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[Girl blog] These feelings don't make sense.
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Garnet
Vietnam9008 Posts
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bITt.mAN
Switzerland3689 Posts
Our 'type' or what we're attracted to is highly malleable. You can think someone is a no, but simply by spending enough time with them we can become attached and learn to like them. It's not much different from repeatedly seeing Ads eventually makes us feel good towards something. This means both that those feelings aren't entirely reliable (or 'true') and that they can be changed through circumstance & effort. Therefore, if you catch feels for someone, that's quite common. Instead it's good to focus on shared values and life comparability. This being a person you've never even actually met, it's unlikely you'd have enough to go on to develop an actual relationship. But we can still feel the void of someone's absence despite not being super keen on them. | ||
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JoinTheRain
Bulgaria408 Posts
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Garnet
Vietnam9008 Posts
On August 17 2023 23:47 JoinTheRain wrote: I don't think you're attracted to the girl. I think you're just one of those losers, there's a bunch of them everywhere, who crave and like girl attention. And now that you are going to be deprived of it, your sadness takes over cause you realize no other girl in the office will pay attention to you. That's what makes you miserable, I think. Nah she's not the only one who likes me, but yeah I do enjoy her attention and that's probably why I'm not feeling good about her departure. | ||
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Turbovolver
Australia2340 Posts
Last Year, Garnet wrote: Yesterday my female co-workers were having fun and accidentally compared me to another guy in our company whom they have a massive liking for. They compared him to "seafood" and me to "river food", then when I asked why one of them said, "because seafood is more expensive". I got a little annoyed at first, but a few hours later got REALLY MAD at it. I am the only "man" in this team, which has 5 other women. I've been really nice to them, doing all kinds of tasks like replacing the water tanks, going 10 stairs down to take their online orders, solving their computer problems, even occasionally drop by their house to carry stuff for them. That other guy, on the other hand, hasn't done crap for them. He is just really tall and muscular (while I'm skinny and about 6 inches shorter). Later that night I posted a story on Facebook saying "don't waste time on women. Use that time to improve yourself instead", which got me into a heated conversation with them. I know I was wrong for lumping all women into it, but I was really mad. In the end, we agreed that no one was at fault and that I'm simply not their "type". Why do you keep writing these blogs if you're not even going to be honest in them? | ||
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mathenalin
United Kingdom120 Posts
On August 17 2023 23:47 JoinTheRain wrote: I don't think you're attracted to the girl. I think you're just one of those losers, there's a bunch of them everywhere, who crave and like girl attention. And now that you are going to be deprived of it, your sadness takes over cause you realize no other girl in the office will pay attention to you. That's what makes you miserable, I think. Holy shit OP fucking destroyed. Probably true though | ||
Mizenhauer
United States1757 Posts
On August 18 2023 16:39 mathenalin wrote: Holy shit OP fucking destroyed. Probably true though This guy has been writing these sorts of Girl Blogs since 2009. At this point it's just great comedy. | ||
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JimmyJRaynor
Canada16179 Posts
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Mizenhauer
United States1757 Posts
On August 19 2023 00:04 JimmyJRaynor wrote: this blog deserves its own shirt. Should just read, "Don't believe anything I say." | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9008 Posts
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RickyHorny456
7 Posts
On August 20 2023 12:07 Garnet wrote: Yeah I think my Emotional Intelligence is just too low. I've hurt too many people because I just didn't know what to do with them. Like when an old friend excitedly said hi to me and I just ignored her. That was cruel. You are Grade A stalker material | ||
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Vivax
21682 Posts
This thread could use some cooling paste tho | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9008 Posts
On August 21 2023 22:18 Vivax wrote: Regret cause all you had were not face-to-face interactions ? This thread could use some cooling paste tho I don't really feel anything anymore. I guess it was just the feeling of losing something that has always been there. | ||
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castleeMg
Canada752 Posts
On August 17 2023 23:47 JoinTheRain wrote: I don't think you're attracted to the girl. I think you're just one of those losers, there's a bunch of them everywhere, who crave and like girl attention. And now that you are going to be deprived of it, your sadness takes over cause you realize no other girl in the office will pay attention to you. That's what makes you miserable, I think. This is essentially what I believe as well, although this was worded kinda harshly. | ||
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iPlaY.NettleS
Australia4307 Posts
On August 20 2023 12:07 Garnet wrote: Yeah I think my Emotional Intelligence is just too low. I've hurt too many people because I just didn't know what to do with them. Like when an old friend excitedly said hi to me and I just ignored her. That was cruel. Move to a new city, change your name and begin a new life. | ||
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KrillinFromwales
42 Posts
If you have no history with her then just let her leave. If you care what happens after that you're hurting yourself needlessly. | ||
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