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What's the fastest way to get over a girl?

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Chau
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada408 Posts
December 30 2008 13:52 GMT
#1
So...to contrast all those blogs that were here. Like...a couple months ago...

My girlfriend just broke up with me a couple days ago, and...the vast majority of my friends are out of town for one reason or another, so...I need some help...and I'm willing to accept advice from strangers over the internet, at this point.

*
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
December 30 2008 13:54 GMT
#2
Find another girl, seriously.
village_idiot
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
2436 Posts
December 30 2008 13:56 GMT
#3
1. Stop acting like a pussy.

2. Start acting like a man.

3. Get a new woman.
Spenguin
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Australia3316 Posts
December 30 2008 13:57 GMT
#4
Porn.
< TeamLiquid CJ Entusman #46 > I came for the Brood War, I stayed for the people.
Chau
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada408 Posts
December 30 2008 14:03 GMT
#5
Isn't that just covering up the situation with a different one, though?
Nytefish
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United Kingdom4282 Posts
December 30 2008 14:05 GMT
#6
Well it should help you realise your ex isn't the only person in the world that can make you feel happy.
No I'm never serious.
CaucasianAsian
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
Korea (South)11598 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-12-30 14:07:58
December 30 2008 14:07 GMT
#7
think of all the tiny little things that pissed you off, and concentrate on those things. Then think of her taking a shit while she does those tiny annoying things.

Easy 100% over her. No more attraction.
Calendar@ Fish Server: `iOps]..Stark
dyodyo
Profile Blog Joined December 2005
Philippines578 Posts
December 30 2008 14:10 GMT
#8
Channel your strength/attention to a different thing/person/game/activity. Pick up a new hobby. Read books. Play more Starcraft/Other games. Watch Vods etc. Just busy yourself with something, but it should be something you truly enjoy. Good luck!
TeamLiquid CJ Entusman #26
yubee
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States3826 Posts
December 30 2008 14:17 GMT
#9
smoke a bowl
Elvin_vn
Profile Blog Joined March 2004
Vietnam2038 Posts
December 30 2008 14:20 GMT
#10
fastest way is not the best way

u need time

a healthy amount of grief is not bad
do not agrue with idiots, they will pull you down to their level and beat you with their experiences
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
December 30 2008 14:20 GMT
#11
On December 30 2008 23:03 Chau wrote:
Isn't that just covering up the situation with a different one, though?


It's called moving on, trust me it helps. The sooner you find a new person in your life the sooner you can get over the other person. It will keep you from sitting around dwelling on your first girl wondering what went wrong.
lxginverse
Profile Joined May 2008
Monaco1506 Posts
December 30 2008 14:22 GMT
#12
get laid...
fromis_9 enjoyer
Elvin_vn
Profile Blog Joined March 2004
Vietnam2038 Posts
December 30 2008 14:32 GMT
#13
On December 30 2008 22:52 Chau wrote:
So...to contrast all those blogs that were here. Like...a couple months ago...

My girlfriend just broke up with me a couple days ago, and...the vast majority of my friends are out of town for one reason or another, so...I need some help...and I'm willing to accept advice from strangers over the internet, at this point.


and don't be a pussy wtf

Stop any communication with your ex.I bet you already repeatably tell her you loved her and begging her for second chance and stuff. I think that's enough! STOP all communication, period.

Take this opportunity to be a better man, like I did.
do not agrue with idiots, they will pull you down to their level and beat you with their experiences
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32149 Posts
December 30 2008 14:35 GMT
#14
heroin










in your dick
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
Chau
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada408 Posts
December 30 2008 14:37 GMT
#15
Actually, I haven't talked to her since then, but I'm going to have to, at some point or another...

We share quite a few friends.
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
December 30 2008 14:44 GMT
#16
How long were you dating, and how serious did it get?
NotSupporting
Profile Joined February 2008
Sweden1998 Posts
December 30 2008 14:51 GMT
#17
What's the fastest way to get over a girl?

- Kill yourself

Conclusion = It's not always good to do everything in the fastest way.
Chau
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada408 Posts
December 30 2008 14:53 GMT
#18
We were together for about a year, and...well, it was the most serious relationship either of us had.

And, alright, fastest probably isn't best...
decembrie
Profile Joined December 2008
93 Posts
December 30 2008 14:55 GMT
#19
Tell her to duck before you jump.
nada.
TryThis
Profile Joined February 2007
Canada1522 Posts
December 30 2008 15:01 GMT
#20
new years in coming up, one night stand is what you need
Dwell
JMave
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Singapore1806 Posts
December 30 2008 15:37 GMT
#21
Don't post it on TL. Because we just rub everything in your face again.

But seriously, just think that since it didn't happen, she's not the one for you. Even if you forced her and yourself to be together, you wouldn't be happy either. And that doesn't make sense. Why the fuck would you fight to keep yourself unhappy?

She's just a girl no fucking big deal. Sometimes I think about the girls I used to like and it gets so ass depressing because you used to think about how you failed but it just doesn't matter in the end. When you get married, you'd see all this little pain as nothing. Because the glory then outshines the suffering now.

火心 Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
JMave
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Singapore1806 Posts
December 30 2008 15:48 GMT
#22
BTW. There's no easy way. Just gota bite the bullet.
火心 Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
fight_or_flight
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States3988 Posts
December 30 2008 15:56 GMT
#23
This blog is baller.
Do you really want chat rooms?
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
December 30 2008 16:28 GMT
#24
best way is to pick up something new, meet new people stuff like that

and avoid any place you could see her
Roffles *
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
Pitcairn19291 Posts
December 30 2008 16:52 GMT
#25
Just find some other shit to do. You'll get over it.
God Bless
chaoser
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States5541 Posts
December 30 2008 16:54 GMT
#26
On December 30 2008 22:56 village_idiot wrote:
1. Stop acting like a pussy.

2. Start acting like a man.

3. Get a new woman.


you guys say this as if it's that easy. depending on how long you've gone out with the other person, it could be very hard to just let go.

a good way to get over her is to focus on something else. go join a sports team, focus/pick up a new hobby, anything to get he off your mind. try to make new friends that can do that hobby with you/keep you occupied. after a while you'll notice a couple of months have passed by and that it hurts a lot less
Haven't you heard? I'm not an ex-progamer. I'm not a poker player. I'm not an admin of the site. I'm mother fucking Rekrul.
Night[Mare
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Mexico4793 Posts
December 30 2008 16:56 GMT
#27
haha read my blog
Teamliquidian townie
b3h47pte
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States1317 Posts
December 30 2008 17:25 GMT
#28
Starcraft
MiniRoman
Profile Blog Joined September 2003
Canada3953 Posts
December 30 2008 17:51 GMT
#29
Gotta just ride it out like everyone said. It'll be 'kay. Flirt with girls for sure, if you don't feel like you want to take it any further then it's still fun to flirt with new girls. You've been taken for a year, your natural pimp level has probably risen so you can try to hunt for new game :O!
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