wtf is wrong with me? [girl blog]

On April 07 2012 11:45 DyEnasTy wrote:
As Red would say, stop being a dumbass.

On April 07 2012 11:54 Cyber_Cheese wrote:
It seems like you're only into girl A because she likes you. Jane clearly isn't into you that way. I suggest you go with neither and find someone else.

On April 07 2012 12:06 DreamChaser wrote:
This is some fucking bullshit how do people get laid by females initiating a facebook conversation. Sorry im just a bit jelly T_T, but fuck Jane shes just keeping you around for when shes bored at least the other girl has sex with you.

On April 07 2012 11:58 iTzSnypah wrote:
explanation: Bitches be crazy! or Jane FRIENDZONED you.

Solution: Go have some revenge sex with girl A(if shes not in other city). Then reflect on how to never end up in that situation ever again.

On April 07 2012 12:18 krisss wrote:
people always want the things they cant get.

If the story would have been the other way round, if girl A was girl B, you probably still felt the same way.

Especially when ur drunk.

On April 07 2012 13:00 Scarecrow wrote:
Jane just doesn't understand guys very well. To you the chatting is a prelude to sex, to her it's friendship.

On April 07 2012 13:20 B.I.G. wrote:
the one that got away man... shit sucks... just go on with your live and soon enough youll start forgetting about her...

On April 07 2012 14:05 Little Rage Box wrote:
Being friendzoned sucks bro. But the desire to get out of the "FZ" can be part of the allure of the girl. That comes from my personal expierence. Because being in the "FZ" doesnt expose you to all the entricate details about a woman that you learn from being in a relationship.

Just remember just because the grass looks greener doesn't mean it is.

On April 07 2012 14:59 Clazziquai10 wrote:
Gosh I just wish random girls will chat me up on facebook........ur one lucky dude son.....

On April 08 2012 07:59 Aalo wrote:
To me it sounds like your attraction for Jane is deeper than physical attraction. Like you said in your OP, you only really noticed how attractive she was after you started learning about her (i.e. she's bi-lingual, travels, interested in other cultures). Seems you were attracted to her personality first, which is why you're having such a hard time getting over Jane. Most people get into relationships based on physical attraction, which is what girl b sounds more like to you.

To me it seems like while you're attracted to girl b physically, you're struggling to get as into the relationship you're in with her as deeply as she seems to be already because she isn't offering you what you need intellectually, which you're already getting from Jane even though you're just friends.

I get why you'd be upset to find out she has a boyfriend after her trying so hard to get you to come to her party, but you have to remember if a guy wants a girl to come to his party, is because more than likely we're attracted to her, but when a girl asks a guy to come to her party it could be because she's attracted to you (which you clearly seemed to have thought), but at the same time they could also have asked you there just because they want to celebrate with there friends (in which she clearly sees you as).

I would say, continue having fun with girl b, see if she grows on you. I can tell you're into her so getting rid of her to me seems a little silly. If it comes to a point where your attraction for girl b doesn't grow, and Jane becomes available, try to have a conversation about her and let her know how you feel, but as of right now Jane seems a little out of reach for you.

On April 08 2012 13:43 Arthemesia wrote:
Did you also ever try asking her friend about what she feels about you? Since she first hooked you guys up maybe she could tell you some inside information. Sometimes you think you made for your feelings obvious, but perhaps you didn't and she could also just be more comfortable being your friend. Whatever the case good luck man and don't give up hope, your song went perfectly while reading the blog btw.