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Hey everyone!
With a little lot of help from yesterday’s WCS Live Report thread, I’ve finally hit 30,000 posts! It’s been over two years since my 20K milestone blog, which means I’m slowing down in my old age of 27. + Show Spoiler +
I’ve unfortunately been far too busy over the past two years with real life stuff. I’ve mostly stopped playing StarCraft, although I started playing Heroes of the Storm (my first MOBA) about 2 months ago and I really, really like it. Now instead of blaming hackers and lag in 1v1 games, I can blame my 4 shitty allies for the losses that are really my fault (Speaking of which, if anyone ever wants to play Heroes with me, please let me know!)
I’ve made some changes in my life. For the past few years, I had been juggling a full-time PhD in math education, teaching math at the university level as an adjunct professor, teaching at public tutoring centers, and private tutoring, all at the same time. But as I had been going through my PhD (finishing all my coursework and starting on my dissertation research), I started to realize just how much I favored teaching students over merely writing about them. Furthermore, I found that most tenured-track professorships require a huge emphasis on research, rather than teaching (because writing all those grants is what brings in money to the university), and that wasn’t my primary desire. So while I’m still teaching college part-time (in the evenings), I recently got a job as a high school math teacher at a nearby private school, starting in the fall. It’s pretty much the ideal job for me (except no tenure, which is a pretty big deal). And I decided to withdraw from the PhD program (for now anyways… who knows what the future will bring), as I would have at least 3+ more years of research and writing ahead of me, and I didn't want to be throwing time and money away if I wasn't really going to be using the degree.
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I severely underestimated the relief I would feel from leaving my doctoral program. I consistently felt overwhelmed, especially with everything else on my schedule, and now I have room to breathe. I now actually have nearly an entire month off this summer as a result (which I’ve never had before… ever), which I’ve been putting to good use. Playing tennis, hitting the gym, taking out the old N64, watching livestreams and speedruns and gaming tournaments online....
And visiting wedding venues Last summer, I got engaged to my fiancée, and she just graduated vet school at UPenn. Some of my male friends aren’t/ weren’t interested in planning their own weddings (“I just let her plan everything, whatever… she wants to do it”), but I’m really enjoying the process. Perhaps it’s because we’ve been dating for 9 years- since high school- and have been in a long-distance relationship for pretty much the entire time, but I’m more excited than ever to plan my future with Andrea! Pro-tip: Weddings cost money. Especially in New Jersey.
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I think the only other big event that’s gone on in my personal life recently was the fact that we (my mother, my two brothers, and I) rescued a new puppy from a shelter Now we have two wonderful dogs, an 8 year old shiba inu named Sadie and a 9 month old lab/ hound/ beagle mix named Misty <3
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I’m really, really happy with the big decisions I’ve been making, and where I am right now in life + Show Spoiler +
At the risk of getting slightly political, I’m extremely proud of my country for finally recognizing and legalizing gay marriage. + Show Spoiler + And I’m proud of TL for supporting gay human rights as well <3 My soon-to-be brother-in-law is in a gay relationship, and they’re one of the cutest couples I know. And even more importantly, he’s just been a great guy overall and has been a huge support structure for my fiancée over the years, ever since they were little… and I couldn’t dream of thinking he was any less worthy of the happiness and benefits that I’ll have, simply because he may want to marry a guy and not a girl.
Oh yeah, and I met this random guy:
I have such a large hadron for this man I get to now cross “Talk to Neil deGrasse Tyson” off my bucket list He’s one of three bucket list idols/ celebrities that I’ve had the opportunity to meet (I’ve also met Boxer and Christopher Titus).
Anyways, on to the traditional shout-outs! Thank you to: neoghaleon55 and BLinD-RawR for always remembering my birthday! Barrin and Djzapz for the 5/5 they’ll give me in this blog #wontletyoudown Plansix for being one half of Team Plasma 6 + Show Spoiler + Jealous and SlowBullets for being awesome N64 partners! micronesia and any other educators (especially in the STEM fields) for sharing your wisdom. Shellshock, dAPhREAk, 3FFA, Yorkie, BisuDagger, Darkhorse, brian, docvoc, TheEmulator, MountainDewJunkie, The_Templar, Lorning, PhoenixVoid, lichter, and everyone else who I think is really cool/ makes TL an incredibly interesting community/ contributes to LRs/ leaves awesome blog comments/ PMs (Sorry if I forgot to mention you!) xDaunt and the rest of the Heroes contributors for answering all my stupid questions! The moderators for never banning me, while simultaneously conditioning me to fear the worst every time I get a PM. Anyone posting in the US Politics Megathread, because I don’t know shit about my own country’s politics and it’s always useful to get educated via rational discourse + Show Spoiler + or the silly arguments that occasionally go on in there
On a related note to the educational value of some threads like the US Politics one, I actually host debate dinners in New Jersey (usually around Rutgers in New Brunswick/ Piscataway) once every 2 months or so, where all my friends meet up at someone’s house or an Applebee’s or wherever, and we eat and drink and just have informal-yet-respectful debates and discussions about anything and everything, including politics, ethics, religion, philosophy, science, mathematics, literature, education, guns, sex, drugs, rock 'n' roll, wars, healthcare, widgets, etc. It’s a nice little meeting of the minds, where everyone is respectful of one another and it’s a cool opportunity to even sit back and listen to others, if you’re more of the strong, silent type ^^ If anyone is ever interested in attending these (they’re always going to be in NJ), shoot me a PM! The more, the merrier The next one is Saturday, July 11th!
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend, and thank you for taking the time to read through my blog(s)! Feel free to leave a comment, ask a question, etc.
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Grats on the milestone, and the pretty awesome picture of you and NDGT
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Bisutopia19139 Posts
Dude, we are the same age! And sick photo. Nice to hear about your life. Grats on 30k!
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5 stars because of peer pressure, you earned them. First time I've had a shoutout on TL afaik!
Congrats on 30k, marriage (you done well), job, meeting NDT and perhaps large hardon colliders on the side.
I'll have to slow down my posting because I don't have shit for my 10K milestone.
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United States24494 Posts
As someone who seems to really enjoy teaching math, I was surprised you were going for the phd in math ed. If you continue to enjoy teaching math after several years, I suspect you won't try to become an administrator :p
I'm glad I was able to offer you some wisdom, and you can always feel free to bounce ideas off of me in the future.
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Grats (: And these dogs are cute <3
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your Country52797 Posts
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I must have missed your 20k blog. Congrats!
wedding tip: Getting married on a weekday can save you a TON!
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On June 27 2015 23:27 Cricketer12 wrote: Grats on the milestone, and the pretty awesome picture of you and NDGT
Thanks! He was giving a lecture in Philly that I bought tickets for, half a year in advance Getting to meet him was sooo worth it *-* He's such a nice guy!
On June 27 2015 23:34 BisuDagger wrote: Dude, we are the same age! And sick photo. Nice to hear about your life. Grats on 30k!
Thanks, and enjoy being 27! You won't be another perfect cube until you turn 64 x.x
On June 27 2015 23:34 Djzapz wrote: 5 stars because of peer pressure, you earned them. First time I've had a shoutout on TL afaik!
Congrats on 30k, marriage (you done well), job, meeting NDT and perhaps large hardon colliders on the side.
I'll have to slow down my posting because I don't have shit for my 10K milestone.
I think I've had one or two shoutouts but I can never keep track of others' blogs lol. And yeah, I'm a lucky guy ^^
Just write whatever you want! It's your blog
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On June 27 2015 23:42 micronesia wrote: As someone who seems to really enjoy teaching math, I was surprised you were going for the phd in math ed. If you continue to enjoy teaching math after several years, I suspect you won't try to become an administrator :p
I'm glad I was able to offer you some wisdom, and you can always feel free to bounce ideas off of me in the future.
Thanks! And yeah, I'm not interested in administrating or solely doing research; I want to be teaching, first and foremost The PhD would have helped with my qualification if I wanted to be taken seriously for a full-time professorship, but even if I got a tenured track university job, I would have had to focus a lot more on research than I wanted x.x There are a few non-tenured track full time jobs at the university level, but colleges are preferring to hire a few part-time adjuncts instead of full-time faculty, so that they don't need to pay as much money/ offer as many benefits. Being a high school teacher is more secure in those ways, as you know
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On June 28 2015 00:03 OtherWorld wrote: Grats (: And these dogs are cute <3
And really obedient too
On June 28 2015 00:11 The_Templar wrote: Congrats!
Thanks!
On June 28 2015 00:53 y0su wrote: I must have missed your 20k blog. Congrats!
wedding tip: Getting married on a weekday can save you a TON!
Haha definitely, but we're going to have nearly 200 people (I'm Italian and she's Filipina, so we have big families), and a lot of people need to fly in/ drive in to NJ, and we can't expect everyone to take a lot of time off x.x We also found that afternoon weddings are about half the price of evening weddings (even on weekends), which is fantastic
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TLADT24920 Posts
Grats on the 30k milestone! It's great that everything is going well for you
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Congrats! You better keep your post count up because I am coming for you. Only 24,000+ more posts to go.
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On June 28 2015 02:06 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:And really obedient too Thanks! Show nested quote +On June 28 2015 00:53 y0su wrote: I must have missed your 20k blog. Congrats!
wedding tip: Getting married on a weekday can save you a TON! Haha definitely, but we're going to have nearly 200 people (I'm Italian and she's Filipina, so we have big families), and a lot of people need to fly in/ drive in to NJ, and we can't expect everyone to take a lot of time off x.x We also found that afternoon weddings are about half the price of evening weddings (even on weekends), which is fantastic Yeah, you can't get that many people to take vacation on a Tuesday morning
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On June 28 2015 03:22 BigFan wrote:Grats on the 30k milestone! It's great that everything is going well for you
Thanks!
On June 28 2015 03:52 GGzerG wrote: Congrats! You better keep your post count up because I am coming for you. Only 24,000+ more posts to go.
Shiiit x.x I think I have a little time
On June 28 2015 03:53 y0su wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2015 02:06 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On June 28 2015 00:03 OtherWorld wrote: Grats (: And these dogs are cute <3 And really obedient too On June 28 2015 00:11 The_Templar wrote: Congrats! Thanks! On June 28 2015 00:53 y0su wrote: I must have missed your 20k blog. Congrats!
wedding tip: Getting married on a weekday can save you a TON! Haha definitely, but we're going to have nearly 200 people (I'm Italian and she's Filipina, so we have big families), and a lot of people need to fly in/ drive in to NJ, and we can't expect everyone to take a lot of time off x.x We also found that afternoon weddings are about half the price of evening weddings (even on weekends), which is fantastic Yeah, you can't get that many people to take vacation on a Tuesday morning
Yeah lol and if they're flying in from the Philippines, they might as well take a few days off
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Grats on 30k!
I looked back through your old blogs and.. even in high school you already looked like an old man 
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On June 28 2015 05:04 solidbebe wrote:Grats on 30k! I looked back through your old blogs and.. even in high school you already looked like an old man 
Ouch hahaha... my fiancee and mom make fun of my gray hair... I blame them for it
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On June 28 2015 05:14 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2015 05:04 solidbebe wrote:Grats on 30k! I looked back through your old blogs and.. even in high school you already looked like an old man  Ouch hahaha... my fiancee and mom make fun of my gray hair... I blame them for it You look a little eastern european btw, got some roots there?
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holy shit, that picture is awesome! congrats.
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On June 28 2015 08:19 solidbebe wrote:Show nested quote +On June 28 2015 05:14 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On June 28 2015 05:04 solidbebe wrote:Grats on 30k! I looked back through your old blogs and.. even in high school you already looked like an old man  Ouch hahaha... my fiancee and mom make fun of my gray hair... I blame them for it You look a little eastern european btw, got some roots there?
100% Italian heritage haha
On June 28 2015 09:06 dAPhREAk wrote: holy shit, that picture is awesome! congrats.
Thanks!
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