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OverTheUnder
United States2929 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
I strongly disagree with Meta on drugs. I think there might be a place for careful experimentation with drugs, but using them to complete you, to help you socially, etc, is a recipe for problems. You don't ever need drugs. Anyone who tells you that you need drugs (I realize Meta didn't say THAT, exactly) is not giving you good advice. I've done plenty of drugs, and have had wonderful experiences with them, and I can also say drugs caused a lot of problems in my life. When all is said and done, my life greatly improved when I gave them up. | ||
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Meta
United States6226 Posts
I meant it as a different way of saying "loosen up." I've seen a lot of my friends fucked up by drugs. Moral: don't do that if you're stupid. I've done a lot of drugs, but have never used them as an escape or anything stupid like that. But you seem like a smart guy, so figure it out yourself. | ||
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Binky1842
United States2599 Posts
I had a class with a girl I had gone to high school with, we never said anything to each other in high school, but I sat next to her in a class in community college, and I did just that. Our conversations started out with small talk, but then when I went out to dinner one night she was our waitress. The next class meeting we met, it was like we knew each other forever, we got a long great afterwards and now have a strong friendship years after this happened. That's one example. However, I grew up with girls, and I feel completely comfortable when I'm in a situation where its just me and her. But' I'll leave you with this. Girls want two things in a guy. When you have those honest, no bullshit talks with a girl, they most of the time will all say the same thing. First is, he's got to be funny, second is he needs to be a companion, you know, be there for her. It's beyond just starting a conversation, but in the end, that's where you'll need to be. | ||
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
On December 05 2007 12:23 OverTheUnder wrote: just curious, can you post a current pic of yourself? might help;x *fap fap fap* + Show Spoiler + http://www.myspace.com/snetmonch It's kinda weird but the only one I have online  | ||
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
I like Binky's post, just above. Very down to Earth and honest. A lot of getting with women is just talking to em. If you can be humorous, that is a massive bonus (and I know you have that in you.) You don't have to be a standup comedian; just being able to make humorous observations or take a fun approach to things is usually enough. When talking to women, just kind of feel out how engaged you both are in the conversation. If it seems like you are both really interested in what you each have to say, and she is really getting into it, this is an indication of "chemistry." IT means your chances are good. If, on the other hand, she is talking to you, but the subject constantly changes, or it feels like it's not really going anywhere, then there could be a serious lack of chemistry. It's no one's fault. Chemistry is either there or not. | ||
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