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Yaqoob
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
Canada3335 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-22 14:52:22
November 22 2008 14:51 GMT
#1
... by a gay guy.


This is going to sound very weird and fake/made up but I can assure you that nothing that I type below is a lie nor is it exaggerated.

Its Tuesday morning around 4am and I am biking home. I started work @ 5pm on Monday and got off at work @ 3:30am. Anyways, I start on my normal 15-20 minute bike home from work. Its a bit chilly outside and with the wind, I think its feeling like around -9 Celius. I always have to bike through some bike path in the woods that cuts into the road that I live on.

Anyways, so I am biking into these woods and I see some light up ahead and I thought that its some construction lamp because they are widening the road behind me. I pass by and see that it is some guy sitting down by some fire. I didn't get a good look and the first thing that I thought is that its a couple of people burning stuff for fun. I then notice that its only one person and I continue biking on my way home. I stop half-way through the bike path thinking about whether to offer him a place to stay for tonight. It was obvious that he was kinda young [below 25] and without a place and it was kinda cold and I felt bad for him.

I literally spent 5 minutes sitting on my bike just thinking about whether I should invite him to my place. I rent a room in the basement of a house so I really shouldn't be bringing in strangers and I have a bit of money in the bank so if he is any weirdo with a weapon and see's a bank account statement then maybe he'll force me to give him money or anything.

Against my better judgment, I bike back and offer him a place to stay for the night. He accepts the offer and packs up his stuff and tells me that he ran away from the place he was staying at and he lives with a roommate. I assumed from the girly way that he is talking that he is gay. Anyways, He is packing his bag and I noticed he is putting a mirror into it. Who runs away from a place and packs a mirror. I can understand a girl but a guy packing a mirror...

I started regretting my decision to bring him to my house. We walk back to my house and he is telling me how it was his birthday and his roommate was treating him like shit after he was partying with friends so I ask him 'Is that your boyfriend' which he was like 'no way eww' I then find out that he is 25 and his roommate is like 56 or something like that. I kinda felt stupid after he answered my question.

He gets to my place and stuff like that and I give him some food and some milk and I let him sleep on the bed while I sleep on the floor. I made sure I had my wallet/phone/Ipod in my pocket. I felt very uncomfortable. Anyways he's sniffling here and their and unpacking his stuff. He takes out this thing which looks like a vibrating dildo LOL and tells me its something for his skin. Mirrow and some machine for toning skin makes me think...

So, he is bi-polar and on some cheque and goes to York University. He doesn't have that much money and wants to get his own place but needs to wait till 26th for his 1500 cheque or something. I end up sleeping [and it took me a damn while]. I almost had thoughts that he was going to try to rape me or something.

So, I wake up around 1pm. I actually set my alarm @ 11am cause I wanted to get on ICCup and play some PvP on Athena for some CW that is coming up but I decided to forego that because it would be weird as hell.

We wake up and I feed him some cereal and I tell him that i am leaving for work around 3:30pm. I imply that he has to be gone by then and he gets the point. I then let him use my phone. He calls his disability place and tells them that he will pick up the cheque there and not send it to his old place. Anyways, he calls some guy that he stayed at before for a couple of days and I could hear him asking like 4 times 'I never did anything wrong at your house or stole anything' like he wants me to know that so I will let him stay at my place while I go to work. LOL NO WAY.

He later asks me why I asked him if that was his boyfriend [his roommate] and I don't reply. He then tells that he dates boys and girls and lists a name of 3-4 recent male boyfriends but says he would prefer to be with a girl cause that's the way God made us and asking if I think Barack Obama is the Antichrist LOL

I am really worried now. I guess you could say I am homophobic if you want to use that term. He then starts to say how he likes my goatee. I had already told him I am married (which I am). He then calls his mom on ym phone. I know its long distance but He said it would be a minute or 2. It ends up being 16 minutes. I like how he said 'Some nice STRAIGHT' guy let me stay at his house'. I guess mentioning I was straight was important.

He calls his roommate that he got in a fight with and I guess he decides to go back their. His roommate had threaten to call the police before and he had pulled the phone off the wall and then ran a way when he thought police were coming.

He then mentions 'Can I freeze in this weather' like 10 times and I wanted to say 'grow up girly man' but I didn't

He asks for my number which I don't give him. Anyways, its 3:30pm. I want some private time so I tell him I have to go to work. I lead him to that bike path and he starts to walk home then I bike home and surf TL.net and stuff lol

He was talking about how he hopes to see me again and stuff like that...

Fast forward to Friday Night...

I was trying to sleep before the Bisu vs Jangbi finals and here some knocking on my window which freaked me out. I didn't get up or anything. Anyways, the owner comes down and tells me some guy was looking for me and told me how I gave him a place to stay and then asked about the spare room that we need to rent out. The owner found out he is on disability and doesn't want 2 people just staying home. We already have 1 guy who is retired Italian but he is very nice guy.

This guy [Adam] was looking for me and knocked on my window and told the owner he might leave a note on my bike or something and that he will be back tomorrow to see me lol

I really don't like this guy and I don't know why he so interested in me. He said he had lots of friends that he could stay with downtown (gay ones), so why is he bothering me.

I HOPE HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN ME (I will vomit now)

Anyways, this guy is biking 15-20 minutes just to come to my house so now I have my shutters closed and will pretend I am not home. Well, he can't get and knock on my door unless he gets in the house and he can't get into the house without knowing the password for the keypad on the entrance.

This is really freaking me out and I am such a nice person in real life that I don't like to offend people or tell people off.

What should I do?

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Spenguin
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Australia3316 Posts
November 22 2008 14:58 GMT
#2
I just keep thinking about Rick James.

Anyway, I reckon keep saying no and if it gets violent call the police.
< TeamLiquid CJ Entusman #46 > I came for the Brood War, I stayed for the people.
FanaBatHero
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
Angola70 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-22 15:00:47
November 22 2008 14:58 GMT
#3
Lol so I had a friend in the closet (as in, I didn't know) who got more and more involved in my life in a very subtle way, like first asking me to get him high and to continue getting high with him once in a while, to hang out often, talk online... Eventually he asked me to join a gym with him, so I did. Turns out he finished changing last not because he was slow, but because he was checking me out every time. I found this out when a mutual friend of ours left her phone on to prove to me he was gay (I didn't want to believe it) in the car after they dropped me off. Here is how the conversation went:

Her: "You looked like you wanted his dick all night."
Him: "Is it really so obvious?"

I was so terrified. He had been checking me out. He had been getting high with me to get me into a relaxed state of mind. He could have eventually gone for the strike.

Basically what you should do is be straight up with the kid, tell him you're not gay, will never want to experiment, and don't find him attractive in any way, and that he should stop harassing you or you will beat the shit out of him. End of story.

EDIT: Fuck being nice, this kid wants to put his PENIS in your RECTUM and go at it like a jackhammer combined with a plunger. If you sway the same way I do, my answer is NO. And I will bluff or threaten or exaggerate my fighting prowess and superhuman strength to whatever limits need be to ensure that I am unhassled and unraped.
cujo2k
Profile Joined October 2007
Canada1044 Posts
November 22 2008 15:08 GMT
#4
hmm i was thinking that this guy prolly just wants a place to stay, rather than wants your dick.. but idk, i wasnt there, so i dont know the type of vibe you were getting from him.
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Yaqoob
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
Canada3335 Posts
November 22 2008 15:14 GMT
#5
I would think that too except he has a place to stay and has friends downtown that he can stay at.
김택용 Fighting!
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
November 22 2008 15:17 GMT
#6
just for the contrast I'll say:
Try new things Yaq!
meegrean
Profile Joined May 2008
Thailand7699 Posts
November 22 2008 15:35 GMT
#7
Seriously, stop being so nice.
Brood War loyalist
village_idiot
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
2436 Posts
November 22 2008 15:36 GMT
#8
Enter the homo, lololo.

It's all fun and games until you're the one getting it up the ass.
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
November 22 2008 15:37 GMT
#9
Maybe he just wanted to stay at someone's house who wouldn't receive mixed signals. I mean, it backfired, but hey.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
November 22 2008 15:42 GMT
#10
ROFL YAQOOB <3 <3...

lmao i dont know u have a goatee.. ROFL

sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
November 22 2008 15:43 GMT
#11
On November 23 2008 00:35 meegrean wrote:
Seriously, stop being so nice.


rofl, i'd never think of bringing in a homeless guy to my house if i saw him on the streets, what happens if he has a weapon of some sort... T_T;;
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
Yaqoob
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
Canada3335 Posts
November 22 2008 15:46 GMT
#12
I'll never make that mistake again.
김택용 Fighting!
KaasZerg
Profile Joined November 2005
Netherlands927 Posts
November 22 2008 15:57 GMT
#13
On November 22 2008 23:51 Yaqoob wrote:
He said he had lots of friends that he could stay with downtown (gay ones), so why is he bothering me.


He is obviously lieing. He is on disability. Exploiting others peoples pitty is his mode of survival. He burned all his bridges and moves from one person to the next to cling on to.
These types are hard to get rid of. They are desperate and often believe their own lies and live in a make believe fantasy world.
Yaqoob
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
Canada3335 Posts
November 22 2008 15:58 GMT
#14
On November 23 2008 00:57 KaasZerg wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 22 2008 23:51 Yaqoob wrote:
He said he had lots of friends that he could stay with downtown (gay ones), so why is he bothering me.


He is obviously lieing. He is on disability. Exploiting others peoples pitty is his mode of survival. He burned all his bridges and moves from one person to the next to cling on to.
These types are hard to get rid of. They are desperate and often believe their own lies and live in a make believe fantasy world.

I wish life had a /squelch or /ignore command like bnet.

I will try to ignore him and hopefully he only comes by today and doesn't come back.
김택용 Fighting!
Salv
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Canada3083 Posts
November 22 2008 16:27 GMT
#15
Shave the goatee; it's obviously making the gays come out of the woodwork!
kAra
Profile Joined September 2004
Germany1387 Posts
November 22 2008 16:47 GMT
#16
epic
mada mada dane
Orome
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Switzerland11984 Posts
November 22 2008 16:52 GMT
#17
It was a really cool thing of you to do, shame it backfired like that.

The problem is that even if you hide from him for the next few days, he's probably going to come back eventually. Most of these people don't have a fix roof over their bed, so they go from acquaintance to acquaintance trying to find shelter. Chances are he'll need a place to stay in the future and remember you were nice to him.

The best course in my opinion is to just tell him he can't stay at your place again if she shows up tomorrow. No need to be a huge dick about it, but you need to get the message across.
On a purely personal note, I'd like to show Yellow the beauty of infinitely repeating Starcraft 2 bunkers. -Boxer
Ki_Do
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Korea (South)981 Posts
November 22 2008 17:01 GMT
#18
you can always say:
-fuck off , im not in ur date list
I've got a point, and i'm ready to kill or die for it.
Straylight
Profile Joined March 2008
Canada706 Posts
November 22 2008 17:11 GMT
#19
On November 22 2008 23:51 Yaqoob wrote:I really don't like this guy and I don't know why he so interested in me.


Cause you almost out of the blue asked him if he was gay? Combine that with the fact that you just picked him up, a bum off the street, with an offer to stay the night.

He thinks you want some gay lovin' dude.
It felt like gravity.
Liquid`Jinro
Profile Blog Joined September 2002
Sweden33719 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-11-22 17:16:45
November 22 2008 17:14 GMT
#20
On November 22 2008 23:58 FanaBatHero wrote:
Lol so I had a friend in the closet (as in, I didn't know) who got more and more involved in my life in a very subtle way, like first asking me to get him high and to continue getting high with him once in a while, to hang out often, talk online... Eventually he asked me to join a gym with him, so I did. Turns out he finished changing last not because he was slow, but because he was checking me out every time. I found this out when a mutual friend of ours left her phone on to prove to me he was gay (I didn't want to believe it) in the car after they dropped me off. Here is how the conversation went:

Her: "You looked like you wanted his dick all night."
Him: "Is it really so obvious?"

I was so terrified. He had been checking me out. He had been getting high with me to get me into a relaxed state of mind. He could have eventually gone for the strike.

Basically what you should do is be straight up with the kid, tell him you're not gay, will never want to experiment, and don't find him attractive in any way, and that he should stop harassing you or you will beat the shit out of him. End of story.

EDIT: Fuck being nice, this kid wants to put his PENIS in your RECTUM and go at it like a jackhammer combined with a plunger. If you sway the same way I do, my answer is NO. And I will bluff or threaten or exaggerate my fighting prowess and superhuman strength to whatever limits need be to ensure that I am unhassled and unraped.

So.. basically, if you were a girl, you'd find it necessary to threaten to kill any male interested in you, that you yourself wasn't interested in?

I mean, the guy sounds a bit weird but he's gay, not a rapist (as far as we know)? No should be enough?

Can't the violence wait until you have actually determined that he wants to rape you (at which point violence is fine, obviously)?
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