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Cainam
United States421 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10344 Posts
Puhhhhhleeeeeeez Tap that shit. | ||
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farvacola
United States18846 Posts
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Cainam
United States421 Posts
farvacola: Apologies for my brevity. It's 2:30 in the morning and I've consumed copious amounts of the reefer. | ||
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MasterOfPuppets
Romania6942 Posts
On February 06 2013 16:31 Cainam wrote: MDJ: Doesn't matter. He's my best friend. She is off limits period I would never do that. Therein lies the problem... You're saying just because that guy has no shot with her you shouldn't either? | ||
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Cainam
United States421 Posts
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MasterOfPuppets
Romania6942 Posts
On February 06 2013 16:25 Cainam wrote: and he has had a thing for her for years. Yeah this doesn't usually turn out as well as the respective dude would hope, and even if it does it doesn't tend to last long. Life isn't a manga nor a romance flick, sadly. Obviously you're gonna do what you want, but you gotta realize that sometimes you need to look after *your own* best interests. I mean it's not like by passing up this opportunity you're giving it to your friends, let's face it, "He has had a thing for her for years" that ship's pretty much long sailed. Unless we're missing some crucial information here, but even so... years? | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10344 Posts
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
Sucks for you though. | ||
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run.at.me
Australia550 Posts
Your loyalty is a good thing, but in the real world chemistry between two people should not be intervened by jealousy or insecurities. Pursuing a relationship behind his back would be a dog move, however if the chips landed on you and the girl developing something, you need to address him and express how much you like the girl and how much she likes you. Then it's just up to him from there, and a best friend would get over it. | ||
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XDJuicebox
United States593 Posts
"The worst thing that can happen is you'll have a funny story later." DO IT. NO REGRETS BRO. | ||
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synapse
China13814 Posts
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TOCHMY
Sweden1692 Posts
I know it sucks man. Been in this position before myself, but there will ALWAYS come another girl that you will feel for. Reading all these answers... None of you knows how his friend is as a person, how can you give such advice? "He should understand" What if his friend has an altar of her with candles and voodoo dolls and big posters and pictures of her with different outfits and postures and facial expressions... OP: Ultimately you have to ask yourself this: Is it worth risking a lifelong friendship with your best pal for a relationship with a girl that might not even last a year? The first step is to tell you friend how you feel. After that you have to feel what to do. | ||
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
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MasterOfPuppets
Romania6942 Posts
On February 06 2013 17:54 TOCHMY wrote: None of you knows how his friend is as a person, how can you give such advice? "He should understand" It's not like he gave us much information to work with, other than that the dude is clearly doing something wrong in trying to approach her. On February 06 2013 17:54 TOCHMY wrote: What if his friend has an altar of her with candles and voodoo dolls and big posters and pictures of her with different outfits and postures and facial expressions... Then he doesn't have a snowball's chance in hell of getting with that girl or any other girl for that matter unless he changes his attitude. Roflmfao that's just creepy. On February 06 2013 17:54 TOCHMY wrote: OP: Ultimately you have to ask yourself this: Is it worth risking a lifelong friendship with your best pal for a relationship with a girl that might not even last a year? "None of you knows how his friend is as a person" right back at you bro. How do you know it's a lifelong friendship just because he said best friend? You know friendships change over time right? It's pointless to speculate this kind of thing because it can go either way anyway. Same goes for the chick, who are you to say she won't be a great fit for OP and might have a great longlasting relationship? You're just making shit up as warped by your own views and perception. On February 06 2013 17:54 TOCHMY wrote: The first step is to tell you friend how you feel. After that you have to feel what to do. I can agree with this though. | ||
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TOCHMY
Sweden1692 Posts
On February 06 2013 18:47 MasterOfPuppets wrote: It's not like he gave us much information to work with, other than that the dude is clearly doing something wrong in trying to approach her. Then he doesn't have a snowball's chance in hell of getting with that girl or any other girl for that matter unless he changes his attitude. Roflmfao that's just creepy. "None of you knows how his friend is as a person" right back at you bro. How do you know it's a lifelong friendship just because he said best friend? You know friendships change over time right? It's pointless to speculate this kind of thing because it can go either way anyway. Same goes for the chick, who are you to say she won't be a great fit for OP and might have a great longlasting relationship? You're just making shit up as warped by your own views and perception. I can agree with this though. Well we are all just speculating so we can drop this shit right now then. | ||
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sob3k
United States7572 Posts
 ). There is no getting mad at other guys, they didn't do anything wrong. | ||
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Monsen
Germany2548 Posts
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ZenithM
France15952 Posts
On February 06 2013 16:27 farvacola wrote: Sounds like she certainly inspired a verbose and dramatic retelling of your encounter. Made me chuckle. | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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