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iSCOUT4u
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States327 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-18 04:54:38
March 18 2009 04:46 GMT
#21
Prolly the best thing actually is for u to B ur L on some T's. This will help alot....trust me.
<3 R1CH <3 TL Just ordered a TL shirt and can't wait :)
TaP.Nuada
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States428 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-18 04:51:39
March 18 2009 04:51 GMT
#22
My IRL friends are going on a road trip this summer. They're going to hit the southwest area (Austin) and some other area in the country.

I say you fly the fuck down here and have a fucking blast with us.


On March 18 2009 13:46 brad3104 wrote:
Prolly the best thing actually if for u to B ur L on some T's. This will help alot....trust me.

Made me lol
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Fallen33
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States596 Posts
March 18 2009 04:56 GMT
#23
the problem is though I mean like I said I'm just coming off active duty... all my buddies are scattered around the globe lol and all my High school buddies are scattered around at colleges and/or in the military... it's been tough to just get some plans let alone enjoy a night .. meh

thanks everybody
"Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever." - Napoleon Bonaparte ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
deathgod6
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States5064 Posts
March 18 2009 04:56 GMT
#24
You don't see them hanging out constantly because he isn't your friend anymore, right? Just don't let it bother you. Just wondering, did you ask her why she cheated?
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iSCOUT4u
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States327 Posts
March 18 2009 05:01 GMT
#25
Because she wanted a P in her V? and her bf was gone? Some girls just cant be faithful...
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Fallen33
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States596 Posts
March 18 2009 05:04 GMT
#26
no, but I have a feeling that the reason was she was feeling alone, depressed because I left and all that, and he kind of took advantage of it.. dunno though
"Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever." - Napoleon Bonaparte ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
MiniRoman
Profile Blog Joined September 2003
Canada3953 Posts
March 18 2009 05:04 GMT
#27
On March 18 2009 13:16 Fallen33 wrote:
yeah good shit savio.

Of course i'm not over it, I THOUGHT I was coming home to a perfect life lol
i only been home about 3 weeks...
I mean you all make valid points, idk exactly how she feels because she cried for like a day after I broke up with her..

I found out by just asking, she said she regretted it and she basically came right out and said it..
and YPang, I even remember the time and place and what she wore, LOL


Eh fuck it bro. Things will look up for no reason and when they do you will feel good. Once you start feeling good just keep on at it. Nothing will change between you two from now and then so might as well feel good now.
Nak Allstar.
iSCOUT4u
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States327 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-18 05:11:37
March 18 2009 05:09 GMT
#28
Being alone and depressed is no reason to get cocked by ur boyfriends best friend...she could hang out with her friends, read a book, get a hobby, spend time with family..etc etc...It's pretty simple...like i said...she just wanted to have sex...and be with someone else.
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404.Nintu
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Canada1723 Posts
March 18 2009 05:33 GMT
#29
Sadly you simply need to move on. It sucks balls, I know. I had a very similar situation happen to me with a girl I was with for 4 years, cheating on me for over a year and weird shit like that. It tears you up for a very long time, and it feels like the pain is too much and will never go away.

A part of you dies and grows numb. When a friend told me this I became scared at the thought.. But I kept thinking about it. I kept thinking of them together. It hurt. A lot. But after a few months, the thought didn't hurt as much. Months after that, I could think about it without much care at all. A year later and I can look back and laugh at the ludicrousness of it.

The pain does go away. A part of you dies, the part of you that is so attached to her. The pain grows weaker and weaker with time. Eventually it will stop hurting, I promise.

It's really, really, really gay. I'm sorry to hear it happened to you. I wish you the best of luck. And as many other have mentioned, reliable, consuming hobbies can really help with speeding up the process.

Goodluck buddy.
"So, then did the American yum-yum clown monkey also represent the FCC?"
404.Nintu
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Canada1723 Posts
March 18 2009 05:36 GMT
#30
On March 18 2009 14:04 Fallen33 wrote:
no, but I have a feeling that the reason was she was feeling alone, depressed because I left and all that, and he kind of took advantage of it.. dunno though

You can't trust her. You never will be able to after that. nomatter how much you WANT to be able to trust her, you never, ever, ever would be able to. You seriously have to detach. Even if certain circumstances pushed her closer to making bad decisions, she still did it.

I've literally felt exactly like how to describe. I was so torn up. I was talking to my friend saying "maybe, I drove her to do what she did. Maybe it was all my fucking fault."

My best friend in the world then looked at me and said
"No. Nomatter what she could have done, you never would have done that to her. That's the difference between you and her. You would never do that to her. You need to be with someone who would never do that to you."
"So, then did the American yum-yum clown monkey also represent the FCC?"
x89titan
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
Philippines1130 Posts
March 18 2009 05:42 GMT
#31
last time i checked a gun solves lots of problems..................


......and creates new ones. but at least you wouldn't have the same problems anymore.
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul, when at the cross the Savior made me whole
PH
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States6173 Posts
March 18 2009 05:45 GMT
#32
What I've done in the past in similar situations was go alcoholic for days, weeks, even one time two months at a time...all the while pissing off and annoying my good friends. Don't do what I do.

Luckily, I haven't been fucked over seriously by anyone too close to me as of yet...and hope to god it doesn't ever happen.

This kind of thing is definitely a downer, though. You probably won't ever get over it, especially if you were as emotionally invested as you seem to have been. To some extent, there will be a little bit lingering.

The best solution (though, like mentioned above, it won't be a complete one) is to wait until you find a new girl...another one you can focus all your energy on. She was a cunt...you can find someone who will treat you better as well.

As for your former best friend...fuck him. He's a douche.
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freelander
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Hungary4707 Posts
March 18 2009 06:09 GMT
#33
it's better that she cheated you now than some years later
And all is illuminated.
Folca
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
2235 Posts
March 18 2009 07:01 GMT
#34
This is why the only person you can trust is yourself.
Fuck everyone else.
Dea : one time when he was playing vs the comps he asked me "how do I make that flying unit that makes the other stuff invisible" and I reply "ur playing terran zomg"
yoshtodd
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
United States418 Posts
March 18 2009 08:49 GMT
#35
On March 18 2009 15:09 freelander wrote:
it's better that she cheated you now than some years later


I agree with this and what Savio said. She saved you all the time and energy you would have spent on her that you can now spend on someone who has some modicum of self control and respect toward you.
moo
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
March 18 2009 09:47 GMT
#36
Gotta let him on a bootcamp while you look over the girl for him
awesome? :D
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
TheosEx
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States894 Posts
March 18 2009 10:15 GMT
#37
Same thing happened to me.

How I handled it? Turned all my frustrations on becoming successful. 5 years later, every time she looks at my new girl with a 14k rock on her finger, the look her face is golden.

Or sometimes the best revenge is to continue being nice, and let her suffer even more for knowing she was such a bitch to such a good guy.
gusbear
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
333 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-18 11:17:54
March 18 2009 11:17 GMT
#38
easier said than done but the solution is obvious. Stop thinking that she is THE ONE and realize that theres plenty of fish in the sea.
rushz0rz
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Canada5300 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-03-18 12:53:23
March 18 2009 12:52 GMT
#39
Revenge is like the sweetest joy next to gettin' pussy.

You know what to do.
IntoTheRainBOw fan~
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32051 Posts
March 18 2009 17:04 GMT
#40
Sounds like you should put your military training to work on his neck
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