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nbaker
Profile Joined July 2009
United States1341 Posts
January 08 2011 05:23 GMT
#21
Dude, you were kind of mean =/
mucker
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
United States1120 Posts
January 08 2011 05:47 GMT
#22
If she didn't trust you it wasn't gonna last anyways. Sounds like you were settling for her from the beginning, you're probably better off.
It's supposed to be automatic but actually you have to press this button.
gongryong
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Korea (South)1430 Posts
January 08 2011 06:00 GMT
#23
not karma. just plain stupidity imo.
why would you do something like that???
JAEDONG ÜBERBONJWA!
TaiYang
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada128 Posts
January 08 2011 06:09 GMT
#24
Seems like a lot of guys are having problems with their girlfriends snooping around their facebook (and getting into deep shit). I just finished reading a story on reddit that was really similar to this. xD
...but the parasites say NO!
Ancestral
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States3230 Posts
January 08 2011 09:27 GMT
#25
Three months isn't all that long. Just because of her violating your trust I would honestly feel more offended than worried. I would simply not put up with that. You don't just snoop around in people's shit.
The Nature and purpose of the martial way are universal; all selfish desires must be roasted in the tempering fires of hard training. - Masutatsu Oyama
NIIINO
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Slovakia1320 Posts
January 08 2011 10:45 GMT
#26
sorry for you.
but havent you watching romantic movies ? god in every one there is some lesson to learn.
Licmyobelisk
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Philippines3682 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-08 11:06:07
January 08 2011 11:05 GMT
#27
fucking facebook, my girl was pretty jealous asking me "Why the hell did I have pretty girls added to to your account?" My only defense was like "Hey babe, I'm pretty good looking that's why those girls added me" and then made the troll face.
I don't think I've ever wished my opponent good luck prior to a game. When I play, I play to win. I hope every opponent I ever have is cursed with fucking terrible luck. I hope they're stuck playing underneath a stepladder with a black cat in attendance a
MightyAtom
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Korea (South)1897 Posts
January 08 2011 13:54 GMT
#28
love never fails,
if you love her,
make it work
even it sucks and one day she will get over it and forgive you and it will be like it never happened.

if she can't get over it and forget it, after the best you try over the next few months (after all you've been going out for 3 months), then you've done your best, we are all only human, and just let it go.

women are women, they get insecure much more than men, and they tend it disregard privacy for peace of mind and when this happens, well, again, if you love her, you can make it work.

you get married and try to have some privacy then, lol
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news
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
892 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-08 18:31:19
January 08 2011 18:30 GMT
#29
On January 08 2011 14:47 mucker wrote:
If she didn't trust you it wasn't gonna last anyways. Sounds like you were settling for her from the beginning, you're probably better off.


Ultimately I think this is a great long-term advice, somehow I am too concerned with what she thinks though. I don't want her to come out of this relationship feeling like it was a complete waste. She is the type of person to constantly think about the things I said and will probably lose the remains of her self-confidence. She didn't date for a long time because she had some horrible experience with previous guys and was about to actually give up trying for the time being. I just can't leave it the way it is now, especially since I was the one that caused the trouble. If it wasn't my fault I wouldn't be inclined to fix it to this extent.

On January 08 2011 22:54 MightyAtom wrote:
love never fails,
if you love her,
make it work
even it sucks and one day she will get over it and forgive you and it will be like it never happened.

if she can't get over it and forget it, after the best you try over the next few months (after all you've been going out for 3 months), then you've done your best, we are all only human, and just let it go.

women are women, they get insecure much more than men, and they tend it disregard privacy for peace of mind and when this happens, well, again, if you love her, you can make it work.

you get married and try to have some privacy then, lol


I think she should be able to get over it because I know that she loves me. I agree with your view on women disregarding privacy for a peace of mind, you are obviously mature and speak from experience.

Something you've said before doesn't quite go along with this post. I remember one of your stories where you ended up feeling good about breaking up with some woman you loved, because after some years passed you realized she was not the one. So thoughts like this are always in the back of my head, I don't want to make a huge mistake just because I am trying to do something 'right'.
"Althought it sounds sexism, and probably is, given the right context, we cannot classify the statement itself as a sexist statement by itself," - evanthebouncy!
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