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Oh god i never thought i'd make a girl blog. Remind me to cut myself later.
Anyways, i'm hanging out w/ this girl this weekend and i'm not sure what we're going to do. No input from her, she's "very indecisive". I've already ruled out snowboarding + ice skating. Movie theater is absolute last back up plan. We're watching movie together next day anyways (not at theater). So...i need some ideas of what to do.
   
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Amusement park? Fancy dinner to friendly dinner, think back on this.
But I'd aim for amusement parks, they're so friendly and fun.
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Do something active! This is especially good for the first date because you may not have as much things to talk about when you first meet a girl.
As for some examples: maybe going to a park and messing around, indoor rock climbing (if you have those in your state) bowling, going to a mall or something and walking around for a while.
Based on your limited information i'm going to guess that you into just the "talking" stages with this girl, so having a lot of things going on around you could help to keep the conversations going along with some good active fun!~
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On March 07 2008 05:41 Raithed wrote: Amusement park? Fancy dinner to friendly dinner, think back on this.
But I'd aim for amusement parks, they're so friendly and fun.
oh yea, i'm in high school and it's fucking cold outside. but i agree amusement parks are win, for more than one reason.
edit: and yea we're in "talking" stages. but i'm pretty sure she likes me (like 99%). And i will probably end up asking her to prom somewhere in the near future assuming nothing bad happens
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Meet at your or her house and fuck, cuddle, then go to a pub or something and take some pictures and have a laugh or two
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Watch MSL Finals with her.
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On March 07 2008 06:00 SonuvBob wrote: Watch MSL Finals with her.
...sigh you stole my idea
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On March 07 2008 05:56 DwmC_Foefen wrote: Meet at your or her house and fuck, cuddle, then go to a pub or something and take some pictures and have a laugh or two
...i dono how they do it in belgium but in the U.S. we take a girl out to the pub and THEN take them home.
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On March 07 2008 06:00 SonuvBob wrote: Watch MSL Finals with her.
Lol and what are the two of them gonna do until 4 am in the morning
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On March 07 2008 06:05 EtherealDeath wrote:Lol and what are the two of them gonna do until 4 am in the morning  fuck like rabbits for 8 hours then watch starcraft for 4 more... oh how sweet life would be.
but really i need some ideas
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On March 07 2008 06:05 EtherealDeath wrote:Lol and what are the two of them gonna do until 4 am in the morning 
Study the hype thread obviously.
Restaurant, choose one with neutral cuisine (no extremes like thai or something, but not totally casual like McDonalds) until you find out exactly what she likes, get her a cocktail if she wants. If the restaurant has live music, it's important that it's also neutral unless you want to up the stakes and risk hearing her say "get those fuckers off stage" while at the same time being able to hear "god how did you guess I liked it". For safety, jazz/blues is the better as it's calm and easy to ignore if performed sub-par.
The thing is, you either want to capitalize on a win-win situation (not all girls like snowboarding, but every single human being likes eating) for moderate gains, or you want to risk choosing something she won't like for potential high gains. As someone who knows exactly nothing about her, I cannot recommend anything risky.
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You need to tell us more about her. What kind of things is she into, what's her sense of humor like, is she passive or aggressive, what's her cup size and does she have any unlocked Photobucket accounts with naked pictures?
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On March 07 2008 06:36 Jibba wrote: You need to tell us more about her. What kind of things is she into, what's her sense of humor like, is she passive or aggressive, what's her cup size and does she have any unlocked Photobucket accounts with naked pictures? 1) Thats the problem. She's quite undecisive and everytime i ask her what she likes to do she literally replies "i dont know". She dances and is on cheer, and likes to drink, and thats about all i know
2) Great sense of humor, laughs at like everything i say/do.
3) Passive i'd say from #1
4) not as big as i'd like
5) i'll let you know when i hack the password.
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If you can handle it, go dancing.
Girls LOVE a guy who can dance
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On March 07 2008 06:54 decafchicken wrote: 2) Great sense of humor, laughs at like everything i say/do.
harhar 
She sounds very shy, so she'll probably more nervous than you. It doesn't really matter all that much what you do I think, just try to lure her out of her shyness.
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On March 07 2008 06:56 GeneralStan wrote: If you can handle it, go dancing.
Girls LOVE a guy who can dance
Kekeke yes. ^^
On March 07 2008 06:54 decafchicken wrote:Show nested quote +On March 07 2008 06:36 Jibba wrote: You need to tell us more about her. What kind of things is she into, what's her sense of humor like, is she passive or aggressive, what's her cup size and does she have any unlocked Photobucket accounts with naked pictures? 1) Thats the problem. She's quite undecisive and everytime i ask her what she likes to do she literally replies "i dont know". She dances and is on cheer, and likes to drink, and thats about all i know 2) Great sense of humor, laughs at like everything i say/do. 3) Passive i'd say from #1 4) not as big as i'd like 5) i'll let you know when i hack the password.
Now ask yourself. Do you really need it? Because I know that I can't handle such girls.
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On March 07 2008 07:07 Orome wrote:Show nested quote +On March 07 2008 06:54 decafchicken wrote: 2) Great sense of humor, laughs at like everything i say/do.
harhar  She sounds very shy, so she'll probably more nervous than you. It doesn't really matter all that much what you do I think, just try to lure her out of her shyness.
definitely not shy. i'd say more outgoing than not.
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So much for my internet psychology skills. :p
I she likes drinking, I suppose taking her to some special bar would work nicely.
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Dinner with cocktails, followed by bars. Alcohol always helps to get the conversation flowing and maybe she'll come up with something more creative than "I don't know."
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Ok I'm going to admit...I'm a loser when it comes to coming up with first dates so I actually have to google for ideas, but something that's worked that might be interesting considering your description of the girl (or it could be a disaster...could go either way) is this...
For a really unusual and unknown date, try a “coin flip date”. You go to a downtown, historic, or touristy area and park somewhere. You then flip a coin to see which direction you go in. Heads you go left, tails you go right, and see what interests you. Every stop you make, flip the coin again; let the date take you wherever the coin flip leads you. There is no planning, and you can find out what a person likes or dislikes by the type of museums, stores, or restaurants they want to stop at. You can make any date fun and creative, just put a little a bit of yourself into it.
this usually works because if she's the kind of girl I'm thinking of then she's probably really indecisive right now, but once she's actually out with you she'll start saying "oooohhhh let's go there!!" "oh that looks fun!! ^_^" etc.
or if she remains indecisive, then it might fail unless you take the lead.
or you could do what my usual impulse is...mini golf/rock climbing/walking around the mall+ice cream.
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