Girl Blog Maximum! My Tale of 2011 Pt. 2 - Page 2

On January 02 2012 07:37 sc4k wrote:
why is this story awww? It's just pathetic...if you kiss someone on New Year's Eve when you are supposed to have a girlfriend, that's scummy activity. You should be ashamed of yourself. How about you ACTUALLY man up and tell C what happened? On the plus side, she will probably leave your ass, then it will make things easier and you can go off with A.

On January 02 2012 05:23 Cyber_Cheese wrote:
Tell A she should have waited for you (The breakup in part 1), and move on.

On January 02 2012 05:17 r.Evo wrote:

Guy likes girl, girl likes guy.
Guy doesn't make a move even though it's obvious, girl gets pissed and moves on.
(The whole "The worst came, She said I was too slow, I waited too long, I was too shy." - makes her a great girl btw. imo. Those kind of big balls are very rare, twice so at that age.)


This part was, probably without you realizing it, what spiked attraction again in A:
The break began, I spent Christmas with my family and A had texted me to hang out a few times between the 23rd and 29th. Each time I said I was busy, which was partially true, I was working. However I was, in a sense, avoiding her.

Bam. The dude who I just ditched is suddenly dating a pretty damn attractive girl and has no more fucking time for me? Fuck, did I make a mistake in the first place? Why didn't he get it rolling with me like that?


More and more props to you for this part:
She was having fun too, and all of a sudden a light switch went on in my brain. I realized that I was spending my new years of my final year in high school with my best friend and closest female friend in a basement playing Blazblue, Tf2, Starcraft 2 and watching shitty movies, and she didn't complain in the slightest.



Based on your story, A and C both sound like cool girls. (Though nerdiness gives a definite + to A =D) ... Yes, she just got attracted to you (again), because she realized she's about to lose you to a different girl. However, for some reason (hint: you) she was at that place before without another girl involved. Also, I really have to emphasize that the amount of balls and honesty this girl showed to you in the past is amazing. There's like a 1/50 chance to find one of those in girls at 20+. You could learn a lot from that girl if your story is accurate.

However, you're young. If you're not sure whether you don't want a relationship, don't be afraid to say so. It's okay to have something casual with A and/or C as long as they are aware that it's going to be this way. - You basicly have to weigh you being scared about not finding a girl like this again in your life (yes, you will) against never having another chance of "testing some other food" (yes, you will get those, too). If you stick to A, just roll with it. Don't be scared about finding her sexy, don't be scared about "what if she doesn't like what I'm gonna do next?". From the sounds of it she's more experienced than you (which is fucking boss at that age. Huehue. <3), let her lead a little without becoming her puppy dog. Get what I'm trying to say here? =)



PS: Considering that I enjoy taking my dump in random girlfriend blogs quite a lot lately you sir, are the first dude in the last like 6 months who managed to overcome his fears and step up to being someone who takes responsibility for what happens in his life. Cheers, huge props & a happy new year. Keep it up, reading about that progress during such a rather short time was awesome. <3

On January 02 2012 05:29 r.Evo wrote:


Congratulations, you're hereby suggesting him being butthurt over something that was mostly due to his incompetence about half a year ago. Projecting onto the OP that you would always "hurt someone back" after being "hurt" just for the hell of it is both pretty damn immature and should also not be considered a standard pattern in anyones life.

You should probably think about why you would be SO HURT by a girl that dropped you (while TELLING you that you were too shy to move on) that you would have to drop her half a year down the road when you get a chance for it. Learn to learn from your mistakes instead of telling other people to make the same ones, please.