EPTThis is going to sound very weird and fake/made up but I can assure you that nothing that I type below is a lie nor is it exaggerated.
Its Tuesday morning around 4am and I am biking home. I started work @ 5pm on Monday and got off at work @ 3:30am. Anyways, I start on my normal 15-20 minute bike home from work. Its a bit chilly outside and with the wind, I think its feeling like around -9 Celius. I always have to bike through some bike path in the woods that cuts into the road that I live on.
Anyways, so I am biking into these woods and I see some light up ahead and I thought that its some construction lamp because they are widening the road behind me. I pass by and see that it is some guy sitting down by some fire. I didn't get a good look and the first thing that I thought is that its a couple of people burning stuff for fun. I then notice that its only one person and I continue biking on my way home. I stop half-way through the bike path thinking about whether to offer him a place to stay for tonight. It was obvious that he was kinda young [below 25] and without a place and it was kinda cold and I felt bad for him.
I literally spent 5 minutes sitting on my bike just thinking about whether I should invite him to my place. I rent a room in the basement of a house so I really shouldn't be bringing in strangers and I have a bit of money in the bank so if he is any weirdo with a weapon and see's a bank account statement then maybe he'll force me to give him money or anything.
Against my better judgment, I bike back and offer him a place to stay for the night. He accepts the offer and packs up his stuff and tells me that he ran away from the place he was staying at and he lives with a roommate. I assumed from the girly way that he is talking that he is gay. Anyways, He is packing his bag and I noticed he is putting a mirror into it. Who runs away from a place and packs a mirror. I can understand a girl but a guy packing a mirror...
I started regretting my decision to bring him to my house. We walk back to my house and he is telling me how it was his birthday and his roommate was treating him like shit after he was partying with friends so I ask him 'Is that your boyfriend' which he was like 'no way eww' I then find out that he is 25 and his roommate is like 56 or something like that. I kinda felt stupid after he answered my question.
He gets to my place and stuff like that and I give him some food and some milk and I let him sleep on the bed while I sleep on the floor. I made sure I had my wallet/phone/Ipod in my pocket. I felt very uncomfortable. Anyways he's sniffling here and their and unpacking his stuff. He takes out this thing which looks like a vibrating dildo LOL and tells me its something for his skin. Mirrow and some machine for toning skin makes me think...
So, he is bi-polar and on some cheque and goes to York University. He doesn't have that much money and wants to get his own place but needs to wait till 26th for his 1500 cheque or something. I end up sleeping [and it took me a damn while]. I almost had thoughts that he was going to try to rape me or something.
So, I wake up around 1pm. I actually set my alarm @ 11am cause I wanted to get on ICCup and play some PvP on Athena for some CW that is coming up but I decided to forego that because it would be weird as hell.
We wake up and I feed him some cereal and I tell him that i am leaving for work around 3:30pm. I imply that he has to be gone by then and he gets the point. I then let him use my phone. He calls his disability place and tells them that he will pick up the cheque there and not send it to his old place. Anyways, he calls some guy that he stayed at before for a couple of days and I could hear him asking like 4 times 'I never did anything wrong at your house or stole anything' like he wants me to know that so I will let him stay at my place while I go to work. LOL NO WAY.
He later asks me why I asked him if that was his boyfriend [his roommate] and I don't reply. He then tells that he dates boys and girls and lists a name of 3-4 recent male boyfriends but says he would prefer to be with a girl cause that's the way God made us and asking if I think Barack Obama is the Antichrist LOL
I am really worried now. I guess you could say I am homophobic if you want to use that term. He then starts to say how he likes my goatee. I had already told him I am married (which I am). He then calls his mom on ym phone. I know its long distance but He said it would be a minute or 2. It ends up being 16 minutes. I like how he said 'Some nice STRAIGHT' guy let me stay at his house'. I guess mentioning I was straight was important.
He calls his roommate that he got in a fight with and I guess he decides to go back their. His roommate had threaten to call the police before and he had pulled the phone off the wall and then ran a way when he thought police were coming.
He then mentions 'Can I freeze in this weather' like 10 times and I wanted to say 'grow up girly man' but I didn't
He asks for my number which I don't give him. Anyways, its 3:30pm. I want some private time so I tell him I have to go to work. I lead him to that bike path and he starts to walk home then I bike home and surf TL.net and stuff lol
He was talking about how he hopes to see me again and stuff like that...
Fast forward to Friday Night...
I was trying to sleep before the Bisu vs Jangbi finals and here some knocking on my window which freaked me out. I didn't get up or anything. Anyways, the owner comes down and tells me some guy was looking for me and told me how I gave him a place to stay and then asked about the spare room that we need to rent out. The owner found out he is on disability and doesn't want 2 people just staying home. We already have 1 guy who is retired Italian but he is very nice guy.
This guy [Adam] was looking for me and knocked on my window and told the owner he might leave a note on my bike or something and that he will be back tomorrow to see me lol
I really don't like this guy and I don't know why he so interested in me. He said he had lots of friends that he could stay with downtown (gay ones), so why is he bothering me.
I HOPE HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN ME (I will vomit now)
Anyways, this guy is biking 15-20 minutes just to come to my house so now I have my shutters closed and will pretend I am not home. Well, he can't get and knock on my door unless he gets in the house and he can't get into the house without knowing the password for the keypad on the entrance.
This is really freaking me out and I am such a nice person in real life that I don't like to offend people or tell people off.
What should I do?
