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Sporadic44
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States533 Posts
January 14 2013 13:13 GMT
#81
very negative perspective, but done well
"Opportunities multiply as they are seized."
BrTarolg
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United Kingdom3574 Posts
January 14 2013 15:35 GMT
#82
if you ever get a GF who secretly tries to get pregnant against your will without you knowing about it, what can you do?

Even if you have proof of her actions?
Dapper_Cad
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
United Kingdom964 Posts
January 14 2013 15:48 GMT
#83
If I put all my money in my GFs bank account and then she says it's hers, what can I do?

Try not abandoning your responsibility for birth control.

Wear a condom or get a vasectomy.

On January 14 2013 06:27 Shady Sands wrote:
^^ hilarious username for this thread


It's a hilarious username for existence.
But he is never making short-term prediction, everyone of his prediction are based on fundenmentals, but he doesn't exactly know when it will happen... So using these kind of narrowed "who-is-right" empirical analysis makes little sense.
Zealos
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United Kingdom3575 Posts
January 14 2013 17:15 GMT
#84
I assumed this was a counter argument. Am I the only one seeing this? Showing the flaws in the authors argument?

Bravo btw Shady, another great blog
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Sejanus
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Lithuania550 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-01-14 17:27:50
January 14 2013 17:25 GMT
#85
Just out of curiosity, why are people mad at her? Don't marry women like this, problem solved. Men are free to choose the women based on any criteria, so are the women. Yes women like that do get what they want eventually. Dont be jelous. Dont be mad. If you didn't marry her it's none of your problem. It's the guy who valued those perfect boobs more than personality who has a problem with her now.

I mean there are people outside who kill other people, rob, rape, do 6546534 other bad things, if I got mad at every single one of them, I'd be insane by now. It's actually pretty cool she share's her methods, those with brains can learn a thing or two helpful to recognize bitches like her. So that after the first night we can end it with a promise to call.
Friends don't let friends massacre civilians
Sejanus
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Lithuania550 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-01-14 17:33:25
January 14 2013 17:31 GMT
#86
On January 15 2013 00:35 BrTarolg wrote:
if you ever get a GF who secretly tries to get pregnant against your will without you knowing about it, what can you do?

Even if you have proof of her actions?


You can obviously dump her if it's not too late. Otherwise, well, you are probably screwed. In some areas women have too many rights and men not enough.

Yeah well you can always wear a condom despite what she says, but when she figures you are not trusting her, relationship is likely over. May be for the good if she was a bitch, may be for the bad if she was nice and genuine girl and didn't lie about pills.
Friends don't let friends massacre civilians
Crownlol
Profile Blog Joined October 2011
United States3726 Posts
January 14 2013 23:43 GMT
#87
On January 15 2013 02:31 Sejanus wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 15 2013 00:35 BrTarolg wrote:
if you ever get a GF who secretly tries to get pregnant against your will without you knowing about it, what can you do?

Even if you have proof of her actions?


In some areas women have too many rights and men not enough.



Where in the world, in history, has this ever been true?
shaGuar :: elemeNt :: XeqtR :: naikon :: method
Shady Sands
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4021 Posts
January 15 2013 00:40 GMT
#88
On January 15 2013 02:15 Zealos wrote:
I assumed this was a counter argument. Am I the only one seeing this? Showing the flaws in the authors argument?

Bravo btw Shady, another great blog

Yep, the blog was meant to be quasi-satirical--of both sides of the argument.
Что?
ZERG_RUSSIAN
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
10417 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-01-15 05:53:55
January 15 2013 05:52 GMT
#89
On January 14 2013 07:13 Shady Sands wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 14 2013 07:11 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
Shady, how old are you?

Why do I keep getting this question?

Because you are generalizing your individual life experience to the whole of mankind in a sweeping manner and that's what you do when you're young. If you're older, you should know better. I just want to know where you're at so I have some context to your writing. Similar to knowing that Vonnegut survived Dresden or that Hunter S. Thompson did a shit ton of drugs.

Your writing is decent stylistically (although it has a lot of youthful flair to it, too--like, you know where to put the insight in your writing but your insight itself is a little weak, so you cover it with style and it fools people) but your topic matter is very... well, bitter.

So, again, how old are you?
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ZERG_RUSSIAN
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
10417 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-01-15 06:03:15
January 15 2013 05:58 GMT
#90
That's why most of the comments are stuff like "done well, but negative". You write well, but you have no real passion in your writing. You're writing more for the sake of being a writer than to actually write. It's like those people who will climb a mountain just so they can put the picture of them being on top of the mountain on instagram. Again, your writing is not bad--stylistically, you are a good writer--, but it has no substance to it.

Also, the language which you use in your writing is very cocky and condescending ("kiddo"). It makes us really wonder how old you are to be telling us how life is when I think many of us may actually be older and have more life experience than you. If you could pull back on the flair and replace it with more of a "in my experience" type of style then you'd have a lot less of these types of questions--but if you did that, what would you have in the piece? There would be nothing there worth saying. As it stands, this piece is pure style and no substance.

(If you're gonna be a writer, you're gonna get your writing torn apart by other people. Don't get me wrong; I wish you well in life and I hope you succeed in all of your endeavors. This is part of the tempering process if you're going to be a writer worth anything .)
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lisward
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Singapore959 Posts
January 15 2013 06:39 GMT
#91
A woman wants a man who can provide for her and her kids it's natural and fair. But you should never ever try to attract women with wealth alone, or else when the bigger better deal (man with more money/status) comes, she'll leave. I'd also take any female blogs on what kind of guy femlaes are attracted to with a grain of salt, because most women/people don't know what they want in a partner.
Opinions are like phasers -- everybody ought to have one
Shady Sands
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4021 Posts
January 15 2013 07:04 GMT
#92
On January 15 2013 14:52 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 14 2013 07:13 Shady Sands wrote:
On January 14 2013 07:11 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
Shady, how old are you?

Why do I keep getting this question?

Because you are generalizing your individual life experience to the whole of mankind in a sweeping manner and that's what you do when you're young. If you're older, you should know better. I just want to know where you're at so I have some context to your writing. Similar to knowing that Vonnegut survived Dresden or that Hunter S. Thompson did a shit ton of drugs.

Your writing is decent stylistically (although it has a lot of youthful flair to it, too--like, you know where to put the insight in your writing but your insight itself is a little weak, so you cover it with style and it fools people) but your topic matter is very... well, bitter.

So, again, how old are you?

I'm twenty-four. I feel a little old to be asked my age, is all.
Что?
ktimekiller
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States690 Posts
January 15 2013 07:08 GMT
#93
On January 15 2013 08:43 Crownlol wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 15 2013 02:31 Sejanus wrote:
On January 15 2013 00:35 BrTarolg wrote:
if you ever get a GF who secretly tries to get pregnant against your will without you knowing about it, what can you do?

Even if you have proof of her actions?


In some areas women have too many rights and men not enough.



Where in the world, in history, has this ever been true?


What world do YOU live in? Family law is HEAVILY skewed in favor of women. Unfairly so
Shady Sands
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4021 Posts
January 15 2013 07:16 GMT
#94
On January 15 2013 16:08 ktimekiller wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 15 2013 08:43 Crownlol wrote:
On January 15 2013 02:31 Sejanus wrote:
On January 15 2013 00:35 BrTarolg wrote:
if you ever get a GF who secretly tries to get pregnant against your will without you knowing about it, what can you do?

Even if you have proof of her actions?


In some areas women have too many rights and men not enough.



Where in the world, in history, has this ever been true?


What world do YOU live in? Family law is HEAVILY skewed in favor of women. Unfairly so

Completely depends on the state and nation you live in. Northern and Western Europe-->tilted towards the woman. East/west coasts of America? towards the woman. Texas + US south? Tilted towards the man. Midwest? Neutral. Asia-Pacific? Towards the man. India and Arab states? Heavily towards the man.
Что?
ZERG_RUSSIAN
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
10417 Posts
January 15 2013 08:39 GMT
#95
How can you say that anywhere in the US laws are tilted towards women LOL
I'm on GOLD CHAIN
Shady Sands
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
United States4021 Posts
January 15 2013 08:56 GMT
#96
On January 15 2013 17:39 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
How can you say that anywhere in the US laws are tilted towards women LOL

Paternity laws (e.g. is the kid still legally yours even after you find out she got pregnant by someone else?), asset forfeiture calculations (e.g. do you chop up the assets 50/50, or do you divide it by pre-marital proportions?), validity of pre-nuptial agreements (are they automatically invalid), 'welfare of the child' -- is that the paramount concern of the family court (usually indicates a more generous asset split to the parent which gets the child), custody rules -- how friendly are they to the parent which doesn't get permanent custody, etc.
Что?
dongmydrum
Profile Blog Joined December 2011
United States139 Posts
January 15 2013 09:05 GMT
#97
On January 15 2013 14:52 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 14 2013 07:13 Shady Sands wrote:
On January 14 2013 07:11 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
Shady, how old are you?

Why do I keep getting this question?

Because you are generalizing your individual life experience to the whole of mankind in a sweeping manner and that's what you do when you're young. If you're older, you should know better. I just want to know where you're at so I have some context to your writing. Similar to knowing that Vonnegut survived Dresden or that Hunter S. Thompson did a shit ton of drugs.

Your writing is decent stylistically (although it has a lot of youthful flair to it, too--like, you know where to put the insight in your writing but your insight itself is a little weak, so you cover it with style and it fools people) but your topic matter is very... well, bitter.

So, again, how old are you?


This reminds me of a quote by Stephen Colbert.

"Remember, you cannot be both young and wise. Young people who pretend to be wise to the ways of the world are mostly just cynics"
ZERG_RUSSIAN
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
10417 Posts
January 16 2013 03:18 GMT
#98
On January 15 2013 17:56 Shady Sands wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 15 2013 17:39 ZERG_RUSSIAN wrote:
How can you say that anywhere in the US laws are tilted towards women LOL

Paternity laws (e.g. is the kid still legally yours even after you find out she got pregnant by someone else?), asset forfeiture calculations (e.g. do you chop up the assets 50/50, or do you divide it by pre-marital proportions?), validity of pre-nuptial agreements (are they automatically invalid), 'welfare of the child' -- is that the paramount concern of the family court (usually indicates a more generous asset split to the parent which gets the child), custody rules -- how friendly are they to the parent which doesn't get permanent custody, etc.

That is one section of the law which is slated towards women. Basically every other part is slated towards men.
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