A New Man

On August 05 2008 03:07 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
well.. chew with your mouth open. Girls like men who feel like they don't have to refine themselves when they are with a girl.. it's raw, sexy and commanding.

Don't pull her chair out or open the door. Women of this day and age are feminazis that want/can do all that we can and more. Impeding on her with said activities will only drive her away. Let her open doors for herself, seat herself and generally do what you would do if alone.

Don't grab the check. She is lucky to be with you. In fact I'd go use the restroom right before the check comes, take a long time and come back when you feel she has gotten the message, you won't pander to the traditional mumbo-jumbo.

Talk about yourself, and only yourself. She isn't on a date to discuss that which she already knows; her own life story. Fill her with exciting and new information like what you do for a living, why you are going to be an astronaut someday and how the government is doing it wrong and why you know how it should be done.

Flex repeatedly. Women tend to have smaller muscles and are amazed by masculine muscles. Make sure to draw her attention with lil gestures amped by wrist curl flexes and quad displaying leg straighteners.

You should be on a good start with this.

On August 05 2008 03:16 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
Don't be afraid. Fear leads to hatred. Hatred leads to anger.. anger, leads to the Dark Side of the Conversation: Her. They do nothing. They shop, talk on the phone, clean and cook. Sometimes they shake it up and have an affair or vote but that is pretty rare. Why waste your time discussing that shit? She certainly doesn't want it. Women view their bodies as prisons. They are trapped and envious of their male superiors. Help her feel free for a day and grace her with yourself.

On August 05 2008 03:29 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
Another tactic to take is to appeal to her primal desire to be with the alpha male. Once you get into the restaraunt establish your presence by shooting death glares at every male within sight. The larger ones will probably need a double take and maybe even a full body pump-fake. Once you get into the place seat yourself and immediatly grab the knife and fork. Just hold them with the base of your closed fist on the table. Sit across from her so you can adequately make hip-thrusting girations below the table and stare at her breasts. Women love this. It's a mark of a powerful man that knows what it wants and won't look away. Now it is time for the real display of power. When the waiter comes to take your order grab him by the collar and smash his head down onto the table. Once there pee on him. This will create a scene but the upside is that every male in the place will know exactly who is the alpha male. Your date should be ready for mating now. You have established your domineering presence and (should) have gone unchallenged. It is pivotal that you take your mate to a new location as armed police are probably on the way. They have issues with alpha males.

On August 05 2008 03:46 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
Alright ima bust out my secret weapon.

A lot of the time when I take a girl out on a first date and we go get some food I utilize what I call the "Care for and Nurture" tactic. We do everything as discussed, only I steer away from establishing the alpha male role as it usually results in a location change which isn't condusive to what I have planned. Before the meal have a few drinks, start heavy like with a long island or if under age, a 40 ounce malt liquor that you smuggled in your pants. Move on to more casual drinks like white russians or jager bombs. With the meal have 5-6 beers and cap it off with another long island or 3. While you continue to keep the conversation about yourself you also need to keep her from drinking. THis is hard because it requires multi-tasking but if executed the results are amazing. By the end of the dinner you should be beyond drunk.. falling over and bubbling lil half pukes should be running down your chin at an almost constant stream, but not constant because you want to give the impression that a well-timed kiss is possible.. don't worry, our end goal is far beyond that but the planted concept is what we are going for here.

She will need to pay because you are not coherent enough to do it. She will need to drive and get you home. She will come inside (score, I know) and get you into bed (See where this is going?). She will probably begin to undress you and get you ready for some bed action. Make the move. This will need a strategy shift, cannot talk about yourself at this point which is fine given the circumstances, tell her she is pretty and stroke her hair. Try and sober up, I usually put a lighter to my tongue while she isn't looking but something else can be done (use your imagination).

Now that I have you half naked with a woman in your bed the rest is up to you. She has natural nurturing tendencies because she is a mere woman. Play the book correctly and this can be a date for the ages.

On January 07 2009 09:25 SchOOl_VicTIm wrote:


and like travis said, you don't have to prove your confidence by pretending to be something you're not. just learn to accept responsibilities and be ready to take action for what you want and enjoy life with what it has to give you. you should never end up doing something just to show off that you're confident. it kinda contradicts the whole idea..

On January 07 2009 07:41 travis wrote:
if you have to actively try to create an image, then it is fake. that's the whole point.

just be yourself, seriously. that's real confidence.