrown out her back and this effected her even a month or so after the injection(Don't know if this was because of the way it was administered). Anyways, I'd stick the the pill. It takes more responsibility, but with slightly less side effects with no pre existing conditons.

Just my 2cents

cgrinker

United States3824 Posts

April 07 2009 06:58 GMT

#34

With all of the trash about sex that people post on TL I'd have to say this is the last place you should be looking for BC advice. Go to whatever department of health website has the pregnancy rates on it.

I just realized the oxymoron that is my post

VIB

Brazil3567 Posts

April 07 2009 06:59 GMT

#35

Me and my gf are relying only on pills for 4 years now. So far I didn't notice any side effects myself. She never complained about anything either, the only things that she tells me that worries her a bit, is that the pill might cause health issues much later in her life if she use it non-stop for many years. I have already agreed to stop using it for a while, and go back to condom, from time to time if she feels like it's necessary for her health. But so far she's happy with how we're doing.

I also never finish inside her just to be safe, which helps a lot, I suppose.

Slaughter

United States20254 Posts

April 07 2009 09:34 GMT

#36

Go for the pill, and how old are you? If your less then 25 you should NOT be thinking about a Vasectomy, I mean damn sometimes it just doesn't work or does enough damage that it cannot be reversed. The pill is so much easier then having minor surgery on your junk. And isn't that girls only have like a 3-5 day window a month when the egg is actually released? Its actually not that easy to get pregnant but it happens so often because its done so often, which is why no birth control is 100%. I know a guy who was using condoms and the pill and he got his wife pregnant.