Friend zone avoidance?(another girl thread) - Page 2
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WeakTuna
Canada71 Posts
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
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Lexpar
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Angra
United States2652 Posts
On February 01 2010 08:21 Kennigit wrote: Tease her and flirt with her. Don't be nice to her. this, and just make sure that your intentions are clear to her if you dont make it painfully obvious (without just flat out telling her) she wont realize I think you can still be nice to her sometimes though.. the flirting and teasing has to be there though | ||
Kiarip
United States1835 Posts
On February 01 2010 09:05 Hypnosis wrote: This basically what I am saying, you cannot change how they think of you until you change yourself over a long period of time... Still it gives you experience, and you'll know what to do/what not to do next time. If you have a problem with these threads don't open them lol. | ||
Sauron
Romania169 Posts
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Jlab
United States217 Posts
So basically be her friend, and don't fuck it up. :D | ||
Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
Only way to avoid the friendzone is to seal the deal, close the sale, 5pool before it is too late. Ask her out NOW, something along the lines of "i really like you and would like to reserve you first on october!" Proceed to court her regularly, but under the pretense that it is unofficial, then make it official on her birthday. Hold off on the kissing until that day, but do everything else a good boyfriend would do. If you play your cards right, build the atmosphere, play suave james bond, the anticipation combo of Birthday+first official boyfriend+surprise mystery gift+romantic period of unrequited love+secret hidden from parents+first kiss alone will amplify her attraction to you. of course, if you put all this stuff in motion, then decide that you dont like her at all, well...you're going to become a real asshole =p. | ||
YPang
United States4024 Posts
"When in doubt, Whipe it out" Gl sir, tell me your result. | ||
Jonoman92
United States9101 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
On February 01 2010 10:12 LonelyMargarita wrote: You can't change what a girl thinks of you. A girl decides in the first 5 minutes of meeting a guy his potential with her. That's just bullshit right there. Anyway, nice guys never get the girl, although they are occasionally used as a rebound and immediately dropped within a week. If you like a girl, don't even plan that shit. Just go for it asap. If she says yes, you win! If she says no, just fine because you can start looking for the next one without having been emotionally enthralled like if you were pining for some bitch for a while and never made a move. You're 16. Just do something. | ||
Inzek
Chile802 Posts
Invite her... Tell her that u like her, u'd like to go out with her but you know the rule and respect it (if she cares).. and try to be the "special friend", it will suck for you 'til october at least.... | ||
Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
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meeple
Canada10211 Posts
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kdog3683
United States916 Posts
On February 01 2010 11:38 Railxp wrote: Dont Wait. Only way to avoid the friendzone is to seal the deal, close the sale, 5pool before it is too late. Ask her out NOW, something along the lines of "i really like you and would like to reserve you first on october!" Proceed to court her regularly, but under the pretense that it is unofficial, then make it official on her birthday. Hold off on the kissing until that day, but do everything else a good boyfriend would do. If you play your cards right, build the atmosphere, play suave james bond, the anticipation combo of Birthday+first official boyfriend+surprise mystery gift+romantic period of unrequited love+secret hidden from parents+first kiss alone will amplify her attraction to you. of course, if you put all this stuff in motion, then decide that you dont like her at all, well...you're going to become a real asshole =p. This poster probably makes those "What would happen if tanks shot yamoto gun and templars had consume" threads. Reason being what he says is so nice and suave in theory, and seems like he knows what he's talking about, but it actually doesn't workout in that way. You are a male meaning you possess a penis and a different chemical mechanism than a female. A girl will literally shut off the electricity to get her parents to go to sleep, so a guy can come sneak in. They aren't unicorns. They are horny little sluts. Yes, even that cute innocent girl that sits in the front row of your church. Do not court the girl. Present yourself in such a way that the girl courts you. Sooner or later, a natural opportunity will come up where you can without awkward tension, ask her if she would like to go watch a movie or what ever activity you have in mind. At that point, she will do whatever you want. You just have to be a man and take it. The key thing however, is to understand why I'm writing this vs a detailed reciepe that the above poster gave. You need to see what works and what doesn't work. You are a nubile 16 year old. have fun and Experiment. | ||
Spike
United States1392 Posts
On February 01 2010 10:12 LonelyMargarita wrote: You can't change what a girl thinks of you. A girl decides in the first 5 minutes of meeting a guy his potential with her. I find that it's guys that decide right away, or is it just me? | ||
The Storyteller
Singapore2486 Posts
On February 01 2010 16:31 Spike wrote: I find that it's guys that decide right away, or is it just me? Guys decide right away and then change their minds rather quickly after sex. | ||
ffswowsucks
Greece2291 Posts
On February 01 2010 08:26 ProoM wrote: Tell her that her parents are retarded by making such restrictions, and run away from home with her. Dude some families have some principles other people cant understand. To tell you a personal example. I have a girlfriend for 1.5 month now, she is 24 y old. She have studied in UK for 5 years, she owns her own pharmacy makes alot of her own money, she lives with her parents. SHE cannot see me twice a day, SHE cannot go for a weekend somewhere with me simply because her parents are indian/persian and have some strict rules with boyfriends. Like if I dont marry her we cant have sex or cant sleep with me etc. so imagine how my situation is. 25y old and its like im with a 15y old simply because we cant do some things. on a sidenote ofc we have sex lol. | ||
leejas
United States440 Posts
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DoX.)
Singapore6164 Posts
On February 01 2010 12:50 resonance wrote: Don't bother with christian girls period. I tried to take one skating, i told her you gotta skate but she didn't wanna skate so i got friend zoned. True story. this needs more love | ||
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