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"Friendzone" Myth?
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Try
United States1293 Posts
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wishbones
Canada2600 Posts
thats my best example. tv controls us and we love to listen to her, cus she is afterall SEXY as fuck. if someone says i dont want to date you cus we are too good of friends, she obviously isnt interested in dating you and thats that, it has nothing to do with a good friendship. | ||
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AcrossFiveJulys
United States3612 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
the thing you're missing is that girls will often say "OH HES A GREAT FRIEND" or "HES MY BEST FRIEND" about guys they actually want to fuck from time to time close thread | ||
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RAUS
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Murkyith14
United States111 Posts
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Try
United States1293 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:20 Rekrul wrote: 'you're in the friendzone' is another word for 'this girl doesn't want to fuck you' the thing you're missing is that girls will often say "OH HES A GREAT FRIEND" or "HES MY BEST FRIEND" about guys they actually want to fuck from time to time close thread Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception. However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability. | ||
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Ludrik
Australia523 Posts
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wishbones
Canada2600 Posts
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:23 Try wrote: Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception. However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability. nah it's just a term that got overgeneralized to situations where it doesnt apply. That and there's alot of spineless people out there so they use that as an excuse etc etc tl girl threads are places you should never go in the first place...but somehow they draw you in | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:23 Try wrote: Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception. However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability. it's neither, it's a matter of perception. often times a male could have possibly gotten in a girls pants and become her bf if he acted correctly in the right amount of time...but for w/e reason he acted like a pussy/douche and doesn't and the girl stoped respecting him that of course doesn't mean u can't regain a girls respect and attraction this all of course is very obvious to anyone with a brain, but sometimes ppl here like to make blogs saying OMG DOES SHE LIKE ME? and even dumber people like to act cool saying 'no dude, ur in the friend zone, game over' though, if u make a blog complaining about friendzone likely u r in it and will never get out | ||
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Hidden_MotiveS
Canada2562 Posts
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baller
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
However, my RL experiences completely contradict what is apparently common knowledge. The girl I am currently seeing I've known for nearly a year, and one of my best friends just started dating a girl who he was really good friends with throughout all of high school (4 years!). I can name tons of other instances where "good friends" have gone onto serious relationships; is there something I'm missing here? How hot you are is inversely proportional to how fast you get into the friend zone. If you are a really hot guy, you will not get friendzoned ever, if you are ugly and unattractive, then you can be her "friend" instead. so the advice is: -be hot -be sexy -don't be not hot and not sexy | ||
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wishbones
Canada2600 Posts
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Severedevil
United States4832 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:31 baller wrote: i have the opposite problem. i try to make friends with girls, and i hear if u hang out with them long enough u can become their friends, but i always get fuckzoned so fast. does any1 have any tips, bc im seriously a noob at not fucking girls within a few days of meeting them. how do i avoid this fuckzone? You have three options. 1) Be whiny and passive-aggressive 2) Claim to be homosexual* 3) Hang around women who are more attractive/confident I prefer option (3) since you win even if it fails. *: Only works if you're a dude. | ||
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d3_crescentia
United States4054 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:52 Severedevil wrote: You have three options. 1) Be whiny and passive-aggressive 2) Claim to be homosexual* 3) Hang around women who are more attractive/confident I prefer option (3) since you win even if it fails. *: Only works if you're a dude. 4) tell them you have aids | ||
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Comeh
United States18918 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:31 baller wrote: i have the opposite problem. i try to make friends with girls, and i hear if u hang out with them long enough u can become their friends, but i always get fuckzoned so fast. does any1 have any tips, bc im seriously a noob at not fucking girls within a few days of meeting them. how do i avoid this fuckzone? I have this same problem. Your really only solution is either start complaining about an std you don't have or sound like a whiny pansy fuck (pretend like its a sc2 forum). Also, its hard not to love baller. On July 21 2010 12:52 Severedevil wrote: This may not necessarily work, merely because you are so off limits they will want to have sex with you. If they see you dating / sexing another woman, they will jump on you immediately. Similar psychology to women loving men with girlfriends. | ||
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mOnion
United States5651 Posts
if you're like me and in the middle, then you're not allowed to be funny out of the gate, if so you enter immediate friend zone territory. its taken my 6 years to learn all about the friend zone and I am the fucking KING of the friend zone, with a LOOOOOT of girls. I was awarded class clown at a 5A high school with 800 people, and I was friends with ALL the girls, only dated 3. friend zone not a myth, you're either attractive or not that funny | ||
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Kezzer
United States1268 Posts
On July 21 2010 12:29 Rekrul wrote: it's neither, it's a matter of perception. often times a male could have possibly gotten in a girls pants and become her bf if he acted correctly in the right amount of time...but for w/e reason he acted like a pussy/douche and doesn't and the girl stoped respecting him that of course doesn't mean u can't regain a girls respect and attraction this all of course is very obvious to anyone with a brain, but sometimes ppl here like to make blogs saying OMG DOES SHE LIKE ME? and even dumber people like to act cool saying 'no dude, ur in the friend zone, game over' though, if u make a blog complaining about friendzone likely u r in it and will never get out so true lol | ||
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