Okay so in my last blog I wrote about reconnecting with an old flame. About a week after that I spent the night at her place and we ended up having sex which wasn't surprising. What is surprising though is the fact that I haven't seen her since. I tried asking her to hang out once or twice after that, but when I received a couple silly excuses I just kind of gave up on it. I've received one text from her since along the lines of "I promise we'll hang out soon I've just been really busy", but I'm not going to hold my breath. I am pretty proud of myself though for not letting it get to me. Normally I'd get a little depressed about a situation like that, but I've handled it pretty well. I'm very proud of that because when things didn't work out with this girl last time I was in a funk for quite some time.
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So that brings us to Saturday. My friend from work was having his fortieth birthday party and he invited myself and our other coworkers to attend. His family and friends are pretty crazy so it was a fairly raucous affair. Much alcohol was ingested along with some other extracurricular substances. Long story short, I ended up fucking his sister (the party was at her place.) She's quite a bit older than me (12 yrs) which is pretty awesome. Finally got to check off the do an older woman box from my bucket list. Her experience made for a fun time as well. But I am now anxious as hell about him finding out. I'm pretty sure she won't say anything but there were still a few people around the apartment when it happened so I'm praying they were all too drunk to remember. There's also the fact that she totally wants to do it again, but I don't know what to do about that. I'd like to, but I think in order for that to happen I'd have to tell him, if only for the sake of my own anxiety.
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I do apologize for the stream of consciousness and the poor writing. Just needed to vent. Figured this was as good a place as any.
My advice is to forget about both girls Girl a, because she's clearly messing you around, all I can forsee is her hurting you again Girl b, because she's 12 years your senior and the sister of a friend. While not impossible, it is pretty unlikely that you will end up dating this girl for an extended period of time, and if you have an FWB type agreement with her, it will probably cost you the friendship of her brother.
however I'm fairly young and my experience is highly limited
The 'oval' is actually a reference the eggs contained in it, but I can see why that would be confusing. Pretty crazy that you can turn an egg into a powder, blows my mind.
She's the sister of your best friend...so? Does he have dibs on her vagina or something?
Last I checked she can do whatever she likes. This isn't Afghanistan, he doesn't have an obligation to kill you for dishonouring the purity of his sister.
Having consensual sex with someone isn't exactly a wrong thing to do, so why would he be angry over that?
If you consider your coworker a friend, that's quite a line you may have crossed my friend. I know if someone I knew didn't personally ask me before they fucked my sister and I found out, there would be some unfriendly words exchanged at the absolute least. This may also depend on the relationship between your coworker and sister, but being that she threw him a party at your place, I can certainly see him having a valid issue with it.
On the plus, you got down, and you can never go wrong with that...unless it's with your coworkers sister and he might find out about it. CMON MAN!
On October 02 2012 14:50 zalz wrote: I never got this...
She's the sister of your best friend...so? Does he have dibs on her vagina or something?
Last I checked she can do whatever she likes. This isn't Afghanistan, he doesn't have an obligation to kill you for dishonouring the purity of his sister.
Having consensual sex with someone isn't exactly a wrong thing to do, so why would he be angry over that?
He's not my best friend, just a friend. And I don't get it either, but I think it has something to do with the time he was raised in.
On October 02 2012 15:05 Battleaxe wrote: If you consider your coworker a friend, that's quite a line you may have crossed my friend. I know if someone I knew didn't personally ask me before they fucked my sister and I found out, there would be some unfriendly words exchanged at the absolute least. This may also depend on the relationship between your coworker and sister, but being that she threw him a party at your place, I can certainly see him having a valid issue with it.
On the plus, you got down, and you can never go wrong with that...unless it's with your coworkers sister and he might find out about it. CMON MAN!
Seriously though, nice
The more I think about it, I think unfriendly words are the worst that could happen. I'm pretty sure I don't see this being a friendship ruiner. I do want to hit that again though and if I'm going to do that I will have to tell him.
oh man, Cainum, teach me, wise one! Oh man, actually... this seems really bad.. actually to my eye its not that bad because she knows her brother for one thing.. and therefore if he will be mad then she also pissed him off. Secondly, she wants to do it again so it wasn't just a drunken thing.
You've had sex with 2 girls (one being 12 years older than you), and you call this a girl blog? A true girl blog is where a girl you constantly stalk continually avoids you and, when you finally conjure up the balls to awkwardly ask her to have a coffee with you, she remarks that you're in the "friend zone" while strolling away in the arms of a tough alpha male...
On October 03 2012 02:48 EffervescentAureola wrote: You've had sex with 2 girls (one being 12 years older than you), and you call this a girl blog? A true girl blog is where a girl you constantly stalk continually avoids you and, when you finally conjure up the balls to awkwardly ask her to have a coffee with you, she remarks that you're in the "friend zone" while strolling away in the arms of a tough alpha male...
I knew something seemed off... there was also no random bragging about her replying to something he said. "Ew, get away creep!" is still a reply, right? Right, guys? Right? Guys?..
On October 03 2012 01:35 Brandish wrote: you didn't tell us how hot the sister was! 5/5 girl blog again
Waist down 10/10 one of the best asses I've ever laid hands on Waist up 6/10 but her experience more than made up for it
On October 03 2012 02:48 EffervescentAureola wrote: You've had sex with 2 girls (one being 12 years older than you), and you call this a girl blog? A true girl blog is where a girl you constantly stalk continually avoids you and, when you finally conjure up the balls to awkwardly ask her to have a coffee with you, she remarks that you're in the "friend zone" while strolling away in the arms of a tough alpha male...
Trust me that was me 4 or 5 years ago. You'll grow out of it eventually.
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