EPTSeriously, seriously need help - Page 2
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
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TaP.Nuada
United States428 Posts
I say you fly the fuck down here and have a fucking blast with us. On March 18 2009 13:46 brad3104 wrote: Prolly the best thing actually if for u to B ur L on some T's. This will help alot....trust me. Made me lol | ||
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Fallen33
United States596 Posts
thanks everybody | ||
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deathgod6
United States5064 Posts
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
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Fallen33
United States596 Posts
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MiniRoman
Canada3953 Posts
On March 18 2009 13:16 Fallen33 wrote: yeah good shit savio. Of course i'm not over it, I THOUGHT I was coming home to a perfect life lol i only been home about 3 weeks... I mean you all make valid points, idk exactly how she feels because she cried for like a day after I broke up with her.. I found out by just asking, she said she regretted it and she basically came right out and said it.. and YPang, I even remember the time and place and what she wore, LOL  Eh fuck it bro. Things will look up for no reason and when they do you will feel good. Once you start feeling good just keep on at it. Nothing will change between you two from now and then so might as well feel good now. | ||
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iSCOUT4u
United States327 Posts
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404.Nintu
Canada1723 Posts
A part of you dies and grows numb. When a friend told me this I became scared at the thought.. But I kept thinking about it. I kept thinking of them together. It hurt. A lot. But after a few months, the thought didn't hurt as much. Months after that, I could think about it without much care at all. A year later and I can look back and laugh at the ludicrousness of it. The pain does go away. A part of you dies, the part of you that is so attached to her. The pain grows weaker and weaker with time. Eventually it will stop hurting, I promise. It's really, really, really gay. I'm sorry to hear it happened to you. I wish you the best of luck. And as many other have mentioned, reliable, consuming hobbies can really help with speeding up the process. Goodluck buddy. | ||
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404.Nintu
Canada1723 Posts
On March 18 2009 14:04 Fallen33 wrote: no, but I have a feeling that the reason was she was feeling alone, depressed because I left and all that, and he kind of took advantage of it.. dunno though You can't trust her. You never will be able to after that. nomatter how much you WANT to be able to trust her, you never, ever, ever would be able to. You seriously have to detach. Even if certain circumstances pushed her closer to making bad decisions, she still did it. I've literally felt exactly like how to describe. I was so torn up. I was talking to my friend saying "maybe, I drove her to do what she did. Maybe it was all my fucking fault." My best friend in the world then looked at me and said "No. Nomatter what she could have done, you never would have done that to her. That's the difference between you and her. You would never do that to her. You need to be with someone who would never do that to you." | ||
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x89titan
Philippines1130 Posts
......and creates new ones. but at least you wouldn't have the same problems anymore. | ||
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PH
United States6173 Posts
Luckily, I haven't been fucked over seriously by anyone too close to me as of yet...and hope to god it doesn't ever happen. This kind of thing is definitely a downer, though. You probably won't ever get over it, especially if you were as emotionally invested as you seem to have been. To some extent, there will be a little bit lingering. The best solution (though, like mentioned above, it won't be a complete one) is to wait until you find a new girl...another one you can focus all your energy on. She was a cunt...you can find someone who will treat you better as well. As for your former best friend...fuck him. He's a douche. | ||
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freelander
Hungary4707 Posts
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Folca
2235 Posts
Fuck everyone else. | ||
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yoshtodd
United States418 Posts
On March 18 2009 15:09 freelander wrote: it's better that she cheated you now than some years later I agree with this and what Savio said. She saved you all the time and energy you would have spent on her that you can now spend on someone who has some modicum of self control and respect toward you. | ||
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
awesome? :D | ||
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TheosEx
United States894 Posts
How I handled it? Turned all my frustrations on becoming successful. 5 years later, every time she looks at my new girl with a 14k rock on her finger, the look her face is golden. Or sometimes the best revenge is to continue being nice, and let her suffer even more for knowing she was such a bitch to such a good guy. | ||
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gusbear
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rushz0rz
Canada5300 Posts
You know what to do. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32051 Posts
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