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On August 28 2007 19:29 Smurg wrote: It's pretty weird.
You spill your heart 100% and she's just like "Hey, what do you mean I'm an object in his eye?"
It's as if you finished some nice poetry and she's like "Hey, what's on TV tonight?" Exactly my point, only i interpert is this way.
Shadow talks about his stuff on and on and when he mentions John, the girl suddenly becomes interested. Shadow then talks some more, but she's still focused on john.
iono dude, it seems like she's into john very much. and that object thing, im gettin the feeling she's ok with that, she might even like it.
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Love is a gamble, that doesn't mean you have to bet all you have, and too early for that matter. You declared your intentions too early on a girl who isn't ready for a relationship like most at that age.
Ill add a quote from my favourite movie that rings true in all of love's circumstances:
"Real loss is only possible when you love something more than yourself."
If you love something, the closest thing to showing it is to die to protect it. I really doubt at 15 you could possibly consider another life over your own.
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i would find other girl
and fuck her . try that and you will forget about this other one realy fast .
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On August :20 Hot_Bid wrote: FUCK YAEH.
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type out. find a new game.
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I try not the read into this depressing matter too much. Since the pleasure denied is not very valuable to me (and I don't see anything from this conversation which suggests any true value) I can only imagine the sublime experience you imagine to be denied to you.
The trend for our generation seems to be momentary obsessions, and a few years later, one views that period as nothing more than youthful insanity. Therefore resist the temptation to ruin yourself in love, as often passes in romantic melodrama and just wait the matter out.
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Why are so many people in this thread so jaded and saying this bullshit about "girls only want cocks and assholes until they marry and then they only want money blah blah blah." How many of you have actually been with girls like that? Or are you all just repeating the same meaningless, cliche bullshit?
Most girls aren't actually like that, and if you think they are you just need to change your taste in women, because every girl I've ever been interested in wasn't like this at all.
To the op: This girl obviously isn't interested in you, and she's not worth being with. Especially at 15 years old. Most girls don't start really knowing what they want until they're at least out of high school, and neither do you, or most guys for that matter.
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United States10774 Posts
Uhhh this girl doesn't even look like she's worth pursuing, really. After you tell her how you feel towards her in two big paragraphs she goes "sooo what does object in my eye mean?" It's kind of obvious she's not interested in you, at least not anymore. Also she seems like one of those weird girls who are afraid to "talk" in real life and over the phone but only prefers to do it behind her monitor. Sounds pretty...odd. good luck though and keep pressuring it ;o
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On August 28 2007 17:08 Excalibur_Z wrote: It's not love. For Christ's sake man, you're 15 years old. You don't know shit. Take it from me and every other 20-something who's going to respond to this thread. Focus on your ice cream socials and dance parties and jukeboxes and don't stress out over some chick. Girls don't know what they want until they reach their 20s and even then some have no idea or change their minds repeatedly.
That is all you need to know, sometimes your answer comes fast huh?
Focus on having fun, you will have time to get serious with girls in the future, you're just too young now, and girls at your age don't know what they want, so don't stick to any of them ^^
On August 28 2007 17:13 CharlieMurphy wrote: Pimp slap that ho
This made me laugh a lot, LOL
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I'm not trying to hop on the bandwagon but seriously dude, if you think thats love, then you haven't had your ass kicked by females enough.
You're in the process of getting your ass kicked as we type this. You spill your heart out and she flat out tells you to put it in a paragraph and you did like a little bitch. Girls are always going to try to make you their "bitch", you have to find a way around it.
Baal and kwark are giving good advice that 15 year olds don't know, follow it. Don't go into more conversations with her and say the same shit because believe it or not, SHE.IS.NOT.INTERESTED. Let her date that John dude and get her ass dumped. Cruel but it's life. She has to learn that lesson like you said. However, she really does seem like the retarded type. She just kept repeating what you said into a question.
***To the person who has a jaded insight of females. Yes most want assholes. You're obviously only aiming for the minority if you actually think that this isn't true. Unlike you, you haven't seen the majority of the females around that most guys who have had their ass kicked can truly see. They're the ones who can give the best of advice.***
***To Moltke; Who let shakespeare into this thread?***
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GrandInquisitor
New York City13113 Posts
On August 29 2007 01:46 {88}iNcontroL wrote: people, please stop asking for pics of a 15 year old girl.
they're just all testie's alts
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On August 29 2007 02:10 PJA wrote: Why are so many people in this thread so jaded and saying this bullshit about "girls only want cocks and assholes until they marry and then they only want money blah blah blah." How many of you have actually been with girls like that? Or are you all just repeating the same meaningless, cliche bullshit?
Most girls aren't actually like that, and if you think they are you just need to change your taste in women, because every girl I've ever been interested in wasn't like this at all.
To the op: This girl obviously isn't interested in you, and she's not worth being with. Especially at 15 years old. Most girls don't start really knowing what they want until they're at least out of high school, and neither do you, or most guys for that matter.
Maybe not all turn out to be money grubbing whores in the end, but until they are married, you can damn well bet that girls are a hell of a lot more often going to go for the assholes than the nice guy book worm. Try going out sometime and testing this theory, there's a reason why everyone preaches it.
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File under "Drama".
The feelings are intense, but they won't last like you think they will. Don't take any of it too seriously.
Experience will really change your perspective. Someday you'll look back at the way you're thinking now, shake your head, and say, "What a dumb kid I was..." and you'll look back at the way everyone else was acting and say, "What a bunch of dumb kids..."
That's why you've got to take it easy and not get in over your head.
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On August 29 2007 02:10 PJA wrote: Why are so many people in this thread so jaded and saying this bullshit about "girls only want cocks and assholes until they marry and then they only want money blah blah blah." How many of you have actually been with girls like that? Or are you all just repeating the same meaningless, cliche bullshit?
Because its true? T_T I'm sure there at least a couple other people who have also done it with success or at least seen it done.
On August 29 2007 01:46 {88}iNcontroL wrote: people, please stop asking for pics of a 15 year old girl. I dont mind, shes only a year younger than me
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On August 29 2007 02:45 Jathin wrote: HE WAS A BOY, SHE WAS A GIRL. COULD I MAKE IT ANY MORE OBVIOUS???
From that convo. it seemed the other way around but meh.
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She's like, sooo whateverrrrr ~
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honestly keep your good hearth, she aint ready for anything you desire. she cant give you anything but keep your true idea of love, i did so too.
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I want to state 2 things.
a) I just sent her a message basically telling her I don't want to like her anymore. You (TL.net) has shown me little things about that conversation that I was too tunnel visioned to see. So we'll see where that goes.
b) Like I said that conversation proceeds... she tells me she likes me alot etc, and I did say alot of this over the phone about 2 days ago, and she was interested in it. However... I don't know TL.net I want to be with her so badly, but it seems like she doesn't give a shit, BUT says that she really does.
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WTF? 15,feel down? Go watch the movie "City of God"
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