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I think i got lucky with this. Well this is not the second but more like the third time i go out with this gal. Pretty good so far.
The last date we went to get an ice cream and just walked around the block while chattin a bit. When i was to leave, she offered to walk me to the bus stop and even then she stayed there chatting with me until the bus came.
So we sorta agreed that we would have a next date or something bowling. I msged her tuesday but she didnt answer back. I thought like meh... and just forgot about it.
Yesterday she logs into msn and we start a casual chat. She's angry or something and she tells me it's because she doesnt understand the boy she likes etc. So im like pretty cool about it and pretend i dont care about him, so i make a joke or two.
She logs now in the night, and we chat again. I ask her what she's up to today(friday). She says she doesnt have a plan and im like, haha good, i might blabla.
Now today i get this text msg with an invitation to the movies; she pays. I was like "yes! i knew it!". So i say, yeah it would be cool but i have to attend my dad's bday first and she tells me that if i finish early we could go to see a movie. Naturally i stopped being busy early and msged her so we actually went to see a movie.
We went to see blackjack, and we kept chatting a bit during the movie. Right after we went for a hot chocolate because it was raining. I feel there's some chemestry hehe. I finished the day taking her home.
So things are pretty smooth atm. I'm aware there's another guy she likes but im like im the one who's picking, not the other way around. So ultimately i dont care if she ends with the other guy, even tho it would be a shame. Hope things keep improving over time!
I'd like to go bowling next time, it usually turns fun
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
*FRIEND WALL*
be careful u don't turn into her newest addition to her friend section.
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The guy could be you, the guy she's confused about! Nice getting more dates with her
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United States22883 Posts
On August 09 2008 14:36 Spenguin wrote:
*FRIEND WALL*
be careful u don't turn into her newest addition to her friend section.
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On August 09 2008 14:39 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On August 09 2008 14:36 Spenguin wrote:
*FRIEND WALL*
be careful u don't turn into her newest addition to her friend section.
Wow, forget her talking about a boy she likes in front of you. . .
Just forget her dude.
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as soon as she hints im on the friend zone, im out
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United States22883 Posts
Next time it comes up, ask who the guy is. You can tell her you should be that guy.
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cool, that sounded like fun, gl to u man.
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On August 09 2008 14:56 RtS)Night[Mare wrote:
as soon as she hints im on the friend zone, im out
sounds like she already did O_o
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Who cares shes obviously going with you more than the other dude. until its extremely obvious she just wants to be friends move on and keep her as a friend who cares lol.
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You can get out of the friend zone. Just kill the guy she likes, and make a man-suit out of it. She'll understand.
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is she asian? cuz asians are complicated
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you didnt let her pay did you? -_-
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United States24709 Posts
Why have I not been mentioned yet? WTF!?
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of course i let her pay, im not spending my money on a medium risk investment hehe. I dont think she has hinted im on the friend zone, because we've been going out just the two of us. We even started flirting yesterday, i think thats a good sign.
abou the guy she likes i think it's because when i met her she probably liked this guy already, now that she knows me she'll probably move on and like me. We laugh all the time we're together and we have a good time hehe. Even in the worst case possible, meaning she just dates me to get jealous the other guy(unlikely) i will just move on, because i've been dating some friends, so 1 loss is not going to shake my world, there's plenty out there. I just like this one more than the others 
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United States22883 Posts
Dude, whether you're in the friend zone or not, you gotta stop adding random 'hehe' into your posts.
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On August 09 2008 16:27 DoctorHelvetica wrote:
You can get out of the friend zone. Just kill the guy she likes, and make a man-suit out of it. She'll understand.
I agree with this.
But really you let her pay? ..what the fuck is wrong with you? You always need to pay shit like that dude.
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what's wrong with the girl paying, exactly? I mean, its not like im buying her attention y'know...
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United States24709 Posts
I'm all for girls paying for themselves if they are in a similar economic situation. Why the gender discrimination? Get with the times!
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