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Manifesto7
Osaka27178 Posts
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Evotroid
Hungary176 Posts
On November 02 2011 23:29 Zergb wrote: I don't understand posts like this race,sexual pref,religion are all things that have nothing to do with gaming with other people. this kind of things only creates barriers between people IMO. please do not misunderstand, this is not a hate post i could care less what you are so long as you don't die to a proxie and keep up your macro. Well the intention of these topics is the opposite of creating barriers, we actually want to create bridges between each other (read: gays) and between us and everyone else. I know even my wording sounds like I want to separate people by their sexuality, but Its just how language works, and by far not the real meaning of things. | ||
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jarrydesque
584 Posts
On November 03 2011 00:14 Evotroid wrote: Well the intention of these topics is the opposite of creating barriers, we actually want to create bridges between each other (read: gays) and between us and everyone else. I know even my wording sounds like I want to separate people by their sexuality, but Its just how language works, and by far not the real meaning of things. Please don't answer these questions anymore. If people can't read the first post then they don't deserve the effort you put into an explanatory post. Let them drop in and make their silly posts and pat themselves on the back for expressing such a unique point of view. | ||
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startover
United States35 Posts
On November 01 2011 01:27 jarrydesque wrote: Too much serious gay in this thread and not enough silly gay. Commence the silly Halloween party costumes you all wore! + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/vlfRO.jpg) so cute<3 | ||
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tiltmachine
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SoniC_eu
Denmark1008 Posts
 Whatever conflicts u may feel inside, can create feelings of anguish or pain. Thats totally normal. Everyone experiences conflicts and wishes to be something they aren't ( I know u must be going through this on a much larger scale) But it's important that u teach urself to accept whatever u are, whether it be gay, straight or whatever. I hope you have someone u can talk to about this? Because u sound like a nice guy, and its a terrible thing to be going thru alone. I hope u find ur way! | ||
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drshdwpuppet
United States332 Posts
On November 03 2011 02:08 tiltmachine wrote: Do u people have any suggestions on how to come to terms with your sexuality? I've been avoiding this issue for really really long, but I know I cant do it forever. I'm gay, but I just cant get rid of that social stigma that follows it. I just feel so guilty to have felt in love with a straight guy and I don't wish to be ostracized if people know about my sexuality. I just feel so torn within sometimes by having to hide it. The loathe I feel towards myself when I just cant stop staring at some hot guy or when a hot guy catches my eye more than the paired girl is eating at me. I don't want to be gay. FML Hey mate, I am really sorry you are feeling this way, and if you ever just want to talk, feel free to hit me up okay? Coming to terms with who you are is a difficult part of being a gay man in society today. The shame and guilt you are feeling is completely normal, but not something that you should have to live with for an extended part of time. You are normal and perfect the way you are, regardless of your sexuality. Who you love is a wonderful thing that no one should ever be ashamed of. Try not to resist it, try not to be disgusted with yourself for being who you are, that is a path of fear, anger, depression and pain, a path that no one should have to go through. | ||
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jarrydesque
584 Posts
On November 03 2011 07:21 drshdwpuppet wrote: Hey mate, I am really sorry you are feeling this way, and if you ever just want to talk, feel free to hit me up okay? Coming to terms with who you are is a difficult part of being a gay man in society today. The shame and guilt you are feeling is completely normal, but not something that you should have to live with for an extended part of time. You are normal and perfect the way you are, regardless of your sexuality. Who you love is a wonderful thing that no one should ever be ashamed of. Try not to resist it, try not to be disgusted with yourself for being who you are, that is a path of fear, anger, depression and pain, a path that no one should have to go through. I saw your post earlier and tried to respond, but could not put it to words properly. Thankfully we have the Dr in the house who couldn't have said it better. I'd like to add that it may seem like an insurmountable problem but I promise once you finally do come to terms, it will feel like the world is off your shoulders. Your posting is an indication that you're already making progress and a step in the right direction. Once you've given it some thought, maybe you'd like to chat to someone on this forum or a friend you trust. Don't be worried about losing friends etc. That was my biggest issue, I was terrified that I'd have no friends. Turns out that I should not have worried, they were all like, whatever and some had an inkling already. And Mom's usually know already. | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
On November 03 2011 02:08 tiltmachine wrote: Do u people have any suggestions on how to come to terms with your sexuality? I've been avoiding this issue for really really long, but I know I cant do it forever. I'm gay, but I just cant get rid of that social stigma that follows it. I just feel so guilty to have felt in love with a straight guy and I don't wish to be ostracized if people know about my sexuality. I just feel so torn within sometimes by having to hide it. The loathe I feel towards myself when I just cant stop staring at some hot guy or when a hot guy catches my eye more than the paired girl is eating at me. I don't want to be gay. FML I guess you can sometimes just need time to realize what things in your life aren't going away. Add that with the attitude that no one is correct over you on the subject of your sexuality. No one in the world has sovereignty over your feelings. Most who oppose the free feeling of others are within themselves very much at war and in self-hatred. | ||
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SCST
Mexico1609 Posts
On November 03 2011 02:08 tiltmachine wrote: Do u people have any suggestions on how to come to terms with your sexuality? I've been avoiding this issue for really really long, but I know I cant do it forever. I'm gay, but I just cant get rid of that social stigma that follows it. I just feel so guilty to have felt in love with a straight guy and I don't wish to be ostracized if people know about my sexuality. I just feel so torn within sometimes by having to hide it. The loathe I feel towards myself when I just cant stop staring at some hot guy or when a hot guy catches my eye more than the paired girl is eating at me. I don't want to be gay. FML I came to terms with being gay by realizing that what I liked sexually didn't define me as a person whatsoever. It's really a very minor aspect of my life now. I have a boyfriend and we live together and life is "normal" to us. It's no different than most straight couples that I know. Just realize that whomever you sleep with and date, it isn't a big deal. And it's no one's business but yours and those you want to involve in it. If there are people in your life that get "weird" about who you sleep with and who you date, get rid of them. Those people are the freaks for invading your private life, not you. That's what I did and I never looked back. Remember most importantly that being gay is normal. Animals are gay, humans have been gay since the earliest records of civilization. It's like being left-handed vs right-handed. It's just sex. My suggestion for your next step is finding some gay friends that you can confide in and talk to. Posting here was a good idea, as you're obviously a fan of gaming like the rest of us. Shouldn't be hard to make some new friends on TL! Just my 2 cents | ||
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vTv.Marine
Canada151 Posts
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jarrydesque
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Thebbeuttiffulland
Brazil288 Posts
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jarrydesque
584 Posts
On November 03 2011 19:42 Thebbeuttiffulland wrote: is it just me or gay starcraft players sounds really funny? Errr, I think its just you. I'm not sure what part of it is particularly funny xD. | ||
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vTv.Marine
Canada151 Posts
Comon guys follow up!!!! :DDDD (me in thailand, 01/11, don't ask about my lips, i had an infection  ((()http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/315037_10150908875760227_765125226_21454816_1660353520_n.jpg (me before the gaypride party in montreal 06/11) http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/376203_10150908874210227_765125226_21454799_2055503732_n.jpg (me 2 days ago xD 11/11) http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/295987_10150902798150227_765125226_21393248_1253529193_n.jpg (my friend REALLLLY drunk before going to celebrate halloween in club party LOLOL 11/11) (i'm the one laughing in the back xDD) (my friend REALLLLLY drunk once again strikes back! LOLLLLL 11/11) YOUR TURNNNN xD | ||
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Lex[G]
United States4 Posts
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SCST
Mexico1609 Posts
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Competent
United States406 Posts
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Sevryn
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On November 04 2011 03:24 Competent wrote: This thread is just as pointless as creating a thread about people with black hair and playing starcarft. Or people in wheelchairs playing starcraft. Notice what they have in common? DING DING DING they don't matter. This is the only annoyance I have with gay people, the overwhelming need to be noticed that they have a brain defect. Glad you read the op Nyovne is super boss | ||
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Tipsyer
United States43 Posts
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