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There's nothing wrong with just doing, really, who is going to judge me for what I do and hold it against me even when I reach adulthood? Anybody who does something like that probably deserves to be slapped on the face. Of course, there are exceptions like sex, murder, all that stuff, but all it takes is a little common sense. I'm pretty confident that I have common sense.
So maybe I shouldn't be so afraid to voice out, as long as it's not anything that purpose is to only defame the character of a certain individual. Some basic social rules must be obeyed, but that isn't a problem. I shouldn't be so shy and detached, trying to make sure that I'm far away from any form of social interaction. Just make friends, if they're loyal and good, keep them, if they're dicks, forget them.
Just talk to girls, am I right? That's what a regular male teenager does, right? Try to get a girlfriend. So what if the conversation is awkward as hell when I initiate it? Who cares? Is she going to judge me that harshly? What can she do anyway?
Bottom line, just go with it, do what your instincts tell you. But, always make sure you don't do anything you will regret doing.
Here's a picture I found on my old SDcard. I took this when I went to Auckland last December. Maybe I'll post the rest soon.
  
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is this a subliminal commercial for Nike?
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On April 20 2012 20:30 metbull wrote:
is this a subliminal commercial for Nike?
Yes it is actually, amazing that you figured it out! Now that the secret is out, I should make the announcement.
Nike is going to launch a new line of sports clothing, accessories, and shoes in a wide variety of flashy colours that look like paint mixed with vomit to target a more specific demographic.
Oh...
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Such a Christian thing to include sex on a list of forbidden things... -_-
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Yah what the heck is wrong with sex. That should be top of the list of things to do as a teenager.
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Or... you could put your imagination and thoughts towards fanfic writing like me =)
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Lol nike painted all over this xD
As a teen, my list of priorities is pretty much video gaming and TL and finding a gf.
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Thing is, I don't really have a problem with blow jobs, hand jobs, etc. I only have a problem with, well, coitus. I don't want to risk a pregnancy man.
On April 20 2012 20:50 OpticalShot wrote:
Or... you could put your imagination and thoughts towards fanfic writing like me =)
PM me the fan fics :D
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It was fantastic! The salmon, mussels, the lamb, the beef, man everything tastes so much better there. The Chinese restaurants I went to had better quality roast pork than the ones I have eaten in Singapore. The scenery was breathtaking, and the air was so fresh.
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On April 20 2012 20:44 StorkHwaiting wrote:
Yah what the heck is wrong with sex. That should be top of the list of things to do as a teenager.
Singaporean society is a little more conservative than American, particularly about sex.
And that said, once OP is into his JC/NS years, his opinion might shift.
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On April 20 2012 22:18 Dfgj wrote:Show nested quote +On April 20 2012 20:44 StorkHwaiting wrote:
Yah what the heck is wrong with sex. That should be top of the list of things to do as a teenager. Singaporean society is a little more conservative than American, particularly about sex. And that said, once OP is into his JC/NS years, his opinion might shift.
Why? From what I know JC is really stressful. Studying, studying, and more studying.
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You make too many blogs.
Also why is sex as bad as murder?
You can wear a condom you know, they do a pretty good job or protecting both people from STD's and pregnancy. Sex isn't as great as people make out when you're young, but its certainly enjoyable and holding back those urges is a killer.
As far as friends being dicks and abandoning them... no probably not, 90% of the time someone is being a dick for a reason, whether you gave them one, a teacher / parent gave them a reason or whatever, in my experience most people can be forgiven if they accept they were a dick, and sometimes you have to as well. Of course you don't want to get too close to someone volatile, people are complicated and I could sit here and write a whole thesis on what I've learnt, you'll figure stuff out as you age. This is why it helps to have multiple friends, friends can help you get some perspective on things.
If a conversation is awkward as hell just make your excuses and leave, talk to someone else or whatever, unless you are king charming you will find people you just don't click on any level with and awkward moments will ensue, the trick is to not do anything daft like apologize for talking to them or mumbling excuses.
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All this time I was thinking you were a girl o.O
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On April 20 2012 22:20 Azera wrote:Show nested quote +On April 20 2012 22:18 Dfgj wrote:On April 20 2012 20:44 StorkHwaiting wrote:
Yah what the heck is wrong with sex. That should be top of the list of things to do as a teenager. Singaporean society is a little more conservative than American, particularly about sex. And that said, once OP is into his JC/NS years, his opinion might shift. Why? From what I know JC is really stressful. Studying, studying, and more studying.
For one, that's false. JC is no more stressful than any other year in school, but you're going to be told how hard you have to work because Singapore schools want you to work hard.
As for mindset changing, two things. One, you're now in constant contact with girls (JCs are co-ed, below that isn't, for non-Singaporeans) and that might adjust your impressions - it's easy to say you don't want to do something when you've never had desire to do it. Second, you're getting older, and if you don't think that's going to changing how you see everything, take a look at the responses your blogs have gotten.
None of that is to say you will, or have to, change how you see this issue. Don't assume you need to, either.
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sex is great don't deprive yourself of something that's so much fun,
too many blogs, too much thinking. stop writing about everything you do, stop thinking about everything you do, my advice is get drunk as often as possible, its liberating.
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