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il0seonpurpose
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Korea (South)5638 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-28 07:15:13
July 28 2010 07:14 GMT
#1
I have liked this girl for a long time now. It went really well, except we never officially dated. We were in love for sure, I don't care what people say about age and stuff... But now I see the truth, she is just playing me. And another guy, a friend of mine. He is in Korea now and so is she, and he told me about whats going on between them and what they've talked about- their relationship, future, etc. I can not believe this... damn. I was hurt for real b/c I went to korea for a month, then when I came back, she went there. Wow... people are fucked up. But then,again, so am I. She told me not to change, I promised I wouldn't. Then she goes and does the exact same thing. I am so happy I am going to college.

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funkie
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Venezuela9377 Posts
July 28 2010 07:27 GMT
#2
get someeeeeeee :D
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Faraday
Profile Joined April 2009
United States553 Posts
July 28 2010 07:28 GMT
#3
There's plenty of fish in the sea, another girl will make you forget about her(who by the way if she does this she's not right for you and will only hurt you more and more as time passes) and make sure you don't let her reel you in for more if and when she pleases. I know the type...not what they seem at all...
what happened, happened...
Piste
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
6183 Posts
July 28 2010 08:17 GMT
#4
On July 28 2010 16:28 Faraday wrote:
There's plenty of fish in the sea, another girl will make you forget about her(who by the way if she does this she's not right for you and will only hurt you more and more as time passes) and make sure you don't let her reel you in for more if and when she pleases. I know the type...not what they seem at all...
I have to say this. I broke up over two years ago with my biggest love. I've had many girls and relationships after that with awesome girls, but I still miss everyday the one I truly loved. I hope I'll find someone as good and not fuck it up again.

to OP: I hope you'll get over with it soon and find other things!
Polar_Nada
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States1548 Posts
July 28 2010 08:21 GMT
#5
Ah hell, pretty much most people go through this. hahah u will survive!
[ReD]NaDa and fnaticMSI.SEn fighting~! ::POlar @ UC Irvine::
OmniEulogy
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Canada6600 Posts
July 28 2010 09:23 GMT
#6
Maybe you shoulda just made a move. So many problems can be avoided if people (don't want to sound like I'm addressing you in particular) would just suck it up and make the first move lol. But yeah man that does sound rough.
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Pineapple
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
New Zealand126 Posts
July 28 2010 09:53 GMT
#7
FWIW:

Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 7:33 pm Post subject: My dog has more game than you.

My dog has game.

He does WHATEVER THE FUCK he wants, 100% of the time.

One minute he's licking his balls, the next minute he's taking a piss on the couch, the next he's outside gaming the HD10 puppy by sniffing her butt. He is SkuXx~ As far as he's concerned, he is the most alpha and attractive dog in existence.

My dog has no concept of what is right / wrong socially as these are LEARNED behaviors. He barks the shit out of strangers that walk past, chases down dogs that are twice his size, has sex with the neighbors poodle right before taking a shit on their lawn. He has perfect game because he is not running game, it is his natural instincts at work.

As soon as you get into the mindset of 'game', there are rules implicitly set to decide your failure or success. You will be thinking 'is this solid? how can I improve my game? Is this attraction I'm seeing or a shit test?' As a consequence of learning this shit from a book or listening to other people that believe everything they read on the internet. (irony).

My dog doesn't think like that. His reptilian mind is programmed to mate, so he does. His mind tells him to eat so he steals the biscuits out of the pantry. He will not be denied. He will not be choded by dog-training. He will not be AMOG'd by the dogs which are bigger or stronger than himself; he is fearless.

Game does not exist. It just merely a word that we use in conversation to describe an abstraction of our most primal desires and most basic of needs. Our natural instincts.

From now on I shall refer to game as NATURAL INSTINCTS, as the blueprint from meet to sex is inextricably hardwired into every individual on earth through the thousands of years of evolution. Thinking in terms of game prescribes that it is infact a CONSCIOUS series of maneuvers or an overarching strategy from meet to sex. Tell that to my dog. He feels no anxiety when he tries to have sex with the dog next door, he just rocks up with his most alpha intentions in mind and fucks the shit out of her. (too bad he doesn't have balls hahaha). This is the kind of attitude and belief system you should be striving towards whilst not stepping too far out of social norms. (you must first make sense to her reality before she will be sucked into yours)

If you want to see true alpha behavior study animals such as dogs, wolves, apes etc. Man has become too cerebral and too detached from his most primal instincts of survival and reproduction, even though he is influenced by these impulses they are rationalized in the form of socially driven concepts such as status or popularity which do not conform to the naturally-occurring causality of getting laid.

Be more like my dog, get laid~

- Separatist
ssj114
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
Afghanistan461 Posts
July 28 2010 10:37 GMT
#8
On July 28 2010 16:14 il0seonpurpose wrote:
I have liked this girl for a long time now. It went really well, except we never officially dated. We were in love for sure, I don't care what people say about age and stuff... But now I see the truth, she is just playing me. And another guy, a friend of mine. He is in Korea now and so is she, and he told me about whats going on between them and what they've talked about- their relationship, future, etc. I can not believe this... damn. I was hurt for real b/c I went to korea for a month, then when I came back, she went there. Wow... people are fucked up. But then,again, so am I. She told me not to change, I promised I wouldn't. Then she goes and does the exact same thing. I am so happy I am going to college.


Hi il0seonpurpose, long time man. Do you still play Starcraft 1? I remember we had some great conversations on bnet. Sorry to hear about girl trouble. But it's part of growing up. We should play Starcraft 1 together again.
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Grobyc
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada18410 Posts
July 28 2010 11:17 GMT
#9
I hate to be the bringer of bad news, but this:
On July 28 2010 17:21 Polar_Nada wrote:
Ah hell, pretty much most people go through this. hahah u will survive!

If it was some 10 year marriage, sure, that's something that is going to be with your for a while, but you'll forget about it sooner or later and find someone new so don't think it's the end of the world.
If you watch Godzilla backwards it's about a benevolent lizard who helps rebuild a city and then moonwalks into the ocean.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
July 28 2010 12:36 GMT
#10
u were in love but u never really dated?

wat
why so 진지해?
TadH
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
Canada1846 Posts
July 28 2010 12:44 GMT
#11
On July 28 2010 21:36 Rekrul wrote:
u were in love but u never really dated?

wat


Just because you are not in a "formal" relationship does not mean that the unspoken attraction and bond are not there, I honestly feel bad for you if you've never experienced this. It's great when no words need to be exchanged for feelings to be known.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32157 Posts
July 28 2010 14:18 GMT
#12
On July 28 2010 21:44 TadH wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2010 21:36 Rekrul wrote:
u were in love but u never really dated?

wat


Just because you are not in a "formal" relationship does not mean that the unspoken attraction and bond are not there, I honestly feel bad for you if you've never experienced this. It's great when no words need to be exchanged for feelings to be known.


that's not love. that's just you going through puberty and not having any idea at all how to put your newly infused testosterone to work.
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DISHU
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United Kingdom348 Posts
July 29 2010 00:46 GMT
#13
^^ or just Mexican food
Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana. But what are timeflies and why do they like an arrow?
Lexpar
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
1813 Posts
July 29 2010 01:33 GMT
#14
Hahaha that sucks dude. And yeah, that's just a crush. I don't think I've ever been in love, but without dating and the mutual trust that builds you're no where close to love. Anyway, billions of other fish in the sea. I did the exact same thing all through high school: fool myself into thinking I was madly in love with a girl who I talked to a couple times a day, cry in my room for a week when I guy with balls asked her out. You'll find a new girl pretty quick
Tazza
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Korea (South)1678 Posts
July 29 2010 01:44 GMT
#15
Plenty of fish in the sea man, just get over her
il0seonpurpose
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Korea (South)5638 Posts
July 29 2010 02:53 GMT
#16
Yeah thanks guys, it's crazy how feelings change so quickly.
ssj114
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
Afghanistan461 Posts
July 29 2010 02:58 GMT
#17
Indeed. Not only have you forgotten me, but you've ignored me too.
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Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
July 29 2010 03:02 GMT
#18
On July 28 2010 21:44 TadH wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2010 21:36 Rekrul wrote:
u were in love but u never really dated?

wat


Just because you are not in a "formal" relationship does not mean that the unspoken attraction and bond are not there, I honestly feel bad for you if you've never experienced this. It's great when no words need to be exchanged for feelings to be known.


yeah until she goes and fucks another guy behind your back and leaves you in the dust then u have to make a blog on tl.net to vent about it

real love indeed.
why so 진지해?
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22260 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-29 03:10:07
July 29 2010 03:07 GMT
#19
Rek; always putting it in perspective...

And yes, even though you don't want to hear it, or believe that somehow everyone else is wrong and don't know what they're talking about: yeah, age (or rather, maturity) will definitely have something to do with it.

You're not even old enough to drink yet. You'll look back on her in 10 years and be like "LOLOL I can't believe I really thought I was in love ROFL!". That doesn't mean it doesn't suck now, or we don't have empathy, but yeah- you're at the stage of life where you think you have it all figured out and you're about to find out you don't have a damn thing figured out. Enjoy it while you can!
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
ssj114
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
Afghanistan461 Posts
July 29 2010 03:08 GMT
#20
On July 29 2010 12:02 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2010 21:44 TadH wrote:
On July 28 2010 21:36 Rekrul wrote:
u were in love but u never really dated?

wat


Just because you are not in a "formal" relationship does not mean that the unspoken attraction and bond are not there, I honestly feel bad for you if you've never experienced this. It's great when no words need to be exchanged for feelings to be known.


yeah until she goes and fucks another guy behind your back and leaves you in the dust then u have to make a blog on tl.net to vent about it

real love indeed.


You clearly have no idea what real love is. And I'm going to enjoy your responses, no matter what they say. Because by merely responding, you've lost. Joking. Or am I.
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