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I know this guy from my school. We are considered acquaintance. It all started one day because I am happy and daydreaming. So I am walking and smiling like idiot on the way home from school. Then he thought I was smiling to him. So he waved back. And I waved back too. But that is all. We did not talk to each other. But few days ago he asked me out to eat. Ah, so suddenly. I agree.
He seems like nice guy. I am a little bit scare because I am quite an introvert. I am thinking of bringing roommate to come for dinner with me, so I feel better. But I decided no. Because his face is like a fresh guy just come out from the woods. And I am scare if I bring friends. It will be awkward for him.
When I reached the place, I saw him + two other guy.
So he is 3 people, I am just 1 small girl from the woods. Now I am awkward. 
I went over, say Hii. I waved, like always. He waved, like always, keke. Then they just started walking and talking and laughing. I just follow behind. Maybe they are shy to girl, so they did not take a look at me or talk to me.
When we reach, they sit down, and 3 people talking Mars language. I do not understand their dialect. Only little bit. I am starting to feel scare. One part of me wanting them to talk to me, so I won't be so out of place. One part of me say, I am shy, I want to keep it this way, do not talk to me. Thank.
Ah, they really did not talk to me. I am feeling wierd. I am thinking, maybe I should talk first? I want to, but I am too scare to do it. So I wait. They wait, I wait, they wait. Nothing happen. Oh shit.
When menu and the waitress come, they started looking at the menu. I looked at my menu too. Although my 2 eyes is looking at the menu. Half of my brain is thinking what to eat, half of my other brain is thinking "Oh Shit, Oh Shit" After awhile I can only see shit listed in menu. After awhile I feel like eating shit. Not really eating shit, just feeling shitty.
Finally there is conversation between Mars people and me. But is quite dissapointing.
Guy A: Hey, you should introduce your friend to us!
Guy B: Yea!
Friend: Why don't you 2 people introduce yourself to her?
Guy A: Ask what does she want to eat.
Friend: What do you want to eat?
Joyce: White grape juice.
Guy A: AHAHAHA, ask her food, she reply drink.
Joyce: No.. I am fine with any food.. I just want white grape juice.
Guy A: If I order shit, you eat?
*Joyce Thinking* -> "How lame, so cold joke. Is he 14 year old?"
Joyce: No, keke. I eat nice food only. 
Guy A: My shit is nice.
Joyce: *Silence*
I feel much better before conversation. The Guy A, is he really from Mars? No, from the woods. No, from Mental hospital. Ah, I should not say bad things about him on the internet. No, I have to say it. I really feel this way.
Ah, I am too long winded, let me skip some part.
The food is hot, so I drink alot water. It was all white grape juice.
Guy A: Hey, Joyce, why do you drink sweet drink?
Joyce: Because nice?
Guy A: Don't you drink alcohol?
Guy B: Yea, eating great food must complement with alcohol
Joyce: I can drink, but I just prefer sweet drink
Friend: Just drink a little bit Food will taste better.
Guy B: Yea!
So I just make them happy, I drink. And they forbid me ordering anymore white grape juice. I think it was the Guy A idea. After finish eating we all just drinking. I started to feel little bit drunk. Just little bit. Because I drink little.
I feel like going home. I don't really feel nice hanging out with all 3 of them. Maybe next time we can go out alone together? Not with extra 2 people? Not with Mars people keke.
Joyce: It is 10pm, I need to go, tomorrow there is school.
Guy A: Don't worry about it, he has school too. And he is not worry.
Guy A: It is rare occasion, just go home a little bit later?
Guy A: And you drink too little, drink more.
Joyce: Okay, toilet first.
I went toilet, but even when I ran out of pee. I do not feel like going out of the toilet. I really feel like going home. I cannot think straight. I am feeling scare and awkward and very stress. I think today things do not work out right. I should have bring my roommate so I feel better. Ahh....
And then I just sneaked out of the toilet and ran away. I felt bad doing so. Wasn't the right thing to do? The next day (friday, today), I am so scare to go to school. I am scare I will bumped into him and I do not know how to explain myself doing such stupid thing. Or maybe he will be angry at me. I am so relief I didnt bumped to him today.
Now it is weekend, but I cannot enjoy. I am feeling scare stress and guilty I think. I will bump into him sooner or later in school next week.
Should I be honest? Or maybe I just tell him I am drunk & sleeping in toilet keke. Or maybe I should tell him I fell into toilet bowl ahaha.
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Wow I feel like this whole thread is an awkward bomb. Why do I get this feeling that they just want to you in bed? They're so persistant into making you stay out longer, and drink much more than you want to. The guy that you "gave" a smile to seemed to just make a huge psychological counteractive wave to what you thought was just a gentle day-dream. Basically, you screwed up his mind into thinking you like him and want to get to know him. ehh.. getting out of this problem.. Just cold shoulder him easily and if you hang out with him longer, just stay as quiet and introvert as usual and hopefully he'll get this sign that maybe this was a mistake. Who knows. Good luck.
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Seems like a really awkward situation. I wouldnt feel guilty about leaving them, they didnt seem to treat you all that well and kinda put you in an awkward situation. I dont really get how someone would invite a person somewhere and then not greet them and kind of ignor them...weird
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What is this Mars dialect? Is this some kind of a game?
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i have to agree with folca on this one 
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lmao they are all fucking losers,.... run away little girl, run away!
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On July 17 2010 05:32 mdb wrote:
What is this Mars dialect? Is this some kind of a game?
Boys are from Mars, Girls are from Venus..
Shes inferring that she doesn't understand what they're talking about because half of what they talk about is probably nerd gamer language mixed in with inside-jokes between themselves.
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Hmm.... this seems like a tricky situation. I understand your point of view after reading your story, like what you must have been thinking and why things happened the way it happened but your friend really tried to attempt to be nice to you asking you out and all. I could imagine so many wrong possibilities afterwards but yea... it seems really messy... though you shouldn't be afraid and just tell him the truth.... maybe...
Bottom line, I do feel like they were sorta taking advantage of you and put you into an awkward situation on purpose... I just get this feeling that's how it was from the story you told us. So what you did seems justified, especially seeing you thought it was a 1 on 1 date when it became 3 on 1. So they put you into this spotlight that you weren't expecting. In any case, I wish you good luck and hope for the best out of this messy weird situation. I'm sure it'll go well but keep us updated! Cheers!
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lol, cant imagine some nerd gamers getting drunk a giril to "go to the bed" with them
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First lemme say Guy A was a douche bag. Also they seemed to want you to get drunk and in bed. Sorry.
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haha, i laughed, no offense, some unusual things happens to you lately.
Just lie, you dont need to explain them everything, just tell them you recieved a call from parents to get home soon. and thats it.
and yeah they were rude to you by ignoring you, how old are they?, they look to me like 16-18.
cause i cant believe a grown man would behave like this. just date older men i guess. men arent very smart at young age.
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It all started with daydreaming...
Now you know that a shy young girl like you probably shouldn't go out with 3 strangers like that and be pushed into drinking. That guy clearly cannot be trusted if he makes you feel like that.
Give him the cold shoulder. If he asks why, tell him without hesitating that you felt too awkward to be friends. If he is pushy, surround yourself with your friends.
You seem like a nice girl you should not be hanging out with this kind of boys.
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Guy A is retarded.
Guy B is no help.
Your friend is a terrible friend. He can't introduce you himself? And wow for letting his friends act like a douche around you. The least he could have done was tell you he was bringing his own buddies so you could have brought yours. Honestly, I hope Guy A was at least paying for the drinks he kept trying to force you to drink.
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the fact that you were put in a position where you had to sneak away speaks volumes about these people and their actions. if you're embarassed about it, apologize for it, and make up some story that you got called with some emergency that turned out to be a misunderstanding. (i thought my mom was sick but it was actually just the dog.) if he calls you out on your bullshit, then you probably should just leave it at that, because hes not a guy you want to be around.
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I still think the writing style of xiao points to massive troll that no one has found out yet, but I'll play along.
I agree with Folca, they wanted ya in bed. Stay away asap.
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On July 17 2010 06:01 avilo wrote:
I still think the writing style of xiao points to massive troll that no one has found out yet, but I'll play along.
I agree with Folca, they wanted ya in bed. Stay away asap.
Look at all of her posts, and she said so herself that her English isn't that great and she's still learning it to a degree...
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On July 17 2010 06:04 Folca wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2010 06:01 avilo wrote:
I still think the writing style of xiao points to massive troll that no one has found out yet, but I'll play along.
I agree with Folca, they wanted ya in bed. Stay away asap. Look at all of her posts, and she said so herself that her English isn't that great and she's still learning it to a degree...
Yes, and then other times her english includes some very intricate slang and purposeful mess-ups in speech pattern to appear to be a completely non-native english speaker. Tough to tell.
anyways, the three guys seem like bad news.
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As Morrissey said, "Shyness is nice, and shyness can stop you from doing all the things in life you'd like to"
You could have known the distinct pleasure of triple penetration, XiaoJoyce. These opportunities don't just come knocking every day you know
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I really want to know ... which one of them was the best looking?
Douchebag A, Yesman B, or Doormat Friend?
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On July 17 2010 05:15 XiaoJoyce- wrote: Guy A: Hey, Joyce, why do you drink sweet drink? Joyce: Because nice? Guy A: Don't you drink alcohol? Guy B: Yea, eating great food must complement with alcohol Joyce: I can drink, but I just prefer sweet drink Friend: Just drink a little bit Food will taste better. Guy B: Yea! Joyce: It is 10pm, I need to go, tomorrow there is school. Guy A: Don't worry about it, he has school too. And he is not worry. Guy A: It is rare occasion, just go home a little bit later? Guy A: And you drink too little, drink more. Joyce: Okay, toilet first.
wtf, your friend didn't help you out here? He's the biggest douchebag here, not guy A.
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