Her pt.2

ggrrg

Bulgaria2717 Posts

May 02 2014 01:58 GMT

Her pt.2

It is certainly is not unexpected. The only thing surprising about it is the timeframe of only two and a half months until the term "new relationship".
While I linger in pain, she apparently has already moved on.
I spent the night walking around the empty streets with a bottle of vodka... while she seems to be perfectly fine.
The main reason why I left her is that I thought that she deserves something better. But there was always the hope that I might become that something better.
Only yesterday, I had my hopes up, only to have them crushed completely today...

Stupid?
Maybe.

Infantile?
Probably...

But it is still fucking awfully painful...

vult

United States9400 Posts

May 02 2014 02:30 GMT

Sorry mate. Hang in there! Don't beat yourself up too much!

Mothra

United States1448 Posts

May 02 2014 02:55 GMT

Even if your goal is to win her back some day (probably bad idea), the worst thing you can do is obsess about her and trash yourself. You have to build yourself into someone you respect before setting your mind on her again. Don't define your worth by the whims and fancies of a single woman. There's a lyric from a Black Flag song that goes "You can't judge a book by looking at the cover/You can't judge a man by looking at his lover." Without self respect you cannot attract genuine love.

wongfeihung

United States763 Posts

May 02 2014 20:47 GMT

Previously on girl blogs...

On March 30 2014 13:38 ggrrg wrote:
So an hour ago I met my ex on the street while going back home. We broke up about two months ago on Valentine's day. (And by that I mean she told me that she wanted to fuck her previous boss and that we have nothing in common and probably no future together and then I went away.)

And then...

On May 02 2014 10:58 ggrrg wrote:
The main reason why I left her is that I thought that she deserves something better. But there was always the hope that I might become that something better.

Am I crazy, or is this the same girl?

ggrrg

Bulgaria2717 Posts

May 02 2014 22:11 GMT

On May 03 2014 05:47 wongfeihung wrote:
Previously on girl blogs...

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And then...

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Am I crazy, or is this the same girl?

Chances are that I am crazy...

B.I.G.

3251 Posts

May 03 2014 05:37 GMT

Breaking up because you think your SO deserves better is the most retarded reason to break up ever.

quirinus

Croatia2489 Posts

May 03 2014 16:02 GMT

Well, I know it's the most common advice, but getting to know other girls and then getting involved with one helps... (whatever you consider with 'getting involved').

josemb40

Peru611 Posts

May 05 2014 14:42 GMT

Well, the pain ends when your mind realizes that it is your mind which creates the pain. Give it a thought.

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