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Alright guys i am in need of some bro advice, so lay it on me. In one hour I am going to visit my friends place and have a "sleepover". the reason it is a "sleepover" is because i plan on leaving his house at about 8:30pm and go to my other friends house lets call her, her. I'm 19 btw and my meddling parents are like write your friends # on the board so that we can call if we need you. The plan is to just "forget" and proceed with the plan above. Wake up at her house at 9 am and go back to my house all in time for church.
For some reason though I'm having second thoughts about this. My parents and the rest of my family will leave on a roadtrip in a couple of weeks which will leave me at home to go over to her house anytime. I am also thinking of moving out for the next school year. Should i just cancel my plans or go for it or play it safe. I have a feeling i will most definitely get laid if i go to her house.
FAAAAAAAAACK!!!!
Helps
i will take other fool proof plans into consideration
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Go for it.
Of course, only if you actually like the girl.
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On July 07 2013 04:51 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Alright guys i am in need of some bro advice, so lay it on me. In one hour I am going to visit my friends place and have a "sleepover". the reason it is a "sleepover" is because i plan on leaving his house at about 8:30pm and go to my other friends house lets call her, her. I'm 19 btw and my meddling parents are like write your friends # on the board so that we can call if we need you. The plan is to just "forget" and proceed with the plan above. Wake up at her house at 9 am and go back to my house all in time for church.
For some reason though I'm having second thoughts about this. My parents and the rest of my family will leave on a roadtrip in a couple of weeks which will leave me at home to go over to her house anytime. I am also thinking of moving out for the next school year. Should i just cancel my plans or go for it or play it safe. I have a feeling i will most definitely get laid if i go to her house.
FAAAAAAAAACK!!!!
Helps
i will take other fool proof plans into consideration
I don't see why you shouldn't go.
You are risking practically nothing, I'd just be flat out honest to your friend and cancel your plans and go. There should be no issues, I'm 19 and if it's some girl I actually like and not too looking forward to that sleepover with your friend, I'd jump at it in a heartbeat.
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On July 07 2013 05:02 FiWiFaKi wrote:Show nested quote +On July 07 2013 04:51 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Alright guys i am in need of some bro advice, so lay it on me. In one hour I am going to visit my friends place and have a "sleepover". the reason it is a "sleepover" is because i plan on leaving his house at about 8:30pm and go to my other friends house lets call her, her. I'm 19 btw and my meddling parents are like write your friends # on the board so that we can call if we need you. The plan is to just "forget" and proceed with the plan above. Wake up at her house at 9 am and go back to my house all in time for church.
For some reason though I'm having second thoughts about this. My parents and the rest of my family will leave on a roadtrip in a couple of weeks which will leave me at home to go over to her house anytime. I am also thinking of moving out for the next school year. Should i just cancel my plans or go for it or play it safe. I have a feeling i will most definitely get laid if i go to her house.
FAAAAAAAAACK!!!!
Helps
i will take other fool proof plans into consideration I don't see why you shouldn't go. You are risking practically nothing, I'd just be flat out honest to your friend and cancel your plans and go. There should be no issues, I'm 19 and if it's some girl I actually like and not too looking forward to that sleepover with your friend, I'd jump at it in a heartbeat.
I like her a lot, and I do plan to tell my friends about it, its a group sleepover and i will still hang out with them for like 6 hours before i leave to go to her place.
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Write your guy friends number on the board anyway? Might make it easier to sustain this courtship in the long run.
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you're an adult, so don't be afraid to make your own decisions. but if you just wanna spend time with her and think you might want an actual relationship in the future, maybe just play it slow and go on a date or something instead. unless your parents don't want you to have a girlfriend at all, in which case it might be time to have a talk with them or move out.
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On July 07 2013 05:23 Erik.TheRed wrote: you're an adult, so don't be afraid to make your own decisions. but if you just wanna spend time with her and think you might want an actual relationship in the future, maybe just play it slow and go on a date or something instead. unless your parents don't want you to have a girlfriend at all, in which case it might be time to have a talk with them or move out.
pretty much this. We have gone on a few dates before and my parents found out that i was lieing to them and going to hang out with her. If i had told them the dates wouldn't have happened. Kind of why i'm looking for a place to move out to for upcoming school year.
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You're an adult man. Man up or move out. Go for it!
Good luck though ~
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Do shit before it's too late.
Or end up like me... ^_^
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On July 07 2013 05:13 obesechicken13 wrote: Write your guy friends number on the board anyway? Might make it easier to sustain this courtship in the long run.
What if she calls at 10:00 P.M?
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At 19 parents won't let you go over to a girl's house. I feel bad for you. Would they really try to stop you, or just look down on you?
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Bro you're 19. Go for it.
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Hey, beefcakes
Go for it. This sounds really doable. Lying to my parents about where I was ended up being the only way I had that kind of fun unhindered.
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Northern Ireland22203 Posts
Are you Asian or something?
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On July 07 2013 06:27 Luepert wrote:Show nested quote +On July 07 2013 05:13 obesechicken13 wrote: Write your guy friends number on the board anyway? Might make it easier to sustain this courtship in the long run. What if she calls at 10:00 P.M? Meh... I guess do what you want.
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On July 07 2013 07:19 darklordjac wrote: Bro you're 19. Go for it. this. YOLO
but seriously yolo
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On July 07 2013 08:38 ahswtini wrote: Are you Asian or something? I thought the default on TL was to assume everyone is asian until proven otherwise.
Update this blog later, tell us how showing your mysterymeat to "her" goes.
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I'm not sure which is worse. That you have to dodge your parents or that you have to ask us.
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Brunei Darussalam622 Posts
DONT DO IT.
Seriously. What if your parents get mad? Then they wont trust you enough to leave you alone when they go on vacation.
Just play it safe.
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