So the girl and I talked today, it was very wonderful ^^ Hopefully, things will turn out well and we can be very happy together!
We discussed a lot of deep topics, I told her I was sorry for that but she said she liked it ^^ With college, she told me that there will be other girls and that I will forget about her because she might go to California , but I told her that she isn't just another girl. I didn't want to impress her by saying that, I think I will be really sad to not be with her, but if it must, I will love her, even though we will be 2000+ miles apart! I have liked her for so long, I think I can wait ^^ We also talked about marriage and stuff, haha... it was weird but nice. We also talked about ideals (이상형) and I told her that she was my ideal ^^ I told her that I was way down here, and she is way up here, and she thought the same thing but vice versa!
haha jk I suppose you're staying in SK for college? How is your english so good? Am I jumping to conclusions?
Oh, haha, yeah I live in the States, I just put Korea because I was born there. Sorry for the confusion!
On January 10 2010 13:46 Xeofreestyler wrote: I'm not getting something.. you guys haven't been a couple yet but you're talking about marriage? Or am I missing an important clue here?
I'm pretty sure our feelings are mutual and very strong haha. Who knows though, maybe we're just both naive.
On January 10 2010 13:46 Xeofreestyler wrote: I'm not getting something.. you guys haven't been a couple yet but you're talking about marriage? Or am I missing an important clue here?
I'm pretty sure our feelings are mutual and very strong haha. Who knows though, maybe we're just both naive.
You didn't answer his question at all. Are you two even a couple yet?
haha jk I suppose you're staying in SK for college? How is your english so good? Am I jumping to conclusions?
Oh, haha, yeah I live in the States, I just put Korea because I was born there. Sorry for the confusion!
On January 10 2010 13:46 Xeofreestyler wrote: I'm not getting something.. you guys haven't been a couple yet but you're talking about marriage? Or am I missing an important clue here?
I'm pretty sure our feelings are mutual and very strong haha. Who knows though, maybe we're just both naive.
You didn't answer his question at all. Are you two even a couple yet?
Cause if not that's just... weird...
I have to agree with this.... Are you grounded firmly in concrete or is your head in the clouds?. If you haven't gotten any err jobs from her, or, if you two aren't even a couple this will only end in misery. Add to the fact that she's moving 2000 miles away, and you two haven't even gone off to college yet, and met other great people!! But uhh, I was young before and I've been in this situation too, and it's sort of hard to break out of that sort of spell until reality hits you in the nuts with a steel toed boot, and then steps on your heart with stilleto heels. I guess what I'm saying is, reality is a tranny.
I'm serious.. if she already said the same thing about u being too high standard for her, that is red alert that she likes u and u need to take the imitative before she loses interest
On January 10 2010 14:40 HazMat wrote: ......Does she play Starcraft?
yeah because if she doesn't, that means your ideal woman doesn't play SC, and there's something wrong with that. I just got my girlfriend to watch a game with me after 3 years, and I'm happy with that.
Trust me, this won't last very long. It's a bitch to hear, but it's the truth. You're in the infatuation stage where you can't stop thinking about "her" and literally want to be with her every moment of every day. In all seriousness if you're going to be that far away then you might as well not try.
On January 10 2010 15:51 DeathByMonkeys wrote: 2000 miles?
Trust me, this won't last very long. It's a bitch to hear, but it's the truth. You're in the infatuation stage where you can't stop thinking about "her" and literally want to be with her every moment of every day. In all seriousness if you're going to be that far away then you might as well not try.
If he is in the infatuation phase, it means nothing you can say will change his mind, so what's the point of posting that? Just because it happened to you doesn't mean it will happen to him. And almost all relationships fall apart, especially at our younger age. If people didn't start relationships just because "you will probably break up anyway", there wouldn't be any relationships.
On January 10 2010 15:51 DeathByMonkeys wrote: 2000 miles?
Trust me, this won't last very long. It's a bitch to hear, but it's the truth. You're in the infatuation stage where you can't stop thinking about "her" and literally want to be with her every moment of every day. In all seriousness if you're going to be that far away then you might as well not try.
If he is in the infatuation phase, it means nothing you can say will change his mind, so what's the point of posting that? Just because it happened to you doesn't mean it will happen to him. And almost all relationships fall apart, especially at our younger age. If people didn't start relationships just because "you will probably break up anyway", there wouldn't be any relationships.
Except there's a difference between "you will probably break up anyway" and "we'll see each other 3 times a year"
Distance and time can destroy any relationships you know. You should be prepared for the case when she meet someone else in her area. And don't be too obsessed with her, there are other things in life. And remember to post in this thread when she's yours.
On January 10 2010 15:51 DeathByMonkeys wrote: 2000 miles?
Trust me, this won't last very long. It's a bitch to hear, but it's the truth. You're in the infatuation stage where you can't stop thinking about "her" and literally want to be with her every moment of every day. In all seriousness if you're going to be that far away then you might as well not try.
On January 10 2010 17:46 Garnet wrote: Distance and time can destroy any relationships you know. You should be prepared for the case when she meet someone else in her area. And don't be too obsessed with her, there are other things in life. And remember to post in this thread when she's yours.
I believe this is the sad truth. I dont want to discourage you to try by any means but this kind of relationships do not tend to be very successful at all. Good luck anyway.
On January 10 2010 15:51 DeathByMonkeys wrote: 2000 miles?
Trust me, this won't last very long. It's a bitch to hear, but it's the truth. You're in the infatuation stage where you can't stop thinking about "her" and literally want to be with her every moment of every day. In all seriousness if you're going to be that far away then you might as well not try.
On January 10 2010 17:46 Garnet wrote: Distance and time can destroy any relationships you know. You should be prepared for the case when she meet someone else in her area. And don't be too obsessed with her, there are other things in life. And remember to post in this thread when she's yours.
I believe this is the sad truth. I dont want to discourage you to try by any means but this kind of relationships do not tend to be very successful at all. Good luck anyway.
Being an international kid who moves around a lot... Long distance relationships can succeed but I'd say that the vast majority of long distance couples break up within 2 years of moving apart.
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, but I told her that she isn't just another girl. I didn't want to impress her by saying that, I think I will be really sad to not be with her, but if it must, I will love her, even though we will be 2000+ miles apart! I have liked her for so long, I think I can wait ^^ We also talked about marriage and stuff, haha... it was weird but nice. 
