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Hi, so first something about me.
I am first year university student and 18 years old. I recently acquire first girlfriend. I have girllfriend before but not serious type, just like puppy love, maybe. But this girlfriend, of new one, we are serious. We are already two weeks together. She is my university classmate in 1 subject but shes major is different. But we meet everyday, and now more often because she is my girlfriend.
My situation. In the next weekend, we plan to vacation to Jeju island. We plan to get room for 2 nights. I am not experienced so much with girl, but I am excited at the same time anxiety about this one. We kiss, but just lips. One time we kiss long time but we had to stop becuase of students approaching. So if you understand my saying, my problem is about this vacation.
We have not talked about it, but I dont know how to behave if situation is present. We sleep in one bed, for sure. My question is, should I initiate intimate contact? Or should I avoid it and just wait until we marry? How do I do it? And how to do it naturally, that we are both comfortable? I dont care if we do it or not, Im just so happy to be with here. She is like angel in Earth. Like my whole life is her. But Im ask for some advice because maybe it happened and I look like fool of not knowing what to do or how to action.
Good luck to me. I am so excite and nervous. Thanks for reading, and maybe help. 
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1. Obtain condoms. INITIATE FOREPLAY. PENIS INTO VAGINA.
2. You're only 18. DO NOT THINK IN TERMS OF "Like my whole life is her."
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You're just 18 years old, there's no rush to "initiate intimate contact" get to know her more, the time will come when you're both prepared for it.
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On April 19 2011 17:55 paper wrote:
1. Obtain condoms. INITIATE FOREPLAY. PENIS INTO VAGINA.
2. You're only 18. DO NOT THINK IN TERMS OF "Like my whole life is her."
Thanks for fast advice. How is good foreplay, that so natural?
I may be 18, but really she is my world!
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so cute<3 Well really, other then telling you to get condoms, your bodies will guide you the right way.
Also dont worry if you come too fast or if you cant get it up or any other sexual malfunction occurs. It is completely normal, nerves get to everyone.
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If its gonna happen it'll happen.
If its not gonna happen, then its not gonna happen.
+ Show Spoiler +unless you wanna goto jail, otherwise ignore the 2nd line.
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Ohhh maaan this has to be one of the cutest OP's (the post not the poster lol) I have ever seen.
My best advice to you is relax and enjoy yourself. Don't worry about silly things like "will she like me, does she find me attractive, etc." If the situation comes up where you are going to have sex, just let it happen naturally. Don't have your brain zooming around thinking exactly what to do. If by some unfortunate incident you do or say something embarrassing, laugh at yourself with her rather than getting flustered.
Don't wait until you are married unless you are required to do so for religious reasons... its not worth missing out on ^^
Have good trip my friend. Bonus points if you bring back pictures!!! (lol no not of you guys having sex.. but Jeju island and your room and stuff)
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haha i always skip foreplay
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On April 19 2011 18:06 Legatus Lanius wrote:
haha i always skip foreplay
hands are generally low maintenance
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loooool wtf. Maybe it's a shared account or he's just trolling.
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On April 19 2011 18:07 Sfydjklm wrote:hands are generally low maintenance
wise guy
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OMG best blog. 10/5 would read over and over again until I die LOL
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This post is fucking adorable. :3
When you guys are both in bed together all cuddling and stuff, maybe watching tv, you will most likely kiss her, lol.
When you kiss her you guys will probably be having one of those 'long kisses' you were talking about. Y'know, while doing this be all love-y. Feel her, touch her face lovingly. While doing this it will either happen or not. Either way it will be nice. <3
CONDOMS.
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If I have time with senior roomate I ask for edit and post. If just me, Its just me and my dictionary. Like now. sorry 
Thanks for advice also.
To anyone, I wonder what I should do exactly? For example, sometime we kiss so long, I want to touch here but I cant, maybe respect of afraid she is not like it.
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Just prepare condoms for sure. You guys will be alone in a hotel room for 2 nights. Yea it'll definitely happen. Good luck!
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Just chill man.. Ofc you'll be nervous.. But do not focus to much on this weekend man. Laugh and be happy together and the rest will follow naturally.
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On April 19 2011 18:13 GG.NoRe wrote:If I have time with senior roomate I ask for edit and post. If just me, Its just me and my dictionary. Like now. sorry Thanks for advice also. To anyone, I wonder what I should do exactly? For example, sometime we kiss so long, I want to touch here but I cant, maybe respect of afraid she is not like it.
When you touch her make sure aren't just heading straight for the prize. Just feel her shoulders and as you are kissing get lower very slowly. Make the moment intimate.
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On April 19 2011 18:25 UisTehSux wrote:Show nested quote +On April 19 2011 18:13 GG.NoRe wrote:If I have time with senior roomate I ask for edit and post. If just me, Its just me and my dictionary. Like now. sorry Thanks for advice also. To anyone, I wonder what I should do exactly? For example, sometime we kiss so long, I want to touch here but I cant, maybe respect of afraid she is not like it. When you touch her make sure aren't just heading straight for the prize. Just feel her shoulders and as you are kissing get lower very slowly. Make the moment intimate.
Ok sometimes i get eager also. Maybe i just do it later so I dont worry about weekend? haha
Thanks. Ill buy condom later
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I am last person on Earth who should give you any "love advises" but one cliched "Follow your heart!" should be on spot!  And good luck with relationship, of course, I hope everything works out for you and your gf!
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