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R.I.P. Andrei =( I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose a really close friend, my condolences.
+ Show Spoiler +forgive my ignorance, but what does impaled mean?
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
People mourn in their own ways I guess. I would put the invitation out there, but not become upset and hostile if they don't want to. It could be too upsetting for them to sit and talk about Andrei on the anniversary of his death.
I would apologize to Victor and give respects to Andrei on your own in whatever way you think is best.
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On January 30 2009 09:21 EsX_Raptor wrote:R.I.P. Andrei =( I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose a really close friend, my condolences. + Show Spoiler +forgive my ignorance, but what does impaled mean? + Show Spoiler +http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/impaled
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On January 30 2009 09:22 Raithed wrote:Show nested quote +On January 30 2009 09:21 EsX_Raptor wrote:R.I.P. Andrei =( I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose a really close friend, my condolences. + Show Spoiler +forgive my ignorance, but what does impaled mean? + Show Spoiler +http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/impaled + Show Spoiler +
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Poor little Andrei. He was a little creepy though, silently following me everywhere I went.
Victor can hardly be called a replacement. The little bastard even went on a three week vacation!
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My condolences.
The world has gone to shit, it would seem. That Victor is strange.
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United States6454 Posts
Omg just realized what this blog was about.
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i hope i will have someone like you to think about me if i die
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Wow, forgetting somebody that died? What people. I'm sorry about how your friend's death has not been solved though and also sorry about Victor and others that don't care about people they loved.
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LTT, I know who impaled Andrei...
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On January 30 2009 10:35 GGQ wrote: LTT, I know who impaled Andrei...
i hope you aren't kidding. joking about a lost friend is not something you should do
you have my sympathy
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Austin10831 Posts
I'm sorry, LTT. One thing you'll come to find out is that people deal with tragedy in innumerably different ways, and logic won't help you understand any of them.
The human mind deals with loss in a very peculiar fashion, and despite Victor's callous reaction, he might be dealing with the loss in a very profound way. He might resort to denial and insensitivity where you would have with despair or anger.
What's important to know is that pain can manifest itself in people in bizarre, incomprehensible ways, and that things aren't always what they seem. Maybe forgetting Andrei is the only way Victor can deal with the pain right now.
It's a lot to consider, I wish you the best.
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United States6454 Posts
On January 30 2009 10:40 imperfect wrote:i hope you aren't kidding. joking about a lost friend is not something you should do you have my sympathy who cares about that kid anyway
Edit: I mean really, a friend like that isn't even worth a joke.
Also I know who impaled him too.
+ Show Spoiler +
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ROMANIANS EVERYWHERE
poor guy
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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On January 30 2009 09:14 LTT wrote:Edit: I've gotten a few PMs requesting it, so here is the most recent picture I have of Andrei + Show Spoiler +I also managed to dig up one from when we were kids. + Show Spoiler + Hahahahahahahahhahahaha!
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*shaking head*
I agree with some other people's replies that people take hardships differently.
gl's to you. You know its good that you wrote it out somewhere. Sometimes even typing it out can help calm you down. Remeber TL.net is here.
And seriously how do people forget about Andrei? In one year people forget.. *shaking head*
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