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hi there
this probably seems like a regular girl blog, and it probably is
I met a girl, we hit it off, after awhile she decided she didnt really have as strong of feelings for me anymore, we broke up. I was being dumb and was being clingy for awhile. This probably fucked over my chances a lot. The problem is, I really think there's something special about her.
I know the logical thing to do is move on, but I want to at least know that I tried and gave it my all to "win her back" or whatever. I know it'll take time. I'm mostly just looking for advice on what I can do to build back attraction with her, or anything of the sort, if it's even possible. Is there anything I can do to make her feel that spark that she did with me when we first became close?
thanks
(edited for seriousness, I wasnt really sounding very serious first time around)
 
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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TL does not allow more than one account.
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this is really fucked up lol
could someone find out who he really is?
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Use your head!! :D
edit: op's edit makes this previously witty statement seem completely out of place 
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On February 24 2010 15:23 AoN.DimSum wrote:
this is really fucked up lol
could someone find out who he really is?
im not anyone important, I just didnt want certain irl friends who come to the site seeing this with my regular name. I completely forgot that the two accounts thing was against the rules, I apologize for that ;o
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the only solution... is rape.
if that's ever a solution??
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Waiting for mod to rename title, release name, and put on front page of TL for epic lulz.
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damn I guess I got here after the edit
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On February 24 2010 15:36 FragKrag wrote:
damn I guess I got here after the edit
its nothing different, I just had it in a more joking manner so people thought that it was some joke blog
I also completely forgot that TL doesnt allow 2nd accounts, so I edited out saying that in the OP, and apologize for that
I actually am just looking for advice though, even before the edit
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On February 24 2010 15:34 Polar_Nada wrote:
>.>
this must be you >:O
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On February 24 2010 15:36 FragKrag wrote:
damn I guess I got here after the edit
Something about his penis wanting this girl and no other.
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Get plastic surgery to improve your jawline and buy those penis enhancement pills. And rubbing yourself with bear pheremones couldn't hurt.
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stop talking to her. completely reverse what youre doing w/out being a straight up dick, cut her out of your life. show her other girls value you.
then close her
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Get another girl ASAP and rub it in her face
+ Show Spoiler +or you could just try to talk things over with her... If she doesn't feel the way she did anymore there must be a reason, right? So figure it out. (Don't try to show her how amazing you are by things you do... After a break up that's just pathetic and she'll lose the little respect she might have had left for you) If she has no good reason then fuck it, she ain't worth it and refer to first line in comment 
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getting on with other girls in a way that she knows is the best
also needy clinging is the bane of anything romantic or fun.
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best way is to move on. get another girl, talk to other girls, have fun with your friends, look busy. make her feel like she made a mistake turning you down and you just shrugged and moved along. make her feel like she had the chance to be part of your awesome busy life but failed. dont act sad, dont act like she's your only hope at a good life. this just confirms her view that you have nothing to offer.
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
I lol'd at the blog name and OP's username.
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On February 24 2010 16:35 Cr4zyH0r5e wrote:+ Show Spoiler +or you could just try to talk things over with her...
no. not at or remotely near the start
On February 24 2010 17:58 pyrogenetix wrote:
best way is to move on. get another girl, talk to other girls, have fun with your friends, look busy. make her feel like she made a mistake turning you down and you just shrugged and moved along. make her feel like she had the chance to be part of your awesome busy life but failed. dont act sad, dont act like she's your only hope at a good life. this just confirms her view that you have nothing to offer.
yes
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Don't be clingy, move on. show you're good for her, not the other way around, and she'll have second thoughts. Chicks are magnetically attracted to social success, which means you moving on and smiling lots amidst friends.
Edit* -- oh, and actually believe the above about yourself, 'cause honestly, you probably are better than her. If you just move on and focus on your success you'll either attract her back, or a girl you like better.
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Never waste too much time on one woman, a mistake I made when I was younger. There are literally a lot of women out there and guess what, many of them top your girl in every possible way.
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On February 24 2010 17:58 pyrogenetix wrote:
best way is to move on. get another girl, talk to other girls, have fun with your friends, look busy. make her feel like she made a mistake turning you down and you just shrugged and moved along. make her feel like she had the chance to be part of your awesome busy life but failed. dont act sad, dont act like she's your only hope at a good life. this just confirms her view that you have nothing to offer.
Yup, pretty much.
Start dating other girls and make sure she knows it.
Act indifferent and arrogant towards her.
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Walk away from her for a half year. No contact.
Reinitiate contact.
This build is your best shot.
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On February 24 2010 22:11 Intr3pid wrote:
Never waste too much time on one woman, a mistake I made when I was younger. There are literally billions of women out there and guess what, many of them top your girl in every possible way.
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On February 25 2010 01:06 snotboogie wrote:
Walk away from her for a half year. No contact.
Reinitiate contact.
This build is your best shot.
It worked for the great Gatsby didn't it?!
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