EPT2. go to camp with her
3. convert her from Christianity
4. move on if that fails
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_awake_
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2. go to camp with her 3. convert her from Christianity 4. move on if that fails | ||
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Cyclone999
Canada331 Posts
Despite everyone saying that she's crazy, believe it or not but stuff like this does happen. As christians we believe that visions happen. [quote=Bible] "He said, "Hear now My words: If there is a prophet among you, I, the LORD, shall make Myself known to him in a vision I shall speak with him in a dream." Numbers 12:6 (NASB)[/quote] Well, in this verse (I'm not saying that you guys have to believe in it or anything, just saying what she probably thinks) and the 'prophet' in this verse can be just about anyone (even though it says him, it still can be a her) (there's a word for it but I forgot what it was) I do believe that she had a vision at that camp (these things are not abnormal, to tell you the truth. If you experienced God at a Christian camp, it's totally awesome) and she wanted to tell you. Also, not to pick on either of you but: 2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” The bible actually talks about non-believers and believers. No, I'm not saying you can't be friends with "the other one" but choose your most trusted friends. My parents keep telling me "u nedz to choose a christian gf" because they don't want me to have the temptation of leaving Christianity. And after the summer camp I went to (anvilisland.ca) I probably won't. I'm not telling you to be a christian or anything. It's really hard to convince a Christian out of his/her faith, believe me, I know. We believe in faith, even if we can't see it, we believe it's still there. Call me crazy, call me fool, but I really don't mind. [quote] “You’re blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom.” Matthew 5:10 (MSG)/quote] SO. My advice. If you really like/love her, be a Christian. Go to a camp. You'll discover something, like I did. | ||
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zeru
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Cyclone999
Canada331 Posts
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A GIRL It's one thing to improve yourself in general for girls, but to conform to someone else's specific mold is excess. You should be able to be yourself, if only slightly augmented to make yourself date-able. You should never have to change entirely, especially something as drastic as your entire worldview. | ||
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Zealotdriver
United States1557 Posts
You probably will try to make it work and when the relationship crashes and burns, you'll think "should've heeded team liquid forum." | ||
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
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Bereft
United States1007 Posts
On July 28 2011 04:18 TheGiz wrote: I thought this thread was laid to bed. Don't listen to anyone about your religion; make those decisions based on how you feel about them. Unless you're going to marry someone next year, converting to their religion for them should be out of the question. YOU'RE 17 NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A GIRL It's one thing to improve yourself in general for girls, but to conform to someone else's specific mold is excess. You should be able to be yourself, if only slightly augmented to make yourself date-able. You should never have to change entirely, especially something as drastic as your entire worldview. I agree wholeheartedly with this. Religion is something that you need to figure out on your own, and you shouldn't have to conform your views to match hers. It's possible for 2 people in a relationship to have different views when it comes to religion, and if she can't see that then it's her loss. | ||
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Skilledblob
Germany3392 Posts
And those camps sound like some crazy indoctrination camps btw | ||
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yasushii
United States45 Posts
My friend had the same thing happen to her, except they'd been dating for about a year or so. He went off on a retreat, came back, and told her he wanted to end it, that it wasn't her fault or his fault or God's. It was God's message to him.  Best of luck. | ||
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