Alright, so, last Friday me and a friend were talking about my feelings for someone very special to me; she suggested I wrote a letter. Since we live in different states (but went to school together), I figured this would be a good idea. I wrote the letter right after we talked, then realized I didn't know her address. I told my friend this, and she said she'd get it for me and tell me the next day.
It was completely unnecessary to offer any help, since I talk to this person 3-4 times a week, and could just ask her.
So the next day rolls around, and there's no word from my friend. Luckily I was busy from 8 AM - 12 PM, so it wasn't a huge deal.
Sunday rolls up, and me and the-person-who's-special-to-me have our usual talk; we exchange addresses because, hey, it's Christmas, and best friends send cards and gifts to one another (before you ask, the reason this didn't happen two or three years ago is because: A, last year I was miserable and isolated in a foreign country; and B, because before last year we were living in the same place anyway).
At the same time, I shoot a brief text to my friend and ask her what's up with that favor. Not a single word (I also bugged her on Facebook earlier that day and got completely ignored). Now, in light of the fact that I got this information myself, I'm aggravated but not too annoyed.
Now it's Monday, and I just told my friend that it's cool, that I got the address--I also message her something catty, like "thanks for helping-but-not-really."
Still no word!
Basically she promised to do something for me when I was vulnerable, didn't do it, then ignored me when I asked about it.
At the same time, maybe I was a little too impatient and a little too pushy, and that's always created some friction between us.
Blah. I feel bad about it, but at the same time she could have actually done what she promised to do. It's bad enough I'm nervous about this letter and whether it'll ruin my friendship or create a new relationship, I shouldn't have to second guess one of my other friends too.
Am I in the wrong here?
Edit: Matter is settled! Thanks!