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[Girl blog] Time to start changing, for real - Page 3
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frontliner2
Netherlands844 Posts
I'm dissapointed in where the site is going. | ||
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Starlightsun
United States1405 Posts
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Jae Zedong
407 Posts
On May 24 2019 04:07 Starlightsun wrote: Sometimes all sense goes out the window when you get infatuated with somebody, and it's only magnified when you are awkward to begin with. Yes, that is true. I’m usually pretty level-headed but I absolutely cringe at the stuff I did with the first girl I really fell in love with. We were both probably 9/10 in terms of looks but I acted like a 3/10 because of low self esteem. But we’re married and have kids now, lol. | ||
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alpenrahm
Germany629 Posts
letz just open a patreon page. gather funds for him to throw the biggest house party he can. have someone who is closeby and somewhat interested come over and make sure he gets stupedly drunk and then hook him up with whatever girl is available. | ||
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Alakaslam
United States17336 Posts
Keep clean work hard don’t worry about money so long as you give your best at work and make your goal becoming a very responsible person She will then come to you I chased for 12 years. Then, while I was chasing a wealthy woman who wanted nothing to do with me beyond an awesome friendship, my current GF came right over and started up conversation. She is the only person who has truly loved me, and is way waaaaay better suited for me than anyone else I have pursued. She wants to be with me; and it’s obvious I want to be with her, and this makes her giddy THAT is love. Not manipulation, not convincing, not trying to make things work, those are all just lust which is cheap and worthless, even dirty and wrong. The person one lusts for doesn’t have to be sexually attractive to be the victim of lusting. I am not saying this waiting will be easy; it’s like lifting weights and running and all that stuff, it is so hard because you have to work on yourself for so long with no change until suddenly a little change starts happening like MONTHS later and then suddenly WHAM you’re fit and thin and can jog 5 miles before you’re winded but holy shit it’s hell until then. But patience is amazing and it’s own reward after a while. | ||
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vnlegend
United States1389 Posts
I'd also support them: 1. You're not ready for dating, too needy/desperate, socially unaware. 2. Need to work on yourself to become a guy that girls want to date. 3. Also think about things from their perspective, in terms of respecting what they want as opposed to just what you want. What do women want? A guy who is strong and responsible (notice how she said you're lazy? They want capable men who can do things and take them places, not lazy men). 1. Attractive, 2. Strong/capable, 3. A leader. Having just 2 is enough, having 3 and you're a killer. The 3 things above will make you a better person and you will attract more women. Keyword here is better self attracts better women. It's not like do this trick or do that trick and everything will work. There is a decent book about this called Models: Attract Women Through Honesty By Mark Manson. There are PDF versions online, check it out. I don't agree with everything but the fundamentals sound good. | ||
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