On September 16 2007 05:20 thedeadhaji wrote:
Talk to CaucasianAsian.

His mom thinks he's on druggs, and he can't convince her otherwise despite repeated drug test saying otherwise

Don't remind me T_T

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Korea (South)693 Posts

September 15 2007 22:15 GMT

#22

I cooled down now since I went out but I guess I was being too harsh...but still, I just wish that she can let me be more "private" It's not like I always game or anything..I study too.

fanatacist

10319 Posts

September 15 2007 22:18 GMT

#23

On September 16 2007 07:15 vstar wrote:
I cooled down now since I went out but I guess I was being too harsh...but still, I just wish that she can let me be more "private" It's not like I always game or anything..I study too.

Everyone understands your point of view. I'm going through the same right now - others have been though it in the past.

But you also have to realize that soon you will be out of her control and reach forever, and this is really the last time where she has any say in your life. It must be a scary moment for any parent. She just wants to set you off on your own (more or less) with the best possible start. 2100 on your SAT is good, but don't you think you could do better? That's probably what she is thinking right now. SC has no future for most of us, and she takes that into account; studying on the other hand does, and she takes that into account as well. It's not surprising what she chose.

Sure she over reacted, and it's good that you accept that you over reacted as well n_n.

Physician

United States4146 Posts

September 15 2007 22:45 GMT

#24

fanatacist and CaucasianAsian said it all already..

EpiK

Korea (South)5757 Posts

September 15 2007 23:07 GMT

#25

Dude, calm down... Your mom just wants you to succeed in life.

Blind

United States2528 Posts

September 15 2007 23:34 GMT

#26

Wait until she passes away and see if you still feel the same way.

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Korea (South)693 Posts

September 15 2007 23:40 GMT

#27

On September 16 2007 08:34 Blind wrote:
Wait until she passes away and see if you still feel the same way.

Good one.

Raithed

China7078 Posts

September 16 2007 00:05 GMT

#28

your mom sounds like my mom, doesnt matter, as long as youre under THEIR roof, they fucking own you.

HeadBangaa

United States6512 Posts

September 16 2007 00:14 GMT

#29

Whoa your mom is a fucking bitch.

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Korea (South)693 Posts

September 16 2007 00:30 GMT

#30

On September 16 2007 09:05 Raithed wrote:
your mom sounds like my mom, doesnt matter, as long as youre under THEIR roof, they fucking own you.

I know..it sucks :\

Flying_Llama

Canada419 Posts

September 16 2007 00:36 GMT

#31

On September 16 2007 09:05 Raithed wrote:
your mom sounds like my mom, doesnt matter, as long as youre under THEIR roof, they fucking own you.

QFT

Raithed

China7078 Posts

September 16 2007 00:56 GMT

#32

but you know, depends on your heritage, i mean. im chinese and i still live with my parents(expensive living here if i do live on my own, maybe if i find 2-3 roommates). youre lucky to have a father that basically cares enough but doesnt care to the extent that your mom is affecting most of your private/social life. when one of my parents bitches at me, the other usually does. theres no remorse. and being a single child even sucks more because they have no one else to blame but their product. most times when my father comes home from work, frustrated, guess who he takes the bullshit out on? me. youre lucky to have a 50/50, i have 99/1, and all on me.

Pressure

7326 Posts

September 16 2007 01:18 GMT

#33

every asian parent is like that

they just care about your future alot

have you seen my dad
seriously

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Korea (South)693 Posts

September 16 2007 01:31 GMT

#34

I bet your dad beats you
jk

ilovejonn

Canada2548 Posts

September 16 2007 01:47 GMT

#35

Whose mom isn't?

ATeddyBear

Canada2843 Posts

September 16 2007 01:54 GMT

#36

On September 16 2007 10:18 Pressure wrote:
every asian parent is like that

they just care about your future alot

have you seen my dad
seriously

bet he always puts PRESSURE on you

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Korea (South)693 Posts

September 16 2007 01:55 GMT

#37

On September 16 2007 10:54 ATeddyBear wrote:

Show nested quote +

bet he always puts PRESSURE on you

LOL -_^

Blind

United States2528 Posts

September 16 2007 02:55 GMT

#38

Nevermind, not worth the trouble.

SayaSP

Laos5494 Posts

September 16 2007 03:59 GMT

#39

On September 16 2007 10:18 Pressure wrote:
every asian parent is like that

they just care about your future alot

have you seen my dad
seriously

Hahahaha Pressure's Dad made him rewrite a letter 10 times, and print it out 10 times to take over to let him see it. His dad would just say, "Do it over." Pressure at least your Dad at least says to do it over. My dad knocks me on the head and points me back over to the computer

Krohm

Canada1857 Posts

September 16 2007 06:10 GMT

#40

All of you don't realize how lucky you are to have parents that even give a shit. Growing up, I had a dad who got drunk every night. Came home at 2 A.M. My mom and him would fight, then he'd go to work at 8 A.M, and I wouldn't see him until 2 A.M again. My dad never cared.

My mothers a whole other piece of work too. Growing up I never had anyone that would tell me I could do anything I wanted to do. Never.

Unfortunately my words I'm typing are probably falling on blind eyes right now. Just consider yourself lucky.

(But yeah, your mom sounds like a bitch rofl)