If your girlfriend were to kiss another guy, would that be unforgivable? Or is this about sex with multiple partners?
Either way, as the fire guy from Fantastic Four would say, FLAME ON!
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
If your girlfriend were to kiss another guy, would that be unforgivable? Or is this about sex with multiple partners? Either way, as the fire guy from Fantastic Four would say, FLAME ON! | ||
ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. | ||
QuanticHawk
United States32018 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! | ||
ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:13 ilovezil wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. LOL i can't take the heat? I just posted for my own self-reflection. I wouldn't take opinions seriously from a bunch of people on the internet. And clearly Hawk misinterpreted what I said. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice | ||
ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! I don't know if you're referring to me in that last statement, but I'm not passing any judgement on anyone. I'm standing on neutral grounds. | ||
QuanticHawk
United States32018 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:15 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:13 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. LOL i can't take the heat? I just posted for my own self-reflection. I wouldn't take opinions seriously from a bunch of people on the internet. And clearly Hawk misinterpreted what I said. You cared enough to post about it and respond? And you seem to be confused. Misinterpretation isn't the same as the OP not being able to articulate himself in a clear manner. no zil hahah why would I make fun of you dude?? | ||
Zergneedsfood
United States10671 Posts
Well anyway, she would agree whole heartedly with your post about kissing other people randomly. And while I would agree with you, I would just like to say that JUST because people are kissing other people randomly at bars....does NOT mean that all hope is lost for the future of your romantic life. Get a grip, because we all know that not all girls are like that. I just saw a post about how the word "love" is losing its meaning, but it wasn't from this forum. It was from Sophomore in high school. And I think that while I cringe every time I see/hear the words "I love you" in a movie or a book, I usually find it awkward and a misplaced statement. So I guess I would agree with you there. | ||
ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:15 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:13 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. LOL i can't take the heat? I just posted for my own self-reflection. I wouldn't take opinions seriously from a bunch of people on the internet. And clearly Hawk misinterpreted what I said. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses The way I read that post, you're backing out on posting just because you find some criticism in your thread. You're getting way too hot-headed for simply defending your own "self reflections". Dude, what did you expect? What era are you living in? | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:19 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:15 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:13 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. LOL i can't take the heat? I just posted for my own self-reflection. I wouldn't take opinions seriously from a bunch of people on the internet. And clearly Hawk misinterpreted what I said. You cared enough to post about it and respond? And you seem to be confused. Misinterpretation isn't the same as the OP not being able to articulate himself in a clear manner. uh...of course i would post and reply, why else would i post this in the first place? well now you know my standpoint | ||
ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:19 Zergneedsfood wrote: You and my girlfriend would probably get along extremely well.....in like a platonic way. sounds like that's how you and her get along. | ||
QuanticHawk
United States32018 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:16 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice Allow me to make this a tad bit more simple for you: Talent: It is deplorable that a girl in a relationship would get drunk and make out with dudes. It is also deplorable for a single girl to do the same Hawk: Way to pass judgement on your single friend, broski. Talent: *poops on keyboard, types without thinking/reading* (<-----you are here) | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:19 ilovezil wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:15 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:13 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses. It's not only on TL. You'll be faced with the criticism of others anywhere you go in this day and age, unless you go somewhere like the monestary to become a monk. Unless you're willing to keep your opinions bottled up inside, you will more than likely be faced with controversy for the values of romance/lust according to how others view them. I'd say if you can't take the heat on a forum site, you're not going to fare better amongst a crowd of peers. LOL i can't take the heat? I just posted for my own self-reflection. I wouldn't take opinions seriously from a bunch of people on the internet. And clearly Hawk misinterpreted what I said. Show nested quote + Good sarcasm Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. I have my own beliefs, and regardless of the amount of criticisms and bashing in this thread, I'm gonna stick to them. And I'll think second next time I post again on TL, thanks for your reponses The way I read that post, you're backing out on posting just because you find some criticism in your thread. You're getting way too hot-headed for simply defending your own "self reflections". Dude, what did you expect? What era are you living in? nah, i'm not hot headed because of criticism. I'm just saying, there are less harsh ways to contradict my opinions. | ||
ghermination
United States2851 Posts
If you ever get a girlfriend your relationship will be short and filled with anger and jealousy as you slowly try to take her away from her friends and family to make sure that she dedicates all of her time to "you" and isn't "flirting" with anyone else. I've seen it happen before and i recommend you change your outlook because life isn't going to be very fun if you think about relationships like that. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:24 Hawk wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:16 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote: On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote: On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this. Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice Allow me to make this a tad bit more simple for you: Talent: It is deplorable that a girl in a relationship would get drunk and make out with dudes. It is also deplorable for a single girl to do the same Hawk: Way to pass judgement on your single friend, broski. Talent: *poops on keyboard, types without thinking/reading* (<-----you are here) whatever, i still have a lot to learn the point is, would you let your gf do it and if she does it, will you be willing to forgive. Thats ultimately the question i have. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:25 ghermination wrote: Jesus christ you must be the most jealous and untrusting person to be in a relationship with that i've ever met/heard of. This isn't the Victorian era and most people other than yourself have realized that sex is just a biological function and humans ENJOY it. I see absolutely no reason why your single friend should lose your respect because she *gasp* actually likes men, and having sex with them. If you ever get a girlfriend your relationship will be short and filled with anger and jealousy as you slowly try to take her away from her friends and family to make sure that she dedicates all of her time to "you" and isn't "flirting" with anyone else. I've seen it happen before and i recommend you change your outlook because life isn't going to be very fun if you think about relationships like that. yeah i agree with you. My last relationship was kinda a bumpy ride. I got jealous easy but luckily no big problems because I was controlling my emotions and not letting her know thanks for the heads up, i'll be working on that : D | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 17 2010 01:28 Talent.L wrote: Show nested quote + On August 17 2010 01:25 ghermination wrote: Jesus christ you must be the most jealous and untrusting person to be in a relationship with that i've ever met/heard of. This isn't the Victorian era and most people other than yourself have realized that sex is just a biological function and humans ENJOY it. I see absolutely no reason why your single friend should lose your respect because she *gasp* actually likes men, and having sex with them. If you ever get a girlfriend your relationship will be short and filled with anger and jealousy as you slowly try to take her away from her friends and family to make sure that she dedicates all of her time to "you" and isn't "flirting" with anyone else. I've seen it happen before and i recommend you change your outlook because life isn't going to be very fun if you think about relationships like that. yeah i agree with you. My last relationship was kinda a bumpy ride. I got jealous easy but luckily no big problems because I was controlling my emotions and not letting her know thanks for the heads up, i'll be working on that : D btw she's not my gf or anything, so i dont know how you concluded that Im the most jealous and untrusting person. In reality I am, but not as extreme as you said. anyways, you know any good ways to get rid of that jealous mentality? | ||
Xyik
Canada728 Posts
And yes my girlfriend will be locked in a broomcupboard if she does anything silly like that while drunk. | ||
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