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I have a friend, and I'll describe her to you:
- She always has to have control over everything, and everyone, including both things that aren't her business and your everyday life and actions.
- She doesn't take into consideration what you say or suggest, it is always what she wants, when she wants it and however she wants it.
- Everything in her life has to be a secret; what she talks with others you shouldn't know, and what she tells you no one should know.
- She sometimes jerks her arms and body, and shakes her hand unconsciously, sometimes falling to the ground.
- She's 30 and still lives with her parents.
- She hangs out mostly with people (only girls) much much younger than her.
- She isn't married, and is desperate to get married yet doesn't do anything about it.
- She's very dramatic, I repeat, VERY DRAMATIC. If something happens, it wasn't a coincidence, and furthermore, she has "predicted it would happen" before.
- She believes that you shouldn't hang out with people that she doesn't know, and assumes everything is a harm. Example: Everytime she sees a car go past in front of her house, she looks out and asks us to stay behind because it might be someone "bad" or we can get robbed or something.
- Once the doorlock didn't work and she kept a knife next to her all night long.
- She has a crapload of stuff written all over the place, I would say entire books worth of text, in places such as stairs, walls, ceilings, closets, etc.
- She wants to win a grammy in singing, and is convinced.
- Forces other girls to be like her.
- HATES IT when her girlfriends hang out with guys. She goes crazy, so much that after they're done talking, she walks up to them and asks them what did the guy say and tells them that she is "protecting them" and thus shouldn't go out with those guys.
- My friends would sometimes tell me stuff in spanish and after they're gone she asks me what they said (W T F)
- She literally has no friends her age.
Dammit, I can go on all day long. I know this just simply can't be a normal person and I'm trying to find a disorder for this as I'm starting to get really scared.
If you guys have any experience on this, I would appreciate it much if you all shared it with me.
 
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Aotearoa39261 Posts
*waits for Daigomi to post*
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
my expert diagnosis is some form of an anxiety disorder or a paranoid personality disorder
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
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Thank you, I'm a go check on those...
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
she could also just be a bitch, you know
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Based on your descriptions, I would say she has some form of narcissistic personality disorder with slight elements of paranoia and obsessive compulsion (need for control). I'm just guessing.
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Intrigue, I just checked paranoid personality disorder and the symptoms they list in there are 100% relevant to her personality.
They say there is no cure ='(
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The thing is, I have a one-shot 0.01% chance of getting her to take the therapy =(
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It is the only way, unfortunately.
If she doesn't recognize that she has a problem, I don't think there is a way to fix it.
Good luck, I hope you can help her out.
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On December 03 2008 01:30 intrigue wrote:
she could also just be a bitch, you know
haha!
is she fat and ugly? i mean, seriously... people who doesnt have friends their age = awkward. its fine to have friends in a wide range of ages but only friends with GIRLS much much YOUNGER than her? maybe shes a lesbian pedobear, who knows.
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She has a regular body type, has very long, curly and messed up hair, blue/white eyes (more white than blue) and is extremely WHITE (skin color), so much she has a lot of red spots (I forgot how you call them, those spots you get on your body)
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Freckles.
How come you hang out with her then?
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freckles? pecas?? well i guess the best help you can give her is to convince her to go to a therapy
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orphan archetype with narcissist like personality. something must have harmed her psychologically in the past and has created 'demons' for her to live with. Going to a therapist is the only way to unlock them :o Talking one on one with her yourself will not do what a therapist can.
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What ppl really want to know is -- is she hot?
Sounds like she has the good ol' loser disorder.
On December 03 2008 02:10 EsX_Raptor wrote:
She has a regular body type, has very long, curly and messed up hair, blue/white eyes (more white than blue) and is extremely WHITE (skin color), so much she has a lot of red spots (I forgot how you call them, those spots you get on your body)
Most ppl have more white in their eyes than any other colour.. unless they are possessed by a demon spirit, in which case the whole eye can turn either red or black.
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could you get a sample of her handwriting?
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LOL and get chef to analyze?!
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With more white than blue i meant to say of a light bluish color -_-
And I don't think I need chef's ANALysis XDDD
This is her:
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