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On March 29 2013 12:00 Garnet wrote: I still remember clearly the time she asked to borrow my eraser. That soft voice, the eyes... I just nodded and let her take it.
hahahahahahah this sounds like some creepy thing that jonah hill's loser character would do in a movie
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13 years and you couldn't ask her out that entire time? You probably won't make a move just like you haven't been doing this whole while. Go ahead an prove me wrong and actually talk to her instead of acting like a psychopath-stalker.
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oh man! this is perfect.
OP I completely relate to what you're doing but i still think it is unhealthy. You want to believe the dream.. you want the miracle that will save your life. Well, there is love, and it soundsl ike this person really had an effect on you so who am i to talk??
Good luck but, work on yourself and she'll come around intime.
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On March 29 2013 23:24 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On March 29 2013 12:00 Garnet wrote: I still remember clearly the time she asked to borrow my eraser. That soft voice, the eyes... I just nodded and let her take it.
hahahahahahah this sounds like some creepy thing that jonah hill's loser character would do in a movie Yeah, just judging by the OP I doubt he has the tact to pull off anything that requires any amount of grace. I mean, I've been in a similar situation where its a girl I used to know who I am going to try to bang and you have to have an approach that isn't creepy, which he actually has. You see her there you walk up and go "oh shit, it's been like 10 years!" and start talking and joking and then go from there.
The problem is you always have to go into any type of relationship not caring whether or not it fails or succeeds and that is what allows you to act naturally. Judging by how you harped on this for 13 years I doubt you could even fake the above.
So the irony of it all is the only way for you to get the girl of your dreams is to not want the girl of your dreams.
Also, in the span of 10 years she could of probably changed a lot. If you can focus in on that and assume you are going to be let down you might have a chance. No one is telling you not to go for it, but you have to approach the situation with a level of tact, and if you can't do that then you will fail and be miserable.
If I had to guess I'd say you are still a virgin and probably have never been in a relationship and I would further say that I doubt you talk to girls much. I feel like exposure to any one of those wouldn't allow you to have a crush for 10 damn years. Without those experiences I could see how you could build up and idolize some girl from 10 years ago. Just know this could definitely be perceived as a bit stalkerish.
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There not a whole lot for you to lose by trying, but you're going into this with pretty unrealistic expectations.
She is definitely the bright part of my not-so-bright life, so far.
That's a huge burden to put on someone, btw. She's not going to be the 'answer to all your problems', certainly not in the long term. Your life isn't some chick flick (probably...).
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uhh hopefully you didn't leave for the concert yet. Just casually bring up and see if she is the same person you went to middle school with. If she is, it will build comfort and proceed from there!
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In the ultimate twist OP will return having started a relation ship with the sister and not the girl who borrowed his eraser
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On March 30 2013 05:29 ZeromuS wrote:In the ultimate twist OP will return having started a relation ship with the sister and not the girl who borrowed his eraser ![](/mirror/smilies/puh2.gif)
Or the girl calls the police and the OP can't come with in 500 yards of her or something....
GOOD LUCK OP!
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Well damnit OP don't leave us hanging... Was it as awkward as everyone thought it would be?
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*update*
She didn't show up. Or I couldn't find her, despite looking everywhere the whole 2 hours. Well at least I got to see her famous father in person. Though the classical music weren't really my type.
Guess I'll have to wait til next month. Sorry for the disappointment ![](/mirror/smilies/frown.gif)
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You better learn to to like classical music. As any ladies man will tell you, the quickest way to a girls heart is through her parents. If you have sex with them, you're in.
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