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EsX_Raptor
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States2801 Posts
September 22 2009 18:26 GMT
#41
See, this is the kind of mindset that WILL get you out of any relationship you get into real quick. Why would you want to be thinking that you're going to "break up with her?" it should be more like "I'll never let her go!" that is, if you truly love her and want something beyond just sex.

If you just want to get laid, then don't go for it.
Tien
Profile Joined January 2003
Russian Federation4447 Posts
September 22 2009 18:40 GMT
#42
Do it.

You only live once. Go out there and get your peepee wet.
We decide our own destiny
Impervious
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
Canada4200 Posts
September 22 2009 18:50 GMT
#43
If she is in the same program as you, you may be in for some trouble. You both will be working your way to the same goal, on the same path, and if things go bad, you're going to be dealing with it for a long time.

However, if she is in a different program, and you only have a couple of classes that intertwine over the first year or two, you should be fine. After the first 2 years, your programs will diverge enough where you won't have any similar classes.

Hmmm..... Now that I think of it - there is that one sexy blond in my one class. And in a different program..... And we've already spent a lot of time working together..... And she's already spent a lot of time at my place, and me at hers.....

Brb.
~ \(ˌ)im-ˈpər-vē-əs\ : not capable of being damaged or harmed.
Einherjar
Profile Joined August 2009
Macedonia29 Posts
September 22 2009 19:06 GMT
#44
As you grow older you will regret the things you didn't do, rather the things you did. And do remember (as one other mentioned), the friends you are gonna meet early in college will be friends of the couple. Cause you clearly stressed that you are inexperienced in these matters, i really doubt you can maneuver your gf from friends or things you would like to be your own.
The strong did what they could and the weak suffered what they must.
Retsukage
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States1002 Posts
September 22 2009 19:26 GMT
#45
I don't know why but I find this strangely relevant,
To change is to improve, to change often is to be perfect - Winston Chruchill
Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
September 22 2009 20:52 GMT
#46
On September 23 2009 00:43 Strayline wrote:
Just switch to Computer Science and you will not have this problem... F:M ratio is abysmal.

sad but true
MasterReY
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Germany2708 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-09-22 21:30:03
September 22 2009 21:29 GMT
#47
bah fuck this. its not akward to be forced to see ur ex-gf after you broke up with her .

why should it be akward? If you have no feelings towards here anymore, you won't care if you see her or not.

the only bad thing would be if you love her but she breaks up with you. then ur pretty much fucked up for a while but you will get over that too in some weeks.

go for it man.
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xJacky
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
China375 Posts
September 22 2009 22:02 GMT
#48
just go for it. i'd prefer awkwardness of the breakup over regret that it might of been a good thing anyday.
Love was supposed to be something women chased, not men. - Neil Strauss
food
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1951 Posts
September 22 2009 22:12 GMT
#49
how is this awkward? just another chick to point finger at in front of your classmates
Can someone ban this guy please? FA?
Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
September 22 2009 23:16 GMT
#50
my girlfriend is in my program (read, 90% class collision)

if you like her, go for it, there are four corners in a classroom

When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
FastEddieV
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States614 Posts
September 22 2009 23:25 GMT
#51
Do it. I definitely should have taken more chances in college with classmates with the mentality of some of our fellow posters here and it did not turn out for the best.
platinum? more like leaf
Jonoman92
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States9104 Posts
September 22 2009 23:28 GMT
#52
I don't think you should let her being your classmate stop you if there really is some chemistry going on. Generally if you're not sure if you should or shouldn't do something, do it imo.
foeffa
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Belgium2115 Posts
September 23 2009 00:28 GMT
#53
From personal experience it's annoying as hell to be in the same class with an ex. -___-
觀過斯知仁矣.
PokePill
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
United States1048 Posts
September 23 2009 00:59 GMT
#54
can you just post her facebook pics and we'll decide for you
Flakes
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States3125 Posts
September 23 2009 01:34 GMT
#55
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Your relationship will be over in a week, and then you'll be awkwardly staring at her from across the room for the rest of the semester. You know how long semesters are? I'm a sophomore and I'm still in my first semester of Comp Sci.
Forming a relationship forms a psychic bond between you and your S.O that once broken, can never be mended. If her hate for you is strong enough, she could give you a nosebleed just by glaring at you hard enough. Your life will be ruined by your terrible decision, and nobody at your school will even consider dating you. The teacher for that section will fail you for making such a stupid life choice, and your other grades will follow as you sink into a spiraling depression. Soon your health will deteriorate and your body will contract disease after debilitating disease until finally, in a drunken stupor, your mind clouded by all the drugs you have turned to, you throw yourself off the roof of the chem building.
Maero
Profile Joined December 2007
349 Posts
September 23 2009 02:01 GMT
#56
I would just like to thank everyone involved in this thread for making it as great as it is.

Thank you, everyone.
rA.Hippie
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Denmark714 Posts
September 23 2009 09:45 GMT
#57
On September 22 2009 21:36 REDBLUEGREEN wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 22 2009 20:09 rA.Hippie wrote:
Don't. Trust me. If you do happen to break up or have a big fight, I promise you, the next day at school is gonna be awkard as fuck. I've fallen into that trap 2 times now.

Dude your relationships must have really sucked if a few days of awkwardness outweigh the hole relationship.

Atleast I had some.
I love teh shisha.
closed
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Vatican City State491 Posts
September 23 2009 09:47 GMT
#58
Dont date your classmates. Play starcraft.
This is a starcraft website, we play starcraft here, we do not date.
Einherjar
Profile Joined August 2009
Macedonia29 Posts
September 24 2009 22:20 GMT
#59
Spoken like a true Vatican citizen.
The strong did what they could and the weak suffered what they must.
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
September 24 2009 22:28 GMT
#60
On September 22 2009 19:55 Garnet wrote:
Just started college few days ago. I have to say this is so much better than highschool, study with people of your level, everyone is friendly etc... So there are 5 boys and 14 girls in my class, and there is this girl that caught my attention. I don't know if she has any feelings for me, but there always seem to be something going on between us, even thought we've just barely had two very short conversation.

Some "exprienced" people told me dating a classmate is not a good idea, because if you break up it will be really awkward having to see each other everyday. I've never been in a serious relationship before, so I have 0 exp in this. Help!

Edit: This is probably the reply that best describe my situation:
Show nested quote +
On September 22 2009 21:50 Integra wrote:
Don't date her. Girls are really flexible when it comes to social situations and they don't really worry that much about it. However with that said we also have you, and after what you typed it's obvious you won't be able to coop with that kind of situation, in fact It wouldn't surprise me if you are so terrified of that particular outcome that you would worry and think so much about it that the outcome would be the only viable one since it's the the most dominant "reality" that is perceived by you.

In short, NO, don't date her, you will only fuck it up anyway since you have no confidence in yourself.

I disagree, half the point of college is life experience. Just go for it, if you fuck up and have an awkward situation, deal with it. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
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