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ZerONine09
United Kingdom42 Posts
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BLinD-RawR
ALLEYCAT BLUES50600 Posts
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Tarot
Canada440 Posts
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ComaDose
Canada10357 Posts
Family gatherings are ALWAYS so much easyer when your already in a relationship. EDIT: untill recently now that its "time" to get married | ||
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babylon
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EtherealDeath
United States8366 Posts
gl hf haha | ||
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Raysalis
Malaysia1034 Posts
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TheEmulator
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zdfgucker
China594 Posts
On April 20 2013 04:42 TheEmulator wrote: You should be somewhat appreciative that your family makes an effort to know about your life, whether they actually care or not. I go to family functions, and literally 9 out of every 10 family members ignore me, and make 0 effort. And the ones that do just go "so, how's school", and that's it. It's all fun until the 500th person asks when you will marry and proposes to marry her, her you never heard of, her whose name you recall but can't put a face to it, her whose unattractive face you recall, etc, etc. I don't even want to imagine how it's like for a sheng nv. Man that gotta be hell on earth. | ||
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babylon
8765 Posts
On April 20 2013 04:42 TheEmulator wrote: You should be somewhat appreciative that your family makes an effort to know about your life, whether they actually care or not. I go to family functions, and literally 9 out of every 10 family members ignore me, and make 0 effort. And the ones that do just go "so, how's school", and that's it. Of course he should be more appreciative of his family, but it's kind of pointless to turn this into a competition about who has it worse; someone will always have it worse, and people will always say, "You should be more appreciative! At least you have parents!" or something of that sort. I mean, really, he's not going to print out bullet points to give to all his relatives, because that would be extremely disrespectful, and if he's going to be that disrespectful, he might as well just absent himself from the meeting. (Less effort required + more free time to dick around.) | ||
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TheKwas
Iceland372 Posts
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WikidSik
Canada382 Posts
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flamewheel
FREEAGLELAND26781 Posts
On April 19 2013 13:05 Shady Sands wrote: In other news, would any TLers in Beijing like to meet sometime between the 23rd and the 26th? I'll be around until the 23rd lol | ||
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lazyitachi
1043 Posts
I know that the cases are kinda mounting in China... Stay safe! | ||
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c0ldfusion
United States8293 Posts
On April 20 2013 04:56 zdfgucker wrote: It's all fun until the 500th person asks when you will marry and proposes to marry her, her you never heard of, her whose name you recall but can't put a face to it, her whose unattractive face you recall, etc, etc. I don't even want to imagine how it's like for a sheng nv. Man that gotta be hell on earth. What's a "sheng nv" ? | ||
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sths
Australia192 Posts
What's a "sheng nv" ? I think its means leftover women. As in women past 30 who have not found a husband. Yes I know, retarded. But then China never really had a women's rights movement like in the west. | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
I feel really bad for girls like that, then again sometimes I feel like the fam asking you why you don't date susy when you are sure they understand why susy isn't/never has been taken EVER gets annoying. For my family its more like, "So honey, when is she converting?" LOL. | ||
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
I've got a slew of stuff lined up the afternoon of the 25th, but my evening that day is free. Would that day work out for everyone who's PM'd me and/or posted in this thread? Feel free to suggest a place | ||
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Thienan567
United States670 Posts
On April 19 2013 21:31 c0ldfusion wrote: Why not just not go? Seems like the obvious choice to me. It's a Chinese family reunion, and from the looks of it a massive one at that. If he's not going to attend he'd better have a damn good reason, as in "sorry but i just got married but then my wife died" good reason. | ||
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GettingIt
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