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this thread is a 2-pronged attack
first i want to show you some of my pix from my recent 5 night holiday to rome
thanks ever so to those who replied to my thread and offered tips. we didn't take any of them and spent 400 euros, conservatively. oh well.
the second prong to this thread is an issue that some of you might be aware has been bugging me since the age of 17. i have it in my head that my life will never be complete until i have a nose job and fix my (to me) horrifically ugly outward appearance.
this haunts me pretty much daily and has done all my life. i could go into details but just use your imagination how this affects my life in general.
it costs at least 3500 for a nose job and although i have 1k debt to a friend, 1k debt to lawyers for bills (oh shit), 1.4k debt in my bank and god knows how much debt for university (i never count that anyway) i am determined to afford this surgery within the next 5 years. i worked the last 2 years full time but , well thats what i ive got to show for it. life sucks, although if you're worse off than me than go ahead and call me a pretencious prick and move on.
what i really want to know from this huge community of men is comments in regard to this matter - ugliness, and plastic surgery. do you have any experience with it?
are YOU ugly? do you want surgery?
so yeah here's some pix to appease you and maybe ill get some 2nd-prong related responses from you. of what nature i dont dare to guess.
pwning nubs at the colloseum
top of this huge monument to the king who "unified" the italian states. see the banisters there? thats how big it is
trevi fountain, i threw a coin in o/c . funnily, we were sat at outside this restaurant round the corner for ages, listening to this weird noise, until we investigated and saw the fucking fountain right there 10 yards away
cant call yourself a tourist until you defile something for the purposes of a cheesy photo
STARCRAFT!!!!!
although we paid insane money, the food really is head over heals above british food. this is the kinda stuff you close your eyes to when you eat it
more defiling. hey, he started it
this awesome ball thing, which i didnt hear about over the headphones because i was too busy attacking it trying to make it spin the other direction.....hmmm
looking down upon the largest room in the history of mankind. see those little specs on the floor? people...
shopping, gucci, prada, bulgari....got told off for taking photos inside them
women have the most deceiving smiles - we were more than ready to go home by then!
 
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More pictures of your lady friend please.
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If it matters to you THAT much, go ahead and do it AFTER you've paid off your debts.
Personally, I don't think it will affect your life in any meaningful way. Any girl that's going to judge you on the shape of your nose is not a girl you want to spend your time with. Or any person in general who will judge you that way. You're far from hideous and you don't have leprosy or any truly castigating features. Your nose happens to have a large bridge, that's it. As long as you have a nice personality and are in good physical shape, you should have zero trouble getting through life with the looks you have.
It really doesn't matter. But there's nothing wrong with getting a nose job if that's what you want to do either.
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Pretty much every time I go to a party or bar somebody says I look like Demetri Martin. It's mostly because we have similar noses. Looks sorta like a big hawk beak to me. Sorta goofy looking, but I don't think I would ever want to have surgery to make it look more normal.
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Isn't this the same dude who claimed to be Chibi[owns]?
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paying the debts is generally a life long thing, i dont know really why i brought it up other than to feel even more sorry for myself. people always have debts, i could still afford a holiday couldnt i (yeah sorta haha).
2ndly, i dont think you can judge someone for not being physically attracted to a person simply because they are outwardly ugly. this is why i feel so strongly that it is a necessity for me. i know i would never want to date or marry someone as ugly as me, it would be daft and selfish to wish someone to "overlook" and "overcome" this.
ive met people ive found "ugly" and unattractive before, and fallen in love with them , and realised their features can be attractive, but i just see myself as "way too far out there on the ugly scale", practically. im sickenenly convinced of it, and i can justify and defend it against any general "they'll like you for who you are". you've gotta be something DAMN special (rich or just plain awesome) to compensate for something like this, and im not that person
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my other thread was better "kill"
i honestly have no fucking idea what i was talking about. sounds like a game but no game ive been playing....
heres the pic that i somehow didnt manage to upload to that other thread
its on-topic haha
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listen stop worrying so much on your looks, you look great and your girlfriend probably thinks that way too
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On January 06 2010 09:23 Bosu wrote:Pretty much every time I go to a party or bar somebody says I look like Demetri Martin. It's mostly because we have similar noses. Looks sorta like a big hawk beak to me. Sorta goofy looking, but I don't think I would ever want to have surgery to make it look more normal.
nice pic, thanks for it and your comment.
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Your girlfriend is gorgeous
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On January 06 2010 09:37 Saturnize wrote:
Your girlfriend is gorgeous
yeah she is .. and you dont need a nose job haha.. it fits your head. live with it =) just build up the confidence.. even though you probably dont need to with a girl like that
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you know wats better than a 2-pronged attack
a 3-pronged attack
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On January 06 2010 09:37 Saturnize wrote:
Your girlfriend is gorgeous
Seriously - you scored a beautiful woman - obviously the nose isn't a problem.
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Here is MY two pronged attack:
Less holidays in rome, more saving for nosejob?
Usually the more plastic surgery you get the more you feel you could 'touch up' other features... I'd just try to make peace with your looks now instead.
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With a woman like that, you obviously don't need a nose job.
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Your girlfriend is so hot.
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